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Frequently asked question: Am I a Karen? No, just curious on what you all think of the term.
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Voted No. It is childish name calling. It is a tribute to the never ending ingenuity of the human mind to make up new ways to substitute epithets for analysis. It is emotional self-satisfaction taking the place of reasoned debate ("Look at how good I am and how awful you are?"), and a net subtraction from the already highly limited stock of human reason and civility.
However, in all that, using a proper name as an acronym as a pejorative - albeit a proper name that is generally used by females - cannot be counted sexist. Unless of course it would have its' equivalent in using a male name.
Even then, calling someone a "Karen" a sexist insult would be the least of its' problems.
Sexism implies the marginalisation of all women. A Karen is a particular type of woman. You can hate Karens without hating all women, which in no way makes you sexist.
That is actually not really true. Sexism is not the marginalization of all women. It is the marginalization of women on the basis of sex. You can claim that women some women should be marginalized base upon their beliefs, their looks, etc. How would that not be sexism if your assessment is primarily concerned with the fact they are women?
@RolandCuthbert I stand corrected on my choice of words and technicalities but my point remains the same. A karen is a type of person, typically female. They are not indicative of all women, which is my disliking them is not sexist. My assessment is not concerned with them being women. I don't know what the male-alternative for the term is, but I'm pretty sure that there are male Karens as well and they are disliked for being that type of person, not for being male in particular.
Much the same way the literary term "Mary Sure" is typically applied to female characters, it is not sexist, because not all female characters in stories are Mary Sues.
I don't think "Karen" is a sexist term. Sexism refers to hate and/or general prejudice based on gender. The term "Karen" is used to refer to racist White women with an entitlement mentality that often makes demands inappropriately, causes unnecessary scenes, calls the police regarding non-emergency matters, and is prone to making false allegations against people, especially if they're Black. The term isn't based on negative views towards women in general, but rather to mock a specific brand of racist, entitled, histrionic, and emotionally unstable woman. Therefore, the term "Karen" isn't sexist.
Not at all, if she is being called Karen it’s because she is a fucking Karen. It isn’t a derogatory term for women, or white women, or white people. It’s a term used to describe a self-entitled stuck up bitch.
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Are people just gonna class every new world people come up with as a slur now?
Im a women and I've called plenty of men Karen and these people who act out and think its okay to have public melt down and act Intitled should be embarrassed and shamed. It's not okay and i hate how they treat people like objects that don't have feelings just because they are at work usually im retail doesn't make them superior as a customer. In most cases the customer is always wrong and these worker's are just going by work policy and they can't just make exceptions for Karens.
No. It is just a description of a personality.
Wanting to speak to the manager, having no brains, yelling for no reason, crying for no reason, playing the victim.
And mostly these personality traits come with a specific look, white female, short hair and huge sunglasses.
Sexist no a bit unfair to women whose name is Karen probably.
And what a few people view as Karen behavior is a projection of their own thinking. Not the majority but some. I'd say just use the term entitled. My daughter used to have a lot of these women at her restaurant job. 9 times out of 10 if I asked if they were my age she would say yes. Being older doesn't give someone the right to step on others who are younger.
No, a Karen is middle age white woman who likes to start shit up cause they are not getting their way. Once they get called out for their foul behavior, that's when they start to use their tears to invoke sympathy out of people in order to stop digging themselves further in the grave/ditch. These women know that, as a white woman, their tears are special kind of weapon that can get someone potentially killed or arrested.
It is a gender specific term. It is a character. A name given to men, though often as a compliment, Chad, should really be an insult. It's basically a man whore, some would rather be a whore with action than a bitch (incel) without it. See incels and chads are two sides of the same coin. Not all incels are virgins, they just gripe about not being able to get it. Both of these are so consumed with sex. Not all virgins are involuntary and have proved they value more than sex. So outside of that, I can't think of male equivalent to karen, but there are character types.
no it's no different to calling someone a mary-sue, or referring to guys as Dave or Steve, or Jamal...
though i firmly believe that the only one's who have an issue with it are women who share the name Karen... people who are incapable of understanding the references
and those who just care about creating chaos and nitpicking and seeing faults where none exist...
I think so. But I think also it is dismissive. There is a chance to have a conversation, but we are in a society that works with labels. So they are just labeling the "White" women and dismissing these incidents when there is an opportunity to have a conversation that can lead to understanding.
This incident is the one that really could have provided insightful analysis.
@avaawolf Right. Because she knew if she called the cops and pretended he intimidated her, that he could be physically attacked, beaten up, and arrested by police. And she was intentionally using that prospect as a weapon. It is "White" privilege at its deadliest.
"I know the police will believe me over you. You are a "Black" man and they know you are the enemy. And I will do it and get away with it. Then no one will know".
Just for the record he was intimidating her, he was also recording her against her wishes. He said his peace and should have moved along and stopped harassing her.
@Warrior_Nun Just for the record, she lied. Her dog was not on a leash. And all he was doing telling her that. Because you know, he was bird watching. For that, she threatened to call the police and lie to them. Because she knew they would believe her over him.
That's why she was fired from her job and he could have had her prosecuted if he so choose. He choose not to.
Americans lol. Where does the footage show that, also so what? It seems more likely a case that she lost her job because of a social media witch hunt after this man doxed her with a video where he was intimidating and harrassing her. Of course she expected the police to believe her, because she was being harrassed and videoed without consent.
If this was here in the UK she could have him prosecuted espicially as she lost her job and with his own video evidence..
@Warrior_Nun Americans?
Uhm. . . what does that even mean? Anyway, why would a company employ a person who was perfectly in the right? And I quote,
""Following our internal review of the incident in Central Park yesterday, we have made the decision to terminate the employee involved, effective immediately. We do not tolerate racism of any kind at Franklin Templeton," the company said.
And you should be glad you are not in America. Because people should keep you under video surveillance 24/7. Because you just lied intentionally. Who is this AmericanCenturion again?
Anyway, she didn't have her dog on a leash. That was against the policy of the park they were in. If anything he should have called the police on her. He didn't. He used common sense and informed her. To which she claimed she was threatened. Which was a lie.
What racism? In the UK if a company called this woman a racist and fired her with no evidence, in the UK a company would support a woman who was harrassed and intimidated by a man illegally videoing and threatening her otherwise there'd be a tribunal where she would be awarded in excess of £50,000 in compensation as its illegal for a company to sack a person for being the victim of crime.
In the UK we have CCTV everywhere. Who is Americancenturion?
In the UK if you called the cops because a dog was off its leash you'd be done for wasting police time, you call the dog warden not the police.
He was threatening her, he was following her and videoing which is intimidation and threatening behaviour.
Under the Protection from Harassment Act (1997) 1 Prohibition of harassment.
(1) A person must not pursue a course of conduct—
(a) which amounts to harassment of another, and
(b) which he knows or ought to know amounts to harassment of the other.
(2) For the purposes of this section, the person whose course of conduct is in question ought to know that it amounts to harassment of another if a reasonable person in possession of the same information would think the course of conduct amounted to harassment of the other.
The amount only matters insofar as a reasonable person would consider it, in the circumstances, to be harassment of the other.
Additionally, you may be able, if you show psychiatric injury, to pursue a tort of psychiatric injury against the perpetrator.
Doxing which is what this man did is also illegal here in the UK. Sort yourself out America lol
@Warrior_Nun I don't live in the UK. If you don't like "Black" people in the UK, kick them out. That isn't my problem. You insane racist fruitcakes make more and more nonsense every single day. You can't control entire races of people yet you talk just like you can.
In America, she should have been throw in jail for filing a false police report. If you don't like it then do not step foot on American soil. Because if you file a false report on me or another "Black" person they will have you locked up.
@Warrior_Nun I don't care about your nuttiness or racist confusion. That is a discussion you need to have with you other personalities. I am just telling straight, if you try to file a false police report on American soil, that is against the law.
If you think you can do that in the UK, that one is on you. I have friends in the UK and they tell me a completely different story.
Intimidation, harrassing and recording a person without consent is against the law in most civilised countries regardless of race. As for American laws may I just point out that in certain places in your country beastiality is legal. I will let you get back to planning to shoot up your local school. #MERICA
@Warrior_Nun Haha! Nobody was intimidating her. And she proved it with her lies. She wasn't scared. She wasn't shocked. She was going to try to get the "Black" guy in trouble by saying he was threatening her which he clearly was not. Again, don't step foot on American soil with that nonsense. Because if you do, you probably won't meet a nice "Black" guy. You will meet someone who will prosecute you crazed racist tail to the fullest extent of the law.
She was intimadated hence why she called the police. Its pretty intimidating being filmed without permission while alone in the park, its also illegal in most civilised countries to dox a person. But America has messed up laws as it was probably more legal to shoot the man harrassing her than to call the cops. #MERICA
@Warrior_Nun We all saw the video. She wasn't intimidated. In fact, she was approaching him. She wasn't scared at all. She nearly kills her dog because she is upset that a "Black" man would dare tell her to follow the rules. And if it were me, she would cooling her heels in a jail cell. I don't know why the brother can't see she is a threat. And if the tables were turned, she would have no mercy on him.
She was intimadated, she was scared, as you see in the video she was hysterical with fear.
I doubt if the tables were turned that he would be doxed and sacked from his job as the result of a social media witch hunt but hey this is #MERICA a place were people shoog each other fof giving a dirty look
Unlikely, but maybe a little bit. From what i understand it's intended for someone with a dangerously overdeveloped sense of entitlement that usually happens to be a white woman. Not a white woman that happens to have a dangerously overdeveloped sense of entitlement.
If that's correct, then
"Boomer" is Sexist.
Pretty soon, we won't be allowed to refer to friends as "Dude", "Sister", "Bro", or even "Bub". That will all become "Offensive" and "Provocative".
Sometimes I really hate the way things are going around here.
You know what I love about the term Karen, is now nobody wants to be a Karen, not even women. This has been extremely effective in curbing bitchiness all round.
A great success of meme culture. If only the term 'npc' caught on to the same degree. That is god, and it covers the retards on both sides of the gender divide.
NUH UH intersectionality bitches!
"Karen" represents a discussion that's in my opinion long overdue about the entitlement to undeserved and often unnecessary 'protections' held by so many white women in America. Look into the execution of Emett Till to get an idea of how ugly it could get.
I find it amusing that some women are already feeling slighted by the popularity of the term Karen. That's what you get for inventing "mansplain". Oh, how you loved that one. Now enjoy the Karen-ing. :)
So instead or just calling the person what they are we try to mask it as a slightly more polite manner while making the name a derogatory offense. I feel a little bad for those who names are karen and dont act that way. If i had to agree to that id say calling the guy version a duane would be more appropriate than a todd but what do i know
Women complaining about being called a Karen is the most Karen thing there is in the history of Karens.
The only women that are upset about this term are most likely the ones that it applies to.
The reason there isn't a male equivalent of a Karen is because most unruly customers are women. More specifically, white women. I work in customer service so I know.
Nope. I'm just glad that the terminology has developed and help bring these kinds of white women to light, who I've also written about in older Takes of mine. They are a menace to a society and in a lot of ways are worse than white men.
I think there are much ways to communicate that don’t involve this integrating this stereotypical term
Karens gonna karen
Its not derogatory. If it doesn't apply to you, then you shouldn't be offended. Anyone offended by this is most likely guilty of being a karen.
There's no reasoning with Karen's. The only way to deal with a karen is to call them out on being a karen. Blowing smoke up their ass and hemming and hawing doesn't solve anything. Karen's are people that were never told 'no' as a kid and were given anything they wanted when they wanted it.
They should be mocked.
If her name is KAREN, Yesssss... As of Today., You cannot even say ADAM'S APPLE. I guess this "Karen" is now Replacing "Nancy" that I thought was a Gay Term? xx
Just like the word “simp” Karen had lost his charm and meaning.
Now any woman who want to voice her opinion is a Karen and any man who doesn’t treat women like trash is a simp
Nothing sexist about it. Karens and Todds are those annoying customers/people who want to talk to your manager or boss because you are doing your job in enforcing the rules or guidelines, which the Karens and Todds do not think apply to them..
as far as I know or care to know , Karen is just the name you give to your daughter just like Kyle is a name you can give to your son ! thanks
Sexist, no
Derogative, yes
Funny/sad? You bet!
I would say it's just like calling someone a Florida Man/Woman
There is specific behavior behind the term. Just don't act like that and you won't be called that. I will also call guys a "Karen" if he acts like that.
I don't know. I started watching clips with "entitled Karens" largely because I was getting tired of Baby Boomers acting like they are better than us millennials. Now however, criticism of such contempt has become a form of contempt itself.
Derogatory, rude, reductionist, but not necessarily sexist.
Nope, i had to laugh at the accuracy. I had to deal with one Karen and she was definitely a Karen.
Nah. I’m sure there’s a male equivalent, I just don’t know it.
I feel bad for anyone named Karen who is not a Karen lol
Find out who Karen was and you will get a better impression. But it could be shorthand for "insufferable, self-centered bitch".
If we want to erase all 'doubtful' words in this world ---> we better stop talking and writing entirely :D
Kinda but not really. That’s more like a term to describe a stuck up entitled woman.
If a woman is a Karen, I want her to be offended when I call her Karen.
If you think it is sexist, you are probably a Karen.
It's offensive to nice normal women who are called Karen but not sexist.
you are a karen. should I get the manager if you are offended?
@NarutoUzumaki007 nah I just deal with Karens very often.
Of course not. It's just a name for women that are acting way too entitled, stubborn and just annoying
Karen’s are called Karen’s because their entitled how is it sexist? I’m genuinely confused and I wanna know
No, but then again depends how Karen you are about it.
It's not a sexist term... That's stupid. I guess boomer is a sexist term towards old people -3-
what the fuck's that even suppose to mean calling a woman karen? I swear you millennial motherfuckers come up with the stupidest shit for insulting white people I've ever seen
Why would it be against women in general? It's against a certain kind of women.
No, she's a karen, everything is sexist to that bitch
No, but who the hell is Karen? Just call them what they’re emotionally unstable soccer moms because soccer mom is the original term
Is calling a man a dick sexist?
Is there anything some people will not try to characterize as sexist these days? Fucking thin skin.
I don't think it is sexist. I think it is puerile and sad, like most pejorative labels.
I don't call it sexist. It's me not calling a woman a B-I tch
Even if it is, they're still a Karen. Don't act like a Karen if you don't want to be called one.
It's rude, but not sexist. Most of the time these so called Karen's are right.
It has developed in to a word that identifies racism
WTF does that even mean and why would it be sexist? Also, your link goes nowhere.
She missed the last parens
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karen_(pejorative)
So which future Karen of the world wrote this? :D
Just asking out of curiosity.
Ah ok. Be careful bout those karens, and those kevins too. Ugh, fucking Kevins.
Only a Karen would say it is
Derogatory, but not sexist.
would you prefer being called "bob" or something?
I think its hilarious.
That might be her name.
As a Karen herself, I approve
depends on if you're joking or not
I have no idea what the term "Karen" means.
Unfortunately, no, it's not
Nope, guys have "Kyle".
Never even heard of this.
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