Guys are attracted to beautiful females so that is a big factor. I am attracted to those who have a similar political view as I do but I am also attracted to someone who can discuss things in a civil manner if they dont. When someone asks an interesting question I will consider following them as well
Genuine friendliness. Someone who is not affected or phony. They are bright and have a great sense of humor without being a silly ditz. Looks, good grooming and tasteful appearance are also important.
Its usually a combination of things including personality, looks, and perceptiveness, but often it's mainly making an effort to get to know and understand others.
First off the pic is innaccurate. That girl would hit it big with her cute self and her talents. But yeah if its not looks, its some talent or its just their personality hits right with certain people and catches on.
Me too, I appreciate talent but I have followed or given likes to people who are just like everything that turns me on aesthetically. Which is rare and I've never regretted any of my likes or follows in that. I say if you're trying to make your talent known just make sure you're really grasping your audience. Its a balance of heart, mind and will, and freedom. All that leading to an attractive "sexiness" of maybe a new sort if you will. I hope that makes sense.
Oh I see so you're too sexy lol well I'm sorry. But being an attractive artist is a very appealing turn on for most people in general. A work of art making art is awesome. Better to maybe go anonymous at first? Bypass the horny A holes. The attention could bring more views in as well and could gain popularity over time for what you want to be known for.
Something called marketing skills. They make target audiences, get more rich and they're not afraid to advertise. It's all in confidence in making yourself visible no matter how untalented you are. Confidence itself is already impressive.
Yeah sure that picture can be true but that girl with good art can be more popular than those instagram models if she is as confident as them. She can start blogging and do other things in her channel
Well, I actually don't think number can be a reliable measurement. You know you are awesome in many ways, it's people's ability if they can't see that. Mass = superficiality. Less people are attracted on a deeper level. Right?
Style and presentation is key. Ever notice some YouTube channels don't talk about anything important yet they have million of subscribers and views? Their style and presentation is what makes them famous.
Style and presentation is definitely important, but I have seen plenty of people with great style with no audience at all. As well as people with awful style and a huge audience. Regardless of the prompt saying regardless of looks. It doesn't change the fact that popularity is heavily based off of looks. No doubt about it.
Nah I'm a designer, a public speaker, and I'm actually overall just really into Media and entertainment. My idea of style is based off of production quality and ability. The work and effort put into videos etc. There are very "popular" people on say youtube that literally will sit in front of their camera and talk about how they slammed their fingers in a door. With a few jump cuts here and there to cut out coughs sneezes and just awkward bits. With a few edits here and there so that the video is "funny" most of the time the people who make these kinds of videos are girls. They don't have 100k views because they have style but because they are a pretty face on the internet.
One of my favourite you tube channels is Viva la dirt league. They have insane quality and production on their budgeted videos and they are funny. Yet they ONLY have 2.35 million subscribers. But my point is some people have to work harder to get more support than other do. Essentially. Because 20 something year old girls with a pretty face can talk about getting their hair stuck in a Can opener, and have just as many views as a whole team of guys making comedy skits about work life and video games.
I understand too that there is an audience for everything right. Like there are trendsetters make up artists, and fashion designers all over the internet who appeal to the girls (and guys) who like that kind of thing. You have to remember too that there are many people that are into video games. As there are many people into tech. As there are many people into politics and history. So interest and style is a factor but it doesn't seem like it. Due to people with minimal style and minimal effort are more popular or just as popular as people with more style and who exert themselves twice as much.
Thank you very much for your perspective. It explained really well. Of course I notice how it goes. Wjat if I don't have looks to attract others, how to make people notice and Listen to me?
Oh. LOL. I'm an atheist, but I prefer morality. I just think most religions even some cults have some good principles to keep up with. I don't agree with everything a religion teaches us.
What you noted is very interesting. I just think about Osho and how he became famous. He allowed people to connect to their deepest instincts without judging if it's right or wrong. His fellow can be free and do whatever they feel happy. That could be related.
She is out going making her b look more desirable. But if I had the choice I would go for the girl on the right. The girl on the left is all me me me...
There is more than just looks. I remember a girl with masculine features was pretty popular on tiktok but I found her dirt. And another girl from real life was sweet and lonely
They start drama as soon as they know a guy is not into them. Then they have this victim playing strategy where they make it look like they are pretty poor or can't get anything in life despite the fact they are pretty well off. Basically, lie about their real financial position to get sympathy from guys. Lying about themselves and others just so they can make fool of guys. Multiple guys as back ups 😂. That's one of the lies though Making it look like they are innocent when in fact they would gladly sleep around should they smell a well off guy.
Telling everyone their parents are pretty strict when these girls are doing night shifts themselves and would be into doing anything that gets them cash in their purse. Greedy etc.
Oh. My. Sounds like sex workers here who claim they need to support their families, and have no other choices to work. And some men fall in love with them. Huh huh huh huh huh...
I can assure you in most cases it is a fake case. These same girls don't go to the root of the case. In most of these cases they don't get a DNA testing and neither launch FIR. I have known a few people who were genuinely innocent but the police harassed them on such girls claims and they end up in jails without trial for few years or so before being proved innocent.
And no girl is getting forced over anything like that. They can choose to reject a boy their parents choose but they willingly accept such offers. Ky friend recently got false hope from a girl till she engaged someone else and she said that job, car and a house is the norm in the society and he should have it if he wants to marry her. So I don't buy into this type of accusations and slender that these girls make up to make outsiders feel like they are the victims. And girls who want to marry their own choice do it even if they come from the most conservative background they can claim. It is very rare indeed if a girl is put through harm. Mostly such girls run away from home to be with their man and when the money goes so does the made in china love story that they believed. I bet such girl didn't tell you about the cases where she and the girl's family lured a guy and killed him out of family enmity with boy's family. So it is not all girls being as helpless as these girls claim. The girls can be as evil as boys here, may be more
I am willing to take an oath over my words that girls like easy life and just don't want to take the risk of a hard life with a poor guy who can offer them love but not many dresses, make up and all that And the rapes happen all over the world and by comparison they are statistically 100times lesser than U. S statistics
Thank you foe sharing. I still have a lot to learn. As a woman, I kind of understand why some girls are like that. With cultural beliefs and religion influence, women should remain virgin before marriage, right? Alas, they/us also want love esp. when being young and have no idea what love exactly is. Some lost it for their boyfriends. Then when it's time to get married. Lies seem to be an option. Very sad. That's why I don't want to have a relationship until I'm mature enough. Personally, I think if a man is younger than 30, it's better to be single until he's stable. So that good men won't be lead on like what you told.
If he is stable and a woman is only looking at stability then what difference does it make between an arranged marriage and calling an arranged marriage love. Her goal is getting into marriage with anyone; his goal was getting married to her. For you, isn't it easy to get married? And these girls don't wait they are so hasty in getting married they would marry a robber as long as he is stable😂
Robber is a real job? Lol. I don't think that's stable in a long run. For me, it's hard to get married. I'm not interested in men in my country, so do they. We don't have arrange marriages (as far as I know) these days. I have no idea what they are like. If I don't meet a foreign man who wants to marry me, maybe I will in my next life. 😂😂
just look at Kaceytron. she was one of the pioneers in boobie streaming and actually the only boobies streamer I respected cause she had put on such an act that it seemed she had potential to be an actor. it's always came for boobies, stayed for content
I think you took it the wrong way. by retarded I mean that I have an intent to act like that because I am always so bored. I can control it but I don't see why I should I feel better just letting my toughts flow
Honestly, popularity is a concept that has never really interested me as I personally don't see the appeal of being exposed like that. Besides, it's a broad topic and it depends a lot on the context.
Yes. I usually see the concept as a pyramid. Broad and common topics at the bottom, and more complex are on the top. Alas, when you have something that need to inform to many people as possible, popurarity now is included.
Can you share your observation on people here? I would like to know what makes some people stand out? What are their questions are about and how they answer?
Some people on here are popular despite posting rarely, some are popular despite a lower Xper, some have huge Xper yet are not popular, some are popular yet I rarely come across them...
I guess one way to be popular on here as a woman is to show pictures, especially sexy ones. Add to that a few sexual questions and you should attract a lot of thirsty boys who will follow you blindly. This has the side effect of getting you all sorts of annoying messages.
Personally, what makes someone stand out in my eyes is who they are as a person. I follow you because I find your questions and responses interesting and I like your personality, at least from what I have seen.
As always... I'm appreciated. 😊😊 I followed you because of your wisdom, too. Totally agreed, I just posted some pics of me in the profile and a question. No boobs. Men messaged me instantly. Lol. So thank you for seeing me as a person, not my look. I still have lots of things to ask and share. People here are still better than "friends" in FB. Peace!
Thank you for your kind words! :) I'm honestly glad to not have to deal with thirsty people going after me like that.
To me, there are plenty of beautiful women out there but interesting women are much more rare and I think you are one of them. By that, I mean interesting as a person, not because you are a woman. Besides, I feel like we share some values and it's always nice to share some values with someone.
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Guys are attracted to beautiful females so that is a big factor. I am attracted to those who have a similar political view as I do but I am also attracted to someone who can discuss things in a civil manner if they dont. When someone asks an interesting question I will consider following them as well
Genuine friendliness. Someone who is not affected or phony. They are bright and have a great sense of humor without being a silly ditz.
Looks, good grooming and tasteful appearance are also important.
Acting cheerful, emitting "light", promoting yourself in ways that do not make others feel incompetent.
"Inspiring", right? That's a way of how an empathetic person does. 💗👍
Great personality and just being real and natural and comfortable in your own skin without trying too hard..
I agree. Being authentic with good qualities always work.
👍👍🙃
Its usually a combination of things including personality, looks, and perceptiveness, but often it's mainly making an effort to get to know and understand others.
First off the pic is innaccurate. That girl would hit it big with her cute self and her talents. But yeah if its not looks, its some talent or its just their personality hits right with certain people and catches on.
I hope more people would be able to focus on a deeper level like you.
Me too, I appreciate talent but I have followed or given likes to people who are just like everything that turns me on aesthetically. Which is rare and I've never regretted any of my likes or follows in that. I say if you're trying to make your talent known just make sure you're really grasping your audience. Its a balance of heart, mind and will, and freedom. All that leading to an attractive "sexiness" of maybe a new sort if you will. I hope that makes sense.
I tried. It ended up with people keep sexualizing me, and ignore my opinions. 😅😅
Oh I see so you're too sexy lol well I'm sorry. But being an attractive artist is a very appealing turn on for most people in general. A work of art making art is awesome. Better to maybe go anonymous at first? Bypass the horny A holes. The attention could bring more views in as well and could gain popularity over time for what you want to be known for.
Okay. 😆 Thank you for sharing.
Something called marketing skills. They make target audiences, get more rich and they're not afraid to advertise. It's all in confidence in making yourself visible no matter how untalented you are. Confidence itself is already impressive.
Get more *reaches
Yeah sure that picture can be true but that girl with good art can be more popular than those instagram models if she is as confident as them. She can start blogging and do other things in her channel
Good idea. Thanks.
I've always noticed it to still be looks and personality, and by personality I mean someone who is very extroverted.
But I'm very much so like the girl with a "15" in the question photo; I'm not popular at all 😆
Well, I actually don't think number can be a reliable measurement. You know you are awesome in many ways, it's people's ability if they can't see that. Mass = superficiality. Less people are attracted on a deeper level. Right?
Style and presentation is key. Ever notice some YouTube channels don't talk about anything important yet they have million of subscribers and views? Their style and presentation is what makes them famous.
Style and presentation is definitely important, but I have seen plenty of people with great style with no audience at all. As well as people with awful style and a huge audience. Regardless of the prompt saying regardless of looks. It doesn't change the fact that popularity is heavily based off of looks. No doubt about it.
@NotKrispy: Your definition style differ from the majority otherwise their channel will be popular.
Nah I'm a designer, a public speaker, and I'm actually overall just really into Media and entertainment. My idea of style is based off of production quality and ability. The work and effort put into videos etc. There are very "popular" people on say youtube that literally will sit in front of their camera and talk about how they slammed their fingers in a door. With a few jump cuts here and there to cut out coughs sneezes and just awkward bits. With a few edits here and there so that the video is "funny" most of the time the people who make these kinds of videos are girls. They don't have 100k views because they have style but because they are a pretty face on the internet.
One of my favourite you tube channels is Viva la dirt league. They have insane quality and production on their budgeted videos and they are funny. Yet they ONLY have 2.35 million subscribers. But my point is some people have to work harder to get more support than other do. Essentially. Because 20 something year old girls with a pretty face can talk about getting their hair stuck in a Can opener, and have just as many views as a whole team of guys making comedy skits about work life and video games.
I understand too that there is an audience for everything right. Like there are trendsetters make up artists, and fashion designers all over the internet who appeal to the girls (and guys) who like that kind of thing. You have to remember too that there are many people that are into video games. As there are many people into tech. As there are many people into politics and history. So interest and style is a factor but it doesn't seem like it. Due to people with minimal style and minimal effort are more popular or just as popular as people with more style and who exert themselves twice as much.
@NotKrispy: I've seen ugly dudes and women with lots of views.
Thank you very much for your perspective. It explained really well. Of course I notice how it goes. Wjat if I don't have looks to attract others, how to make people notice and Listen to me?
Be loud and passionate @el_Te_de_la_Rosa
@NotKrispy A public speaker's secret?
Okay. I'm practising.
Being unique in a entertaining way whether its hobbies, personality, or being eye candy.
Agreed.
Immorality > Morality,
atheists believe this concept.
Oh. LOL. I'm an atheist, but I prefer morality. I just think most religions even some cults have some good principles to keep up with. I don't agree with everything a religion teaches us.
What you noted is very interesting. I just think about Osho and how he became famous. He allowed people to connect to their deepest instincts without judging if it's right or wrong. His fellow can be free and do whatever they feel happy. That could be related.
Having an outgoing personality, being funny, being friendly, joining a lot of activities and clubs.
Basically, that is an extrovert?
Yep, pretty much! You put my whole list into only one word.
Thank you. Are you one?
Sometimes but not always.
Ambivert? That's awesome.
Thanks. :)
Which one are you/
I'm introverted. The latest time I took the test, the percentage increased from 70 to 80 since the quarantine. Lol 😅😅
That's so funny. I guess that shows that the test is accurate then, if it could detect that change!
Confidence and courage and strength and self acceptance and kindness make people popular
I believe kindness is the key.
How the act and talk. How they treat others. How successful they are.
Thank you. So fame increases fame?
She is out going making her b look more desirable.
But if I had the choice I would go for the girl on the right.
The girl on the left is all me me me...
Nice to hear that. Well, it's also true that most men would flock over women with beauty rather than ones with talents.
But as the saying goes, beauty is only skin deep...
Of course. And skills are skull deep!
There is more than just looks. I remember a girl with masculine features was pretty popular on tiktok but I found her dirt.
And another girl from real life was sweet and lonely
How about here?
Here it is somewhat better. Though some girls are crazy
Oh. I'm interested. Can you share the overall characteristics of ones who are crazy?
They start drama as soon as they know a guy is not into them.
Then they have this victim playing strategy where they make it look like they are pretty poor or can't get anything in life despite the fact they are pretty well off. Basically, lie about their real financial position to get sympathy from guys.
Lying about themselves and others just so they can make fool of guys.
Multiple guys as back ups 😂. That's one of the lies though
Making it look like they are innocent when in fact they would gladly sleep around should they smell a well off guy.
Telling everyone their parents are pretty strict when these girls are doing night shifts themselves and would be into doing anything that gets them cash in their purse.
Greedy etc.
Oh. My. Sounds like sex workers here who claim they need to support their families, and have no other choices to work. And some men fall in love with them. Huh huh huh huh huh...
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa you really said the right words. That is not here but most girls in my country
Interesting. What I heard a lot about your country is raping and stuff. Mostly from girls. I would like to learn perspectives from guys.
I can assure you in most cases it is a fake case. These same girls don't go to the root of the case.
In most of these cases they don't get a DNA testing and neither launch FIR.
I have known a few people who were genuinely innocent but the police harassed them on such girls claims and they end up in jails without trial for few years or so before being proved innocent.
And no girl is getting forced over anything like that. They can choose to reject a boy their parents choose but they willingly accept such offers. Ky friend recently got false hope from a girl till she engaged someone else and she said that job, car and a house is the norm in the society and he should have it if he wants to marry her.
So I don't buy into this type of accusations and slender that these girls make up to make outsiders feel like they are the victims.
And girls who want to marry their own choice do it even if they come from the most conservative background they can claim. It is very rare indeed if a girl is put through harm. Mostly such girls run away from home to be with their man and when the money goes so does the made in china love story that they believed.
I bet such girl didn't tell you about the cases where she and the girl's family lured a guy and killed him out of family enmity with boy's family. So it is not all girls being as helpless as these girls claim. The girls can be as evil as boys here, may be more
I am willing to take an oath over my words that girls like easy life and just don't want to take the risk of a hard life with a poor guy who can offer them love but not many dresses, make up and all that
And the rapes happen all over the world and by comparison they are statistically 100times lesser than U. S statistics
Thank you foe sharing.
I still have a lot to learn. As a woman, I kind of understand why some girls are like that. With cultural beliefs and religion influence, women should remain virgin before marriage, right? Alas, they/us also want love esp. when being young and have no idea what love exactly is. Some lost it for their boyfriends. Then when it's time to get married. Lies seem to be an option. Very sad. That's why I don't want to have a relationship until I'm mature enough. Personally, I think if a man is younger than 30, it's better to be single until he's stable. So that good men won't be lead on like what you told.
If he is stable and a woman is only looking at stability then what difference does it make between an arranged marriage and calling an arranged marriage love. Her goal is getting into marriage with anyone; his goal was getting married to her.
For you, isn't it easy to get married? And these girls don't wait they are so hasty in getting married they would marry a robber as long as he is stable😂
Robber is a real job? Lol. I don't think that's stable in a long run. For me, it's hard to get married. I'm not interested in men in my country, so do they. We don't have arrange marriages (as far as I know) these days. I have no idea what they are like. If I don't meet a foreign man who wants to marry me, maybe I will in my next life. 😂😂
😃 and which country are you from?
I don't want to marry women in my country.
And yes those girls are so excited about getting married they don't really care who they marry as long as she gets money and a house
Thailand. I would go for only Caucasian. Lol. From what I've observed, they're more faithful. (I used to date a Thai-Pakistani, he's a womanizer. 😢😂)
Oh too bad, you had a bad experience.
I think you should up your effort to find a Caucasian male
I guess knowing how to use the platform to your advantage
Example, please?
just look at Kaceytron. she was one of the pioneers in boobie streaming and actually the only boobies streamer I respected cause she had put on such an act that it seemed she had potential to be an actor. it's always came for boobies, stayed for content
I doubt that... would men actually listen to women when they spot boobies? 😕
I did but they say I am retarded at work so maybe that's just me
Nah... Some people just love to put others down. Prove them you're awesome!
Self-control is the key.
I think you took it the wrong way. by retarded I mean that I have an intent to act like that because I am always so bored. I can control it but I don't see why I should I feel better just letting my toughts flow
Honestly, popularity is a concept that has never really interested me as I personally don't see the appeal of being exposed like that. Besides, it's a broad topic and it depends a lot on the context.
Yes. I usually see the concept as a pyramid. Broad and common topics at the bottom, and more complex are on the top. Alas, when you have something that need to inform to many people as possible, popurarity now is included.
Can you share your observation on people here? I would like to know what makes some people stand out? What are their questions are about and how they answer?
Honestly, the best I can tell you is : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t348e24vDyA
Some people on here are popular despite posting rarely, some are popular despite a lower Xper, some have huge Xper yet are not popular, some are popular yet I rarely come across them...
I guess one way to be popular on here as a woman is to show pictures, especially sexy ones. Add to that a few sexual questions and you should attract a lot of thirsty boys who will follow you blindly. This has the side effect of getting you all sorts of annoying messages.
Personally, what makes someone stand out in my eyes is who they are as a person. I follow you because I find your questions and responses interesting and I like your personality, at least from what I have seen.
As always... I'm appreciated. 😊😊 I followed you because of your wisdom, too. Totally agreed, I just posted some pics of me in the profile and a question. No boobs. Men messaged me instantly. Lol. So thank you for seeing me as a person, not my look. I still have lots of things to ask and share. People here are still better than "friends" in FB. Peace!
I love the vid by the way.
Thank you for your kind words! :) I'm honestly glad to not have to deal with thirsty people going after me like that.
To me, there are plenty of beautiful women out there but interesting women are much more rare and I think you are one of them. By that, I mean interesting as a person, not because you are a woman. Besides, I feel like we share some values and it's always nice to share some values with someone.
😙😙😙
I particularly like your mature views on a lot of topics for example.
Wow nice art totoro
Too bad you look miserable holding it up
Imma thumb that girl down
I think that reflects how the girl who puts effort in her artwork would feel, comparing and disappointed.