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To be casual about things. I like people who just laugh things off are not bothered about how there seen kinda thing. Not ignorant type of not caring but you know just the type were your been true to yourself. If your a gamer girl for example don't just play a game if you don't like that game for views much better to say ah that game is bs me not thanks. It makes funny and shows they don't just do stuff they don't want to do to get popular.
This happens with anything you can tell what girls are just forcing there body on to the screen for views but you can tell the ones who don't there body is just shown because surprising they actually want to show it off because it makes them feel good. It's all about been comfortable doing what your doing if you are others will be so. Better to see a creator happy than just produce stuff they pretend to care about.
There is 2 types of people, People who get popular by trying to hard, then those who get popular by been themselves. Each can gain high popularity. Mine would be towards people who are been themselves. Even tho it is of course hard to tell at times who's been themselves or just great at pretending.
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I think popularity can feed on itself. I think it's also knowing "the right people" and then a bit of luck mixed in with (sometimes) hard work, but there's an element of luck in there. Hard workers don't always get to "make it."
A brilliant whiz with marketing, or numbers, or making money, or networking, or look good on camera... these can be important. And not all those things require "famous genes"... but it certainly helps.
Now, if you're a jerk, or you're super lazy, or you cheat people, it will probably eventually come back to bite you in the butt. It IS certainly possible to improve, and pull yourself up and make it in life in spite of challenges. But it does make it a lot easier if "the right people" know you and love you, or you have influence that they want, so they'll scratch your back if you'll scratch theirs.
I'm own a small business. I've casually met some local "movers and shakers" on occasion... But they don't "have time" for me. I'm not influential, I'm not in their circles, they've ignored me when I DID happen to work while around them, because they were busy shmoozing and name dropping. I'm no name, no influence. ANY recommendation from employees in their companies will fall on deaf ears because THEY don't know me, and they barely know their employees. I'm not in their circles, so my name doesn't get out there.
But I'll keep working. Maybe someday, someone will notice and I'll take off. Who knows?
Sure. I believe in hard work and self-imporvement. (With the power of ads and PR, too) One day you'll be noticed because of you continuously provide qualities. Fake and cheap products or service won't stay for long. Time proves who is true diamond.
Thank you for sharing. Good luck!
Damn. đ improvement. What else?
Sadly looks is part of how someone will become popular and noticed these days. Itâs a shame in my opinion because the girl who will sell herself will have everyone wanting to know her every thought and move and the other girl whoâs either average looking or flawed, will either be called out or unnoticed. I know because Iâm that girl and I never was popular and always felt like an odd ball but as you get older I think you start to care less because you have so much going on in your life and you realize popularity isnât the most and only important thing in this world because at the end of the day it ainât gonna pay your bills, buy love, or real happiness because youâll always be needing that popularity to get you somewhere and once it goes away, youâre just a normal person. In reality itâs more overall just a common thing if you put yourself out there on the internet once you graduate high school but people donât care so much in real life anymore once high school is over. Just my thoughts.
I'm with you. đ
"... as you get older I think you start to care less because you have so much going on in your life..."
Yes. If you're an old soul, you'd notice the pattern. How superficiality is short-life; especially, fake ones.
Looks fade by the way. That's why I'm pro to skills over skin. Skills make you survive, skin eventually expires.
Being rich works the best ~ you can boy your looks friends talents and popularity even wealth.
for regular people I think personality and talent play a huge roll , but once we are talking famous - itâs wealth bc wealth can give the illusion of interesting or smart or pretty or more wealthy than you are ~ bc you pay people to create your persona. if you donât have wealth~ itâs sexuality.
name one famous person who didnât gay there with money or sex ( giving of their own sexuality or selling someone elseâs or attacking sexuality in general ). There are none.
True. Normal beautiful people are normal. Wealth can summon beauty as much as one wants. Plastic surgery these days can transform a man to a pretty woman so easily. (If there's no accident. đ) Then, they can be beautiful and rich. And others follow them wishing they would be the same one day.
I think overall rich people have an image of success that draws attention from public instantly. Alas, less people are curious "why". They just want to know "how".
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That picture sums it up pretty well. Itâs all about catering towards thirsty individuals and also fame.
Very true. Utillizing something to provoke the desires or instincts is a way to draw attention I think. Now, I doubt how long to be viewed as a respectable person once you sexualize yourself... đđ
Classical feminism used to be against âobjectifyingâ yourself. Now sexualizing yourself is a form of âexpressionâ.
@bluetoblack99 I'm too old to do that. Lol
There are woman older than you running around the streets naked in a form of âprotestâ
@bluetoblack99 I'm sorry I have to say that is immature and seems stupid to me.
You and me both. But they are âprotestingâ and âexpressing themselvesâ.
Popularity comes in two forms usually: Relatablity: being like everyone else and being able to cash in on what people have in common (stand up comics, YouTubers, and politicians). And Superiority: being greater than most people in a certain thing or things and inspiring people to want to be like you (actors and athletes).
People who are not popular are usually boring, mediocre, or seen by the wrong crowd of people. In the rarest cases, you may have exceptional people (like the woman on the right of this drawing), who are worthy of popularity, but not being exposed to the right kind of people. That sometimes happens, but 80% of the time, people are unpopular usually either because they're boring (40%) or because they're mediocre/average/unexceptional/unskilled (40%). Being unpopular doesn't make you bad, however, it does make it harder to change things.
Very interesting.
I can see the conflict in most people. They follow the majority, mindlessly copying others to become recognized. They didn't realize they are swallowed by the crowd, and not speacial anymore. On the other hand, being different is a sin. Unfortunately.
Yes. Most people are sheep. However, I believe it is better to be respected and admired by a handful of people for being yourself than to be loved by millions of strangers for being a puppet and having to hide who you truly are. That's why so many celebrities are miserable and do drugs and things like that, despite being rich and loved by so many.
And frankly, as someone who wanted to be super famous when he was younger, I've learned over time that it is not only mentally exhausting, but also a waste of time. Most people aren't worth impressing, and most people also do not recognize a beautiful standout over a superficial clone of society's "ideal" standards. This is especially the case with Western standards of beauty.
You spoke my mind.
Right. Behind smiles and fame, how many people can actually touch your soul... Millions of people admire you just on the surface. It's meaningless. Many keep changing their entire looks just to be a tool to sell products. That's just a part of consumerism. (I just pretend I know a lot on this issue. đ)
Well, I have to disgree on one thing. Asian beauty standard is as scary, too.
I'm not sure how much in the west. But here women are okay to have parts their jaws "trimmed" to have a slim, V-shape face. Bleaching skin to look very pale. Some even inject toxic chemicals in their bodies. Oh my...
Here is the beauty standard in my country. You've got to look like this to be "Pretty".
www.google.com/search
Example on the left is false, due to the now overuse of photoshop and filters... Make that as you will
Being popular is getting many likes on false images, thats sad.. As an adult my heart drops seeing young girls doing that and putting chemicals in their lips just to be liked by others.. I can see it in 20 years times these girls turning to women with their lips falling off.
And I'd be careful of mixing up popular with well liked...
Popular could mean they are that due to being bullies and the people to scared of the popular person, meaning they only have friends who are scared of them and scared they'll get picked on themselves.. In reality the so called popular person is disliked and the friends only follow hoping that person trips themselves up
Well liked is someone who is genuinely a nice person, has charisma and fun to be around people just like to be in their company regardless of how they look... Those tho are rare tho
Thank you. I noticed that too. So many boys and girls fall into the trap of Instant Gratification without thinking thoroughly what could be the potential outcomes.
In some cases, there's no need to wait for 20 years. One 18 year old girl becomes unconscious while having breast implant surgery. That's very sad. I think the best way is to avoid social media like that. So we won't compare ourselves to others' "images".
90 percent of the time the images are false... What looks good now will in 10 years time be mocked Nd ridiculed. I hope this false era is over quick and girls go back to looking like girls rather than waxwork drag Queens. Keep the false image for the stage of Las Vegas
I hope so. If we can show them how these trends will be replaced with new ones and never stop, it might somehow enlighten them. Like corset, like chiness shoes...
Also I agree with you that today style's from Drag queens. I watched the Race since the 1st season, and then Eureka moment hit me.
With most it`s strength or beauty those are false friends it`s like being surrounded by vultures waiting for the day you crash that's not a friend I have been fortunate to have experienced being popular pretty good. The problem with it is that you attract a high degree of good and bad attention and believe it or not eventually it just grinds you down till you get fed up with it. look for real friends instead someone said your lucky if you can count 5 people as your friends it is so true.
Just take a look at all the ex celebrities they where popular once
Absolutely agreed. I recognized the cycles of famous people who are forgotten after a period of time, and noticed how "the fans" treated or looked at them when they're not shining anymore.
Adherence to social standards and expectations vs adherence to individual values. People willing to do what they're told to do are far more liked than people that do what they want to do. Regardless of skill or talent, if you follow the formula, you'll be far more successful than those that work to develop their own methodology. Think of it as lowest common denominator; it's why PUA tactics work and while plenty of good guys that refuse to adhere to those sets of actions don't do well at all.
That said, it's far more important, today more than ever before, to be be genuine and loyal to yourself and your beliefs.
True. It's more important to be yourself. And to be "accepted", be the best version of yourself.
Can you share me a link of PUA site, please? I'm interested to learn from men's perspective.
If you're interested in raw and core PUA philosophy read The Game and Magic Bullets. I read them 12 years ago and as long as guys follow what these books teach, they will get laid. That said, that's all this stuff is good for, you won't get a relationship using these techniques and if you do, well let's just say I ended up in a psych hospital after a suicide attempt because of a relationship that formed from these techniques.
Oh. Sorry for that. I'm just curious. Usually, I don't like mind games. It's not how a relationship should form. By the way I think from the past decade, technologies change how we think and behave in general. I'm not going to use the techniques, just to learn to spot if there's someone who'd use them against me.
Thank you for sharing.
Doesn't matter if you recognize it or not, the techniques still work. They tap into some of the most primal areas of social need and they work because that's how we're wired for them to work.
"We're wired for them to work."
Dopamine... I guess. Like, getting likes on social media and then you're addicted to the "attention" ?
Someone who is deemed a certain way! Regardless of their true character! If they are said to be cool... they are coolâ
Thatâs what happens at school... under 18âs!
When you are comfortable with yourself... without realising your ability to be real... makes you cool!
To be cool is not the jeans you wear! Or the places you hang out in... or the designer handbag... being cool is to be so unaffected by society that you essentially come across as a âdweebâ therefore naturally being cool
Yes. I wish everybody would be original as they are, not blindly follow sonebody else to be cool.
A good body, physique and a nice face. It's usually the all in 1 package that makes 1 popular. It's because they hit the "jackpot" when it comes to looks and being extroverted. That's the only thing that makes them popular. While there are often many "unpopular" people who are far more talented, intelligent and empathetic than the egocentric popular people.
Sure. Apart from looks, extroverts will step into the spotlights more to be seen by public eyes. Some even say spotlights follow them. đ
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa Very well said. That is indeed true. They step in the spotlight because they want to be seen. It's because they cannot cope without the attention they are so used to getting. So they need it all. This often also develops into arrogance and feeling "superior" over the other "lesser popular" people. Take all that attention and validation away, and all you'll often see is an empty person. Ofcourse, I speak from a broad/general perspective, so this does not apply to EVERYONE. It's thanks to all that attention that they often throttle down on personal development, which includes learning to love themselves to be contempt on their own.
Right. Anyways, I noticed that most of us here are introverts. We tend to see extroverts with certain traits. It'd be interesting to knoe what they would think towards us. I found a vid of an extrovert complaining that introverts are boring and appear arrogant too. Lol. We know we just tend to think a lot first before speaking. We're just quiet by nature and sensitive to loud people. They look like always seek for attention to us, whilst we look unapproachable and laid back, always want others to initate to them.
I'm not assuming you are an introvert like me, right? đ
I'm neither an introvert nor an extrovert, although I do like peace and quiet a lot more than some loud environment. The popular people I speak of are usually found in high schools. When I started college and university (in my country). There are no 'popular' people. Everyone got their own group of friends. I guess this has to do with more developed personalities and maturity. And yes, almost every extrovert who goes out, drinks and parties thinks anyone who doesn't is "boring", while that doesn't need to be the case. These are the types I don't associate with anyway.
Good to know. I think being balanced is gold.
Do you like a loud person?
Are you an extrovert?
Okay. Thank you.
That picture is so sadly true...
A cute girl showing her beautiful art vs. some poser with the most annoying emoji ever made for a background. It feels like the less Likes you deserve, the more youâre going to get. Especially with so many men coming to provocative things like a moth to a flame.
Love that "a moth to a flame." đĽđĽ
Ya, thatâs a pretty classic line. ;)
It's because that image of woman is advertised in songs, movies, adverts, media as the new modern woman who is forced on us to be perceived attractive.
If the people in hierarchy change the advertisement to the cute girl, the new modern woman would be the woman on the right with the artistic painting.
Exactly! Well, I doubt that even now everybody can have their own channel to project what they are like. Some still choose to change their looks, copying from other celebrities/influncers/models. They end up look the same. Sad.
I agree with you. It's sad. I wish people could look past advertisement.
well I was fully grown in high school. I'm 6'3 back then I'd be described as the "man's man" of the group. Of course back then I did have 2 fears.
1) Things that went Buzz
2) Women
LOL
I hid both my fears fairly well. So well that it only became apparent when girls approached me. And if I was talking to people and a bee flew up forget about it! But other than that I was actually pretty macho back then and I always made people laugh. Ah, the days of my youth.
Who doesn't flee when a bee is around? Nothing wrong with that. Hahaha. I think to have some traits that contrast your outlook is admirable. Personally, I like very masculine men who are shy or have a soft side. They are attractive to me because they don't look too perfect, but someone I can reach out to and be friend with. Strong and gentle at the same time.
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Looks is everything... when you compare 2 people the one that looks like more will demand tier attention and less of an attempt will go into the other. Proof is in dating. Hotter men and women get majority easy... true on occasion itâs about more and after you realize the ugly bastard has an awesome talent like drawing they become more interesting but itâs funny how quickly that interest disappears.
Appearance is looks, voice, actions, personality... everything that makes up how people see us.
You can down vote me all you want but your parents lied to you when they said you can be anything. You have to look like you are worth more than the roll to actually have a chance. The handsome guy that talks a good game and whoâs name has weight even if only in public opinion will become the president over the guy that is ugly and streamers. Regardless of policies. Here in the USA anyway.
People gravitate towards others they are inspired by or are attracted by. Attractions can be over beauty, fear, ability to speak, clean concise voice, etc... if you canât look confident and capable you canât be popular.
Well, first of all I didn't downvote you.
I agree that if a man has a talent at something, like a musician or athlete, he can have a better chance to higher status. But for women, I think it's harder. Most people would just care for the looks.
Well, I'm happy to see how the members here are intelligent and point out other personalities or skills that are also important.
I was talking to whoever down voted me... also women always say women have it harder and men say they have it harder...
Letâs be honest in a 1 for 1 women prob get more favor than men...
These are biased in favor to women...
Any form of initiating the relationship
The final say
Most of the houses finances
Alimony
Children
Accusations or rape or abuse
Government assistance
Any online dating app
It's how personable and relatable you are. Looks might or might not play a role here. Most people, unfortunately, follow the masses. If they see that everyone else likes you, then they deem you worthy of their attention as well. On the other hand, you can be extremely attractive but if you're standoffish or socially awkward, your popularity meter immediately drops.
So true. Good looking draws first impression and people to you. Then they realize you're socially awkward. (Basically, being introverted.) It's not your personality to be talkative and your social battery drains so fast in crowd. Exhausted from interacting with people, you've gone quiet. Now, people view you as un-approachable.
"Personable" is new to me by the way. Thank you.
Absolutely, hit the nail on the head! This is how it was for me and it's really, truly exhausting. I used to fret over it in my younger 20s but now that I'm approaching 30, it means significantly less to me. I would just like to be content at this point; happy even :)
Me tooo... Just celebrate for how much we have grown and take time to be happy at the moment. Cheers!
Your target audience if you want to reach and many people as possible don't just do one thing do multiple things
In your picture above the girl with the most light her target audience is people that once to look at the human body which a lot of people want to look at no matter what
The other girl wants people to look at her art but she would have to draw what people want to see not just what she wants to draw
Umm.. She should draw sexy pics to get more attention then. Just kidding. Lol.
Thank you for sharing.
If that's what her bueller's are into she could easily draw people holding hands showing kindness and people would like that
Wow. That's beautiful and inspiring. Thanks. Have a great day!
Self respect and dignity plays a big part. Not everyone is a yes man or yes woman that agrees with anything to fit in with the crowd. Some people stand on their uncompromising principles.
That's right. Being always agreeable never makes you a leader.
I've always been the shy sweet quiet one growing up. But I was first 'famous' bc everyone loved my last name (90s kid) and last names Duby (do-bee) :p puberty I got me more wanted bc of chest, yet, I was still the sweet and innocent.
That is good. I mean for being sweet. Duby sounds cute. What is the meaning?
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Genuine friendliness. Someone who is not affected or phony. They are bright and have a great sense of humor without being a silly ditz.
Looks, good grooming and tasteful appearance are also important.
Besides looks?
1. Intellectual prowess
2. Bubbly personality
3. Wealth
4. Circle of friends
5. Physical strength
6. Athletic abilities
I think without looks, I have to have all of these qualities. Lol. Thank you. I love that you noted Athletic abilities. Interesting
Actually, if someone is physically strong (esp. for men), the appearance is obviously attractive. In short, being strong enhances the look.
Depends on who you want to be popular with. Kiddies stuck in adult bodies think looks matter. Actual adults know that looks are secondary.
You can, after all, have someone who is stunning with a godawful personality more suitable for a rotten lump of flesh.
Hmm... interaction. I feel if you interact more you create a story for yourself. The more you create content or in g@g questions it creates a personality. Something people can relate to. Everyone is unique. You could go to anyone on here and see there personally through question. For example, there a girl who always ask about her clothes and makeup which creates a world of expression. And mines I always have problem picking colors so maybe part of my personally is. I am picking... lol
First off the pic is innaccurate. That girl would hit it big with her cute self and her talents. But yeah if its not looks, its some talent or its just their personality hits right with certain people and catches on.
I hope more people would be able to focus on a deeper level like you.
Me too, I appreciate talent but I have followed or given likes to people who are just like everything that turns me on aesthetically. Which is rare and I've never regretted any of my likes or follows in that. I say if you're trying to make your talent known just make sure you're really grasping your audience. Its a balance of heart, mind and will, and freedom. All that leading to an attractive "sexiness" of maybe a new sort if you will. I hope that makes sense.
I tried. It ended up with people keep sexualizing me, and ignore my opinions. đ đ
Oh I see so you're too sexy lol well I'm sorry. But being an attractive artist is a very appealing turn on for most people in general. A work of art making art is awesome. Better to maybe go anonymous at first? Bypass the horny A holes. The attention could bring more views in as well and could gain popularity over time for what you want to be known for.
Okay. đ Thank you for sharing.
Faking it till you make it. Say there are two equally beautiful people. The one with more confidence who is willing to take risks and not care about what other people think is the one who is most likely marketing themselves better.
I see. Well, it's hard to fake forever unless the person lets his/her image take over the true self. Like some celebrities who look gorgeuos on the outside; shattered on the inside.
Thatâs not the objective but okay
Guys are attracted to beautiful females so that is a big factor. I am attracted to those who have a similar political view as I do but I am also attracted to someone who can discuss things in a civil manner if they dont. When someone asks an interesting question I will consider following them as well
Acting cheerful, emitting "light", promoting yourself in ways that do not make others feel incompetent.
"Inspiring", right? That's a way of how an empathetic person does. đđ
Great personality and just being real and natural and comfortable in your own skin without trying too hard..
I agree. Being authentic with good qualities always work.
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Its usually a combination of things including personality, looks, and perceptiveness, but often it's mainly making an effort to get to know and understand others.
Something called marketing skills. They make target audiences, get more rich and they're not afraid to advertise. It's all in confidence in making yourself visible no matter how untalented you are. Confidence itself is already impressive.
Get more *reaches
Yeah sure that picture can be true but that girl with good art can be more popular than those instagram models if she is as confident as them. She can start blogging and do other things in her channel
Good idea. Thanks.
I've always noticed it to still be looks and personality, and by personality I mean someone who is very extroverted.
But I'm very much so like the girl with a "15" in the question photo; I'm not popular at all 😆
Well, I actually don't think number can be a reliable measurement. You know you are awesome in many ways, it's people's ability if they can't see that. Mass = superficiality. Less people are attracted on a deeper level. Right?
Style and presentation is key. Ever notice some YouTube channels don't talk about anything important yet they have million of subscribers and views? Their style and presentation is what makes them famous.
Style and presentation is definitely important, but I have seen plenty of people with great style with no audience at all. As well as people with awful style and a huge audience. Regardless of the prompt saying regardless of looks. It doesn't change the fact that popularity is heavily based off of looks. No doubt about it.
@NotKrispy: Your definition style differ from the majority otherwise their channel will be popular.
Nah I'm a designer, a public speaker, and I'm actually overall just really into Media and entertainment. My idea of style is based off of production quality and ability. The work and effort put into videos etc. There are very "popular" people on say youtube that literally will sit in front of their camera and talk about how they slammed their fingers in a door. With a few jump cuts here and there to cut out coughs sneezes and just awkward bits. With a few edits here and there so that the video is "funny" most of the time the people who make these kinds of videos are girls. They don't have 100k views because they have style but because they are a pretty face on the internet.
One of my favourite you tube channels is Viva la dirt league. They have insane quality and production on their budgeted videos and they are funny. Yet they ONLY have 2.35 million subscribers. But my point is some people have to work harder to get more support than other do. Essentially. Because 20 something year old girls with a pretty face can talk about getting their hair stuck in a Can opener, and have just as many views as a whole team of guys making comedy skits about work life and video games.
I understand too that there is an audience for everything right. Like there are trendsetters make up artists, and fashion designers all over the internet who appeal to the girls (and guys) who like that kind of thing. You have to remember too that there are many people that are into video games. As there are many people into tech. As there are many people into politics and history. So interest and style is a factor but it doesn't seem like it. Due to people with minimal style and minimal effort are more popular or just as popular as people with more style and who exert themselves twice as much.
@NotKrispy: I've seen ugly dudes and women with lots of views.
Thank you very much for your perspective. It explained really well. Of course I notice how it goes. Wjat if I don't have looks to attract others, how to make people notice and Listen to me?
Be loud and passionate @el_Te_de_la_Rosa
@NotKrispy A public speaker's secret?
Okay. I'm practising.
Being unique in a entertaining way whether its hobbies, personality, or being eye candy.
Agreed.
Immorality > Morality,
atheists believe this concept.
Oh. LOL. I'm an atheist, but I prefer morality. I just think most religions even some cults have some good principles to keep up with. I don't agree with everything a religion teaches us.
What you noted is very interesting. I just think about Osho and how he became famous. He allowed people to connect to their deepest instincts without judging if it's right or wrong. His fellow can be free and do whatever they feel happy. That could be related.
Having an outgoing personality, being funny, being friendly, joining a lot of activities and clubs.
Basically, that is an extrovert?
Thank you. Are you one?
Ambivert? That's awesome.
I'm introverted. The latest time I took the test, the percentage increased from 70 to 80 since the quarantine. Lol đ đ
Confidence and courage and strength and self acceptance and kindness make people popular
I believe kindness is the key.
How the act and talk. How they treat others. How successful they are.
Thank you. So fame increases fame?
She is out going making her b look more desirable.
But if I had the choice I would go for the girl on the right.
The girl on the left is all me me me...
Nice to hear that. Well, it's also true that most men would flock over women with beauty rather than ones with talents.
Of course. And skills are skull deep!
There is more than just looks. I remember a girl with masculine features was pretty popular on tiktok but I found her dirt.
And another girl from real life was sweet and lonely
How about here?
Oh. I'm interested. Can you share the overall characteristics of ones who are crazy?
They start drama as soon as they know a guy is not into them.
Then they have this victim playing strategy where they make it look like they are pretty poor or can't get anything in life despite the fact they are pretty well off. Basically, lie about their real financial position to get sympathy from guys.
Lying about themselves and others just so they can make fool of guys.
Multiple guys as back ups đ. That's one of the lies though
Making it look like they are innocent when in fact they would gladly sleep around should they smell a well off guy.
Telling everyone their parents are pretty strict when these girls are doing night shifts themselves and would be into doing anything that gets them cash in their purse.
Greedy etc.
Oh. My. Sounds like sex workers here who claim they need to support their families, and have no other choices to work. And some men fall in love with them. Huh huh huh huh huh...
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa you really said the right words. That is not here but most girls in my country
Interesting. What I heard a lot about your country is raping and stuff. Mostly from girls. I would like to learn perspectives from guys.
I can assure you in most cases it is a fake case. These same girls don't go to the root of the case.
In most of these cases they don't get a DNA testing and neither launch FIR.
I have known a few people who were genuinely innocent but the police harassed them on such girls claims and they end up in jails without trial for few years or so before being proved innocent.
And no girl is getting forced over anything like that. They can choose to reject a boy their parents choose but they willingly accept such offers. Ky friend recently got false hope from a girl till she engaged someone else and she said that job, car and a house is the norm in the society and he should have it if he wants to marry her.
So I don't buy into this type of accusations and slender that these girls make up to make outsiders feel like they are the victims.
And girls who want to marry their own choice do it even if they come from the most conservative background they can claim. It is very rare indeed if a girl is put through harm. Mostly such girls run away from home to be with their man and when the money goes so does the made in china love story that they believed.
I bet such girl didn't tell you about the cases where she and the girl's family lured a guy and killed him out of family enmity with boy's family. So it is not all girls being as helpless as these girls claim. The girls can be as evil as boys here, may be more
I am willing to take an oath over my words that girls like easy life and just don't want to take the risk of a hard life with a poor guy who can offer them love but not many dresses, make up and all that
And the rapes happen all over the world and by comparison they are statistically 100times lesser than U. S statistics
Thank you foe sharing.
I still have a lot to learn. As a woman, I kind of understand why some girls are like that. With cultural beliefs and religion influence, women should remain virgin before marriage, right? Alas, they/us also want love esp. when being young and have no idea what love exactly is. Some lost it for their boyfriends. Then when it's time to get married. Lies seem to be an option. Very sad. That's why I don't want to have a relationship until I'm mature enough. Personally, I think if a man is younger than 30, it's better to be single until he's stable. So that good men won't be lead on like what you told.
If he is stable and a woman is only looking at stability then what difference does it make between an arranged marriage and calling an arranged marriage love. Her goal is getting into marriage with anyone; his goal was getting married to her.
For you, isn't it easy to get married? And these girls don't wait they are so hasty in getting married they would marry a robber as long as he is stableđ
Robber is a real job? Lol. I don't think that's stable in a long run. For me, it's hard to get married. I'm not interested in men in my country, so do they. We don't have arrange marriages (as far as I know) these days. I have no idea what they are like. If I don't meet a foreign man who wants to marry me, maybe I will in my next life. đđ
Thailand. I would go for only Caucasian. Lol. From what I've observed, they're more faithful. (I used to date a Thai-Pakistani, he's a womanizer. đ˘đ)
I guess knowing how to use the platform to your advantage
Example, please?
just look at Kaceytron. she was one of the pioneers in boobie streaming and actually the only boobies streamer I respected cause she had put on such an act that it seemed she had potential to be an actor. it's always came for boobies, stayed for content
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Nah... Some people just love to put others down. Prove them you're awesome!
Self-control is the key.
Honestly, popularity is a concept that has never really interested me as I personally don't see the appeal of being exposed like that. Besides, it's a broad topic and it depends a lot on the context.
Yes. I usually see the concept as a pyramid. Broad and common topics at the bottom, and more complex are on the top. Alas, when you have something that need to inform to many people as possible, popurarity now is included.
Can you share your observation on people here? I would like to know what makes some people stand out? What are their questions are about and how they answer?
Honestly, the best I can tell you is : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t348e24vDyA
Some people on here are popular despite posting rarely, some are popular despite a lower Xper, some have huge Xper yet are not popular, some are popular yet I rarely come across them...
I guess one way to be popular on here as a woman is to show pictures, especially sexy ones. Add to that a few sexual questions and you should attract a lot of thirsty boys who will follow you blindly. This has the side effect of getting you all sorts of annoying messages.
Personally, what makes someone stand out in my eyes is who they are as a person. I follow you because I find your questions and responses interesting and I like your personality, at least from what I have seen.
As always... I'm appreciated. đđ I followed you because of your wisdom, too. Totally agreed, I just posted some pics of me in the profile and a question. No boobs. Men messaged me instantly. Lol. So thank you for seeing me as a person, not my look. I still have lots of things to ask and share. People here are still better than "friends" in FB. Peace!
I love the vid by the way.
Thank you for your kind words! :) I'm honestly glad to not have to deal with thirsty people going after me like that.
To me, there are plenty of beautiful women out there but interesting women are much more rare and I think you are one of them. By that, I mean interesting as a person, not because you are a woman. Besides, I feel like we share some values and it's always nice to share some values with someone.
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Wow nice art totoro
Too bad you look miserable holding it up
Imma thumb that girl down
I think that reflects how the girl who puts effort in her artwork would feel, comparing and disappointed.
Personality and patience. Without it you're a boring thirst trap, if you make it the way that girl does
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No one can achieve anything without being hardworking and commitment.
Working in the right market and meeting the biggest demands
One of the biggest cases is modelling on Instagram, thirsty men's demand to see hot women is endless
People will do crazy shit just for the popularity. Instagram models or women with sexy bodies,... well that's rather self-explanatory.
Yes. Some people risk themselves, trying stupid Challenges just to be noticed. And we like to see a clown sometimes because we want to feel superior than those. Am I right?
For the models... I think they'd learn when they grow up.
she need to find the right audience. the girl want to show her look need to find people like her look, the girl want to show her art need to find people like her ass, ah i mean her art.
Hahaha. I am the right one. I posted my art on Facebook and even IG. Failed. Now I moved to Pinterest.
Still not many followers.
I feel it depends on your personality, I personally know many peopel who dont look very physically attractive, but they are very approachable people with great amount of confidence and self believe.
Good point. "Approachable"
Thank you. I've never been approachable. That's why.
Ill tell you my example
I was very unapproachable, but than i got a transfer so I decided its a chance to be a completely different person, people wouldn't know, so new collage new job I tried my best by my self to make a change the key was not to be afraid what others think be your self. I am not sure this will work in your case as people already have a general idea of who u are and it would be hard to change their mind set, all I can wish you is all the best in your life
That's very sweet. Thank you. :)
I'm very introverted. I joined a volunteer group for many many years. The thing is I gained my rank, not friendship or intimacy. I supposed I was more open and talkative. Maybe it's not enough I think.
I wish all the best to you too.
It's unwise to judge popularity by quantity, instead of quality.
I'd rather be popular with one intelligent person than a million morons.
Social skills, people they hang out with, clothing style
S-u-c-c-e-s-s! Or money, but that's generally a result of success.
Absolute truth.
Personality attitude confidence home life not looks or money attitude confidence ò open up a can of you are lacking
Confidence, charisma, also tone and cadence of voice. Appearance factors somewhere also.
Sadly it always comes down to your appearance & how others perceive you
I rarely talk with others but have been the "talk in the neighborhood" by everyone without doing or saying anything
Oh. I was there too. Worse than when you intentionally make your move first, isn't it?
Boobs.
I know it works for many women. Well, personally, I do not want to attract people esp. men who find me interesting just because of my boobs. It's depressing to only be seen as a sex object. Plus, I added "regardless of looks".
How about a man? How would men appear more interesting when they lack boobs to flaunt?
Good point and question right there!
If I knew the answer, I would tell ya. It may remain a mystery.
Me personally I "follow" those, who deliver interesting content. Those are basically science channels and gaming channels and money channels since they encompass my interest (science because science and I love science and gaming because I like to play video games from time to time and money channels because for me money is everything in life and successful people generate successful people).
If you can deliver interesting content, you can gain popularity.
Sure! It's quite challenging. Well, I think environmental issues can be related to science, right?
I mean microplastic. It's in our bodies already. 0% conspiracy theory. đ
What about inventing a gadget to collect microplastic in the ocean? You will become a millionaire for sure.
Certainly. I wouldn't be the first to come up with that idea. However scientifically speaking we'd be collecting microplastic and plastic using some sort of magnet of these materials just like opposites in the magnetic fields attract each other.
I don't know what material collects/attracts plastics and microplastic. I think it's a known problem but no solution so far was found for it.
Yeah. We'll keep up with that.
Their ability to cater to the masses.
Interesting. Actually, that's a hard work!
That piece of shit painting hit it right on head.
These so called âpopularâ people cater to the lowest common denominator of people.
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If these women were real (and not illustrations) I would be VERY attracted you the girl on the right. Much more.
Thank you.
Ultimately, I believe it's their confidence. If your confident the world is yours.
who cares, you aren't determined by the number of likes you have.
Yes. Unless you want to start a business or become a politician. Popularity matters.
The less popular person being intelligent.
Intelligent for not being popular and targetted easily. Genius!
Not intelligent "for" being unpopular. The other way around: Its surprisingly hard to hide intelligence - and so very unpleasant that most intelligent people I know rather restrict their social exposure than having to play stupid all the time. Can come with loss of popularity, though.
I think that makes sense. Many intelligent individuals choose who be someone else's shadow instead of being in the light themselves. It's about freedom. How many people who "seem" cool are actaully puppets... Who were assassinated.. Who survived..
The bitch who has no shame who is willing to open her legs to any man.
That surprises me how a woman like that feels so proud for that kind of fame... Doesn't she acknowledge that she is seen just a sex object, or fap material like one in the drawing?
Get naked in front of the camera. Boom! You got 1000 likes
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Like from hornydogs?
No. Thanks.
Because most people brain function is less than 2% .
Hahaha. I can't wait to become WiFi like Lucy. đ
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