My secret "sex motel at 2am" friend w/ benefits is about to move into her boyfriend's - she says the dirty secret is helping the relationship? wtf?

[ronaldo75]

Can someone explain how in the HELL having explosive messy sex in the middle of the night with a classmate HELPS a person with the relationship they have a home?

Before y'all ask. I'm single. I would NEVER do something like this if I were in a relationship. As I said in another post her and I had a weird thing last week where we were working on school work and literally out of nowhere we were having sex a few minutes later. Only AFTER did she tell me she had a boyfriend. In this past week we've been meeting up to have sex in the middle of the night and today she tells me that it's improved her relationship with her boyfriend and she's actually going to move in with him. We were literally in a hotel two nights ago doing shit I won't describe here but she tells her man she'll now agree to move in with him? Apparently he's been begging her to move in with him since covid began. Can someone explain this?

Dude, just keep tapping that ass until the situation blows up in her face. If it's not you she'd just be cheating with someone else.

You need to exit this filthy scenario NOW, not only is it wrong, you could get hurt down the line if he finds own

[MzAsh]

I thought you’d be smarter than this.

[ronaldo75]

I know I know. To be honest I'm past the "peak" of it. It'll be over in a few weeks, most likely lest. At this point Im sensing mental issues. Im very much against men being with crazy women and here I am contradicting myself. won't be much longer :/

[MzAsh]

Regarding the question at hand, She could be just delusional or bullshitting herself into thinking sleeping with you is helping the relationship because it excuses having her cake and eating it too.
After she moves in with him, she most likely won’t be able to do this with you or anyone else for that matter. I hope she realizes that. So I don’t know what’s going on in her head regarding how she thinks this “helps” anything with her and him, and why she’d sign up to immediately have that freedom taken away. (Because it will he unless she wants to get caught and tossed on her ass) which would be a stupid move.
As for you, you know what you are condoning. It’s at your own risk. I just don’t want to hear a bunch of shit about women from you from here in out.

[ronaldo75]

And yet I've never posted anything here degrading women for being whores. Literally EVER. I'm not intimidated by women's sex lives. I post about contradictions and double standards women place on men but never themselves. And I'll keep posting it lol. Like if her boyfriend finds out and beats the shit out of her, it's "an epidemic of violence against women", yet if a woman finds her husband cheating and cuts his dick off, that's hilarious hahaha men get what they deserve. There are women out there that when I cut her off - and I WILL cut her off - will say I'm the asshole for playing with her emotions. If she cuts me off I won't give a single fuck since I know the situation we're in.

[MzAsh]

There’s nothing wrong with commenting on hypocrisy as long as you can admit your own when you find someone you do really like and want to be faithful but she isn’t.

[ronaldo75]

I dont cheat, Ash, I've said it a thousand times.

[MzAsh]

It doesn’t matter how many times you say it. What you’re doing make it no better.

[Hawkes_Lady]

Cheating is cheating, no matter who the person is. The woman is cheating on the boyfriend with you and you are cheating as well because now that you know that she is involved with someone else you are cheating by continuing to sleep with her.

[zeitgeist057]

It's helping the relationship because it's making her happy. Happy people have a better time in a relationship.

[OddBeMe]

It’s escalating for her it o dangerous sex. I’d be fearful

[Billlewis]

Bravo, Sir, Bravo! I think this is far and away the most inspiring post you've written. As a guy who probably has much more in common with her boyfriend than I do with you, when she inevitably seeks out the kind of hard, pounding fuck that only a top twenty percenter (and probably more like top three percent) can give her, she essentially wants to have her cake and eat it, too. The tradeoff is, we must endure the ongoing humiliation of knowing you're fucking her regularly, and exponentially better than we ever could, but maintaining a long term relationship with her. Both you and her enjoy your illicit trysts, and we sit at home masturbating, as usual. She probably receives a huge ego boost from your repeated poundings, which enhances her relationship with the wimp.

[Billlewis]

I can't get enough of this story;)

[Amiapowerlessman]

It makes her relationship easier because she’s having orgasms her boyfriend prolly can’t give her

[Flatmanlewis]

She’s a trashy person and I feel bad for her man. You may not be trashy but I think you should take a moral stand and walk away from her and her behavior.

[Mark987]

She is a friends with benefits lol. As for her... she is for the streets... I have noticed the past 10 years women have been scandalous, they're just as bad as men or even or even worse. in my opinion let it play it out

[Anonymous]

She sounds like a POS winner