Why are females so nasty to each other?

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I always thought it ends in high school but I was very surprised the hate, jealous , nastiness and gossip continues past beyond. Can they give each other a break? I mean I get jealousy and competition for guys, I was in the same boat and felt it too. But still... why can't women have a little bit more love for each other and not always strive to bring each other down?

Lost_in_the_Woods · Accepted Answer

I don't really know, but I would guess it's small dog syndrome.

So many women are told that they are weak or less or won't amount to anything unless other people approve of them. That makes people feel desperate to get on top of the pile just to keep their head above water.

Guys do the same thing sometimes, but I think girls do it more because they get belittled more and told they have to get everyone to like them.

Also, guys are more likely to have thick skin, tell someone to fuck off and keep believing in themselves. Girls are more susceptible to insults so they end up getting hurt, retaliating, and starting a fude.

If you tell a guy he's dumb and ugly, he's likely to laugh and say "I know"

If you tell a girl she's dumb and ugly, she's likely to say very little, cry for two weeks then develop a plot to kill you in your sleep.

Pit bulls rarely start shit because they know they can end it if someone else does. Weaner dogs always start shit because they are afraid if they don't they will get taken advantage of.

I think the answer is to tell your daughters that they do need anyone's approval because they are strong and capable and gorgeous all by themselves.

Be a tree in a forest of friends. Not a Domino in a line.

EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

I’d say a mixture of biological competition and jealousy.

Men compete too, just different.

Each has a mating strategy based on evolutionary biology.

Men have a history of fighting wars together, helping each other get laid, building buildings together, etc.

Women seemed more isolated, in the sense that they didn’t form camaraderie bonds like men have in the past and even today.

Men can fight it out and be okay, despite previously holding a grudge. Men can be in competition and still be friendly towards one another afterwards and even during.

Women, are different as I’ve observed and you have voiced.

Women HOLD grudges. They can’t necessarily drink and make up like men do or fight and make up like men do.

Not because they can’t but because it’s just not in their DNA to resort or do such things.

Brokenheartedx · Accepted Answer

I read it on here... There is many attacking other women on the how do I look section. Instead of ignoring someone they don't find attractive or they are attractive, the go to thing for either is to call them ugly, fat etc

Quite sad really

Gatorademebiatch · Accepted Answer

Babe there are some women my mum knows who are still like it in their 50s, some people don’t grow out of it!!! Ridiculous I know

Wiredone · Answer

Some women, not all of them are just really cold hearted bitches. They walk around with their nose in the air like they are better than everyone else. I think guys get along better than women do. It's very sad.

ohshee · Answer

I have always wanted to know the answer to this question that's basically all I know is girls in the ditches my friends the day gets so pissed off at each other the girls hate each other I don't understand why

Andres77 · Answer

There's the "sisterhood of dick" as long as there is no competition.

Erron_Black · Answer

This is how women were created.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

lots of insecurity.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Damn good question….

Why are females so nasty to each other?

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