I have been in work environments where I am the only man present and I can attest to the fact that women are some of the most vicious creatures known to science. Men don't take things personally but women usually do. I have seen how some of my former female colleges would treat the new girl like shit only because she was attractive. They would talk shit behind her back , give her the cold shoulder , and were very curt.
I believe that women are like this to each other because they will often see other women - especially more attractive ones - as a threat to their social standing with other women and also because she is competition for men's attention.
For women nothing is more important than her social standing. Why do you think that women are so obsessed with gossip? Why do you think it is usually women that organize the family gatherings , the parties , the outings? They want to know who is who and who stands where with whom. If a new more attractive women enters the scene that new women could push her aside and become the center of attention.
Also the new girl will have male attention. This in particular is something that drives women nuts.
Evolutionary biology comes into play. Women have always depended on men to provide - this means that they are resource seekers. While the men were out hunting wild animals and starting fires - providing resources - the women were organizing resources. If a women did not have a man's attention she could of gone without food , shelter , and protection. She would die.
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I thought everybody knew women hate women...
I mean seriously I only see women place other women into particular relationships with each other.
Sycophant-bitch-competition-and not much else. They're best bet of being friends is usually based around teasing cocks or some sort of substance abuse as a common interest... although the partner in crime motive operandi could include something like money I suppose.
Actually the more I think about it... women aren't that much different from dudes, except they don't give praise to each other unless there is some underhanded reason to kill them with kindness. They have no chill like us dudes... they have a hard time just letting each other be. But bring us dudes into competition for something and you'll see the same shit...
... fortunately, and sadly for your sex, we dudes usually just try to help each other more than destroy.
I think it comes from insecurities and neediness - confident people do not mistreat others cause they have all the value and self-respect they will ever need on their own merit - its the insecure ones who are dependent on others for comfort that hate and pick fights with people.
Awww girl only if we live in the same country, I will befriend you. I experience similar problem with other women. They are just haters. Like they can hate you for no reason but most of the time, when they find you more attractive. The issue here is, they never want to admit it.
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I have found that a lot of women use anger as an emotion to cover up even less pleasant ones that leave us vulnerable, like jealousy, sadness and anxiety. I actually used to be a pretty angry person until I found that it was anxiety related. A lot of women chill out as they get older, because the stress of high school etc. isn't forcing us to try and be one specific kind of person.
You just keep being yourself, and the cool people will like you and the cruddy ones will f*** off.U must run into a lot of bad women. A lot of times it's just competition but it's pointless. I experience hard stares when in public from other females but sometimes I over think it cuz one girl came up to me and just wanted to know where I got my shoes from.
The easy answer would be jealousy. Women have sub-narcississm where they can't accept other women for who they are, women who are successful with men, women who are attractive, women who are liked by others. So the way women see it is if they can't be that woman and can't be on top then they'd rather dislike you. Hell, there are even cases where women killed their female roommates or other women they knew because they were jealous of her. Sad.
I don't know. But it was on of my favorite things on sports day in high school. When I had to play against other teams things could get quite rough, even against teams that included friends. But after a match everything was fine, it was just part of the game. But the girls used to be really mean to each other during the match, like scratching and pulling hair, but this would also continue once the match was over.
I thought I was the only one because I go through this exact same thing. I also assumed it had a lot to do with where I am located. Otherwise, I feel like it's sometimes jealousy and insecurity on the other woman's behalf. If you're a nice, empathetic, happy, and maybe even quiet or shy then people may pick up on that. People may choose to use you as their punching bag because you're an easy target. Even if they don't know you from a can of paint.
I assume it's because of insecurity, and the fact that duplicitous behavior is how women see other women get things done.
My life experience has basically been that most women are two-faced, rotten cold, insecure, icy, shit heads; and they learn to act that way by other women.Uuh? I never had this problem. Just a few hours ago I defended a female GAG user from being harassed. Other female users did the same. Women actually stick up for each other. I prefer female friends anyway.
I know a lot of people who are like this. They are vain and self centered but I feel like they are insecure and maybe feel threatened by u
Jealousy, insecurity or the other woman is just irritating them. It’s not alwayyyyss jealousy but usually.
Jealously mostly. I think that's probably one of the biggest reasons for one woman to be bitchy to another without real cause.
People are cruel and rude to others cause it's due to jealousy
and bitterness within their heart my advice is just stay away
from toxic people.Dominance is my educated guess. Humans will be humans
Why she is like that is her business. Your business is to choose to only meet people that already have good attitude.
She's jealous. A lot of women are bitchy towards other women because they feel like they are in a competition.
You smucked her mans dick, that's why sh hates you.
People are assholes. That includes women. We don’t need to throw out a bunch of misogynistic myths to embrace that.
In one word... competition! Quality men are hard to find these day's so women want to scare away any competition they might have.
I guess it's instinct to challenge or hate on the girl you think looks better then you 🤷
In general men are way more better than women I can say and I am not saying this because I am a man. I have seen female friends laughing about others accident just because they had a fight long ago once...
I have never understood that either. i would not like to work in a company with mainly women because of that, there is so much toxicity and hypocrisy.
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