If you're not endangering people, breaking the law, or hurting people does it really matter?I know that OF is banning sexually explicit material thats beyond the point lol
Why are so many men so upset about women who chose to be sex workers?
We're not upset. It's just that no one deserves any kind of praise or accolades for selling their ass. And OnlyFans isn't even sex work; it's sh*tty, lazy, entitled, narcissist, half-assed pseudo-sex work. Posting selfies and nasty-ass feet pics isn't worthy of money, let alone anyone giving you any kind of positive attention for it. It's trashy, to put it politely, and it perpetuates this lazy culture of narcissism and entitlement, especially among young women these days. The same women claiming to want equality with hard-working males want said males to not only give them money for owning a pussy, but to *respect* them for being whores, and lazy ones at that. No; it's not worthy of respect, and neither is being a sex-addicted male, aka a simp.
REAL actual sex work requires actually having sex with strangers, or at the very least, touching them in a strip club or something. It's a hustle, but at the same time, it requires no actual skill or talent. You being a living sex doll doesn't entitle people to respect you or take you seriously.
Speaking FOR MYSELF, I always respect people until they give me a reason not to, so I don't hate on actual sex workers. But as I said, if all you're putting out to the world is that you're nothing more than a couple of holes to f*ck, then that's all people will (rightfully) treat you as.
If you want respect, get a real job and use your brain like the rest of us. Or at least use your body for something other than sex. But if you choose to take the easy road in life for the quick paycheck, don't then bitch about it when it costs you your public reputation and future job prospects upon hiring once gravity catches up with you. It's not like this only affects women; male convicts upon being released from prison (even for non-violent offenses) have to go through the same thing. THAT is the equality so many women claim to want, but not actually want.
Take the easy money if you want, but also don't bitch about your own choices in life or the consequences of those choices. It's called being an adult. The idea that you can tell the world you're good for nothing more than sex, yet still want respect and to be treated as if you have a personality and useful skills to society, astounds me. And it's something ONLY women can get away with. And this is for actual sex workers. OnlyFans is lazy, sh*tty, pseudo-sex work, without the actual "work." It's the lowest, most pathetic, entitled First World Woman bullsh*t I can imagine; being entitled to monetary compensation for f*cking feet selfies.
We all men and women, tend to judge and criticize others for what they do or won't do. Some do it more, some do it less... to very different degrees, And then we do that about many things and choices not just making money through sex.
I sure get upset about some things that people do or won't do... but is not this, I don't really mind if people trade currency for pleasure, as long... as all of what you said is a given. There are ways to do things right and that's how they should be done.
I just live my life and let others live their lives as they see it fit for themselves.
1. Anyone has a right to be upset about anything and express it. 2. Men don't want promiscuous women as long term partners, let alone sex workers. That doesn't need a lot of reading to understand. Promsiscuity in both men and women signals disloyalty. 3. Sex workers are usually working class, and working class men have less leverage and power in the dating scene. Their options are mostly limited to the supply of working class females and an increasing number of sex workers can signal the destruction of their communities. That signal is usually right, as prostitution (of any kind) always increases in imploding societies that are headed towards poverty.
In short, there is a limited supply of women, and men, especially working class men, want to formally and informally control their communities so they would not have to deal with a shortage of long-term partners they would have children with, within their immediate surroundings. Not all men can afford finding a wife overseas. They also want to keep their communities away from breaking apart. We never lived in a society in which informal and formal control of prostitution did not exist. I don't think many would like to, or "could", live in such society.
Not everything men do is to "hurt" or stop women from "growing and succeeding". Needless to say, prostitution (of any kind) is far from a good way to "grow", if it is a way to grow at all.
I don’t think it’s just the men. I see many women upset too. But really I think it depends on the OF person. For example Mikaela Testa just acts as if she is better than anyone else. Like she’s always bragging about how much money she makes on OF and how she spends $5000 per week on clothes and she also said she will not wear an outfit more than once. It’s up to her to do what she wants with her money but this often causes jealousy by other people who work 9-5 jobs or even three jobs a week to merely support their families. So Mikaela gets a lot of hate through jealousy and envy. On the other hand Anna Paul is way more humble. She does OF too but she has people constantly complimenting the vibe she gives off and how humble and sweet she is. She often doesn’t react to the hate she gets and as a result she gets less hate. Mikaela on the other hand reacts to her hate and gets more hate. But ultimately it comes down to jealousy as OF stars like Mikaela say they “work hard” to have the life they have but forget that many people have a different definition of “working hard”. Some people think that working hard is juggling 3 jobs to support their family, no vacations, no buying stuff they don’t need. But a lot of OF stars refer to hard work as finding time from their day to film their content. No hate, each to their own but I hope this explains why the OF stars get hate!
Users ask questions on this site and they ASK for others to post their opinions. As soon as someone posts an opinion that the user doesn't want to hear, they start asking the poster why they are so triggered, so upset, etc.
If you don't want to hear someone's opinion, don't ask for it.
it doesn't matter and it shouldn't at all tbh many guys and girls as well who kind of die to just be with us in the club or when they book us to have fun but once outside the club or in general discussion regarding sex workers they chose to degrade them and look down on them... to me all such people are just double standard people who either change their views as per their need or they are hypocrites however there are also many who treat us equally whether inside or outside the club and as u asked there are many who just get so upset n just get blasting about us being a stripper or prostitute... n i dont understand why... as we are not forcing them to come to us we just mind our own business n it is there choice if they need us or not n even if they dont like us i can respect that as they have right to their opinion... but to come out and being mean isn't justified
They are upset they can't do the same thing to monetize themselves the same way. They try to then lash out and start criticizing a woman for making money. They are the same ones who try to make themselves sound better by talking about value, but you know they'd be out doing the same thing if they could make money from it.
It's a power a woman has over them and honestly they shouldn't even be blaming women. Men are the ones paying for it, so go blame other guys if you must be upset.
It's because it's just such an easy way for people to make money for doing very little, at least in their eyes.
I understand where they're coming from and they aren't totally wrong, but if people don't like it, then don't buy it, I mean guys do tend to be the ones that buy it, just not the ones complaining about it.
MCheetah makes some good points though and I totally respect the fact that he still supports people's right to do, all whilst warning them of the potential consequences of it socially, in the long term.
It doesn't bother me. I have a number of reasons for thinking that prostitution should be legalized like any other service. But there are other kinds of sex work. There are women and men who work as porn stars. There are women who sell home made videos of their bodies. There are women who masturbate for money on live video.
I wouldn't want a partner who had worked as a porn star or prostitute because I would be afraid she was jaded and took sexual relationships lightly. The other stuff, though, wouldn't bother me at all. In fact, I say more power to her if a woman in her prime can make money by showing off her tits and ass or by masturbating in front of a camera. I might admire her for being entrepreneurial and adventurous, having confidence and pride in her appearance, and for having a strong libido. None of that would prevent her from being a monogamous partner with a good personality, healthy values, and normal hopes and dreams for the future.
I dont get it either especially sense men are the same ones paying for these services. I guess they feel they deserve free entertainment. Ugh no sir, time is money.
@Subarugirl yeah I heard @StunningANDbrave dick is small. Some girl said he's been harrasing her sending her dm pics of his penis through an imgur link. She said he has a micro penis and that he's uncircumcised
@StunningAndbrave from what I heard u don't really have a cock. You have a micro mini uncircumcised penis. I blame your mother. She should've just euthanized you
They are angry because someone else makes a lot more money than them. Even more so when they can be desired and wanted because of it.
News flash they wouldn't make any money unless other men pay for it lol let them live their life. a lot of them are people just like you and I who are struggling just to get by
Reminds me of guys I went to highschool with getting mad about little kids making millions on YouTube doing review videos about shit kids like.
In their words, "I was told to go to college, get a good job, and I'll do well. And this 12 year old is a millionaire doing some shit I could have done..."
If I had to pinpoint it. It's about how they perceive their own life rather than actually being upset with OF girls.
I have no problem with them. It's a free country. As long as nobody's getting hurt, I don't see the problem. Now I wouldn't want my daughter doing it, but I there's plenty of other jobs not related to the sex industry that I wouldn't want her to do so that doesn't mean much. And long as the women involved in sex work are safe and the practice itself is done safely without abuse or mistreatment, then I have no issues with it.
ah the old "just be kind" mentality. one of the most evil ways of thinking to ever exist
just because you can't immediately see the harm being done in something doesn't mean its not there. don't be short sighted. view the world from a mile high and analyze every aspect of the impact of a thing.
onlyfans damages women by preventing them from forming meaningful relationships and being desirable at their most important age (18-22) then they grow up to not get the men they think they deserve because dating potential of a woman peaks at 22.
onlyfans damages men by making them have a sexual surrogate relationship so they don't fix themselves and go out and get the real thing
its also untaxxed. so you're stealing money from the government
Who said "So many men so upset about women who chose to be sex workers?" I couldn't care less, if she chooses to be a slut, and get fcked for pay!! I can kind of respect that, if she has a child to support, and being a Sex-worker pays pretty good, from what I have seen. WAYYY better than McDonalds, or an office job!! I would NEVER DATE ONE tough!!
Whomever wrote this, get over yourself. We're laughing our asses off as you (typical of women) neglect to consider the consequences of your actions down the road and insist on living in the moment #HotGirlSummer only to be devastated that everyone already knows who you are *wink wink* before you even set foot in the building of a potential employer.
It's a little annoying that just about ANY woman could just roll around in her bed wearing nothing in front of a camera and earn a mountain of money, the pretty privilege is kind of annoying to normal people, mainly guys.
But I dont have any real issue with them, cause I dont watch them, I'm not gonna give you even 5 bucks for what I can see for free on the internet.
It's a pathological relationship dynamic that takes advantage of loneliness and base animalistic urges while dehumanizing both parties in different ways.
By all means though, legalize it so that the price drops to like fifty bucks and it stops being worth doing unless you really really want to.
I'm not really upset by it though, if you can find an alternative to the corporate meat grinder, have fun 👍
I'm not upset by it. I don't look down on women who do it, but I don't want to be in a serious relationship with a woman who is doing it. For me, it cheapens the intimacy of a real relationship. As for only fans banning sexually explicit material, isn't the the whole point of Only Fans?
Not all men are upset about that. I don't care if a woman wants to do that then it should be made clear from the start. So don't mislead people or lie about it. Look I don't have a problem with someone doing that work, it is I hate exploitation or someone being forced into the work.
It's predatory and unlike other forms of entertainment doesn't actually teach the receiver anything useful that can improve his life. Sex workers are leeches of society, but I guess they're not as bad as Celebrities, right?
This is why we have prostitution, hitmen, trafficking and cannibalism in the black market globally. There is nothing to be saddened or upset about, but we shouldn't let people whore themselves out.
I'll give you a good reason. It's because women are paid much more than men for the same work in that industry. As much as we have to listen to women bitch and moan every single day about imaginary pay gaps and bullshit sexism, this is an honest to god real example of it all, but it actually favors the women--which is why they refuse to talk about it. Stick that in your pipe and smoke it. :)
Also, OF is banning "porn" because of grooming and exploitation issues.
I have zero problem with prostitutes, met several and they are as a norm, great conversationalist. But I despise E-thots. Male or female. Mostly because of their habit of exploiting and grooming children. Second because of their entitlement. But that's something I actually despise on influencers in general.
I don't know about others Miss, but I am not upset with the women who are sex workers it is their choice to work in this profession, I don't have anything to hate them for.
Not upset at all with women sex workers, they fulfill a purpose, but somebodiesgirlfriend , wife, sister being a cheating slut on social media isn’t being a sex worker.
Are there really men upset about that? lol But I had no idea only fans was banning sexually explicit material, sounds like a horrible move for business, that's what made it popular.
they can suk their nans cuz they the ones who shag slags then bark about wanting a woman shut the fuck up boiz go change ur nappy fam u wet wipe
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I don’t really care. It is quite funny to me that after decades of feminism young women are arguing that selling butthole pictures to losers is empowering.
Why are women so upset so many men dont want to pay for dates, hold their door, marry them, or generally treat them like they are special? If you're not endangering people, breaking the law, or hurting people does it really matter?
What about the men involved in sex work, and all the people who support the industry by watching porn? There wouldn’t be a supply if there wasn’t a demand.
Because we see it as taking the easy route in life by using the feminine natural abilities of seduction and sex to make bread but at the same time men using their natural ability of intimidation and violence is prohibited.
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It does hurt people. "he that keepeth company with harlots spendeth his substance." And the harlots spend it all on big brands, making corporations rich. This is common sense.
But those men are only upset when they are not using the services. . . so. . . it is nonsense.
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Because it shows the positive side of being a woman. Even if you have no credentials, you can earn money by just stripping on a site. Men won't have the same demand.
I personally do not pay for sex but I have no objection to what these women want to do. It hs their choice and as you said they are not harming anyone!
Either old fashioned, religious or you mistake a lack of respect for being upset. A lot of men only treat women right because society dictates it and they want sex.
It’s such a useless job. All it does oak make those who use the services feel even more empty inside. They think they want sex but they really want actual human connection, someone who is actually happy to see them.
Most of it is from the religious dogma that stubbornly still persists today.
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I'm not? In fact I'm totally fine with it. If you want to do that then go ahead, it's your body and it's your life. Just hope that if you ever have kids they never find your stuff lol.
I'm not upset. Its her life. However, can you really be proud of that career at the end of the day? Is that really a meaningful line of work?
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I want 75% of all women to be sex workers. Yes go do it.
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Because it reminds us that a considerable number of girls are thots and not relationship material and that shows us how low the chances are for us to find a decent girl. That should upset any man
@Subarugirl. Men, real men are upset about things like only fans because it is one more cog in the cultural machine that has turned modern women into mindless, sex driven, whores; who are awful mothers, lacking any moral compass, and without redemption.
Women were once the pacifying and calming force in society, the core of the family, and backbone of raising children. Men stood when women came to or left the table, held doors, river their hats, and otherwise deferred to women out of RESPECT for the position women held. Men would readily lay down their lives for women ("women and children first"), and men did so without complaint. Men did these things, and more, because women were WORTHY of such respect.
I laugh when I see modern women here posting that they want "romance" and "chivalry" when their behavior in no way entitles them to such respect from men.
Respectfully, morality is subjective. Also its not like sex work is something new, its been around for thousands of years. Men are the primary consumers for sex workers, with out a demand for it the supply would dwindle. People discovered that sex sells, and as long as there are buyers it will always sell. I don't think it's very logical to vilify an entire generations of people because of how some people legally earn a living.
@Subarugirl. It's about how women have destroyed their own brand but still expect to command the same price. During the 80's GM was looking to squeeze every dollar out of the Cadillac brand they possibly could. The absolute rock bottom was when a little shit-box coke can car was introduced... with a Cadillac hood ornament. It was pathetic, disgusting, and the lowest point in the brands history. The Cadillac brand has improved but has never fully recovered from this awful low.
In my opinion women as a brand have introduced their shit box coke can in the last several years; and the consumers (men) have noticed. Marriage is at the lowest rate in recorded history as the consumer has rejected and lost trust in the female brand.
You women have collectively done this to yourselves due to your greed, lack of foresight, and inability to realize action/consequence.
@Subarugirl. Yes, I knew you would gravitate to that and I almost preemptively answered it. We all endeavor to "market" ourselves so I was using the example to put things into terms you might understand.
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