Why Do So Many People Hate Sex Workers?

[emeraldsaphire]

I don't think I'd consider myself a sex worker, but I have dabbled a bit. I've done OnlyFans, Fansly, Throne, I've even had sex for money IRL. My friends who are sex workers are like marketing geniuses. They have dozens of social media accounts and multiple phones, and they post 10-20 times a day. I respect the hustle, but I just don't have the energy to do all that and then have to make customs. and sext with people all day. So I just post nudes and sext when I want to have some fun.

But whenever I post on here about it, people call me a "whore". And what is the problem? So what that I like to pose naked on the internet? I'm not hurting anyone. And how is being a sex worker any different from any other job? Construction workers sell their body too.

[RandomGirl42]

You go, girl! I say , as long as it harms no one else , we should do what we want! I have all kinds of kinks and twists I get judged for all the time but the only one I ever have to answer to is the girl in the mirror. And so now, I dare to be me! I have learned all kinds of people will tell me what they believe to be true about me. I have also learned, I don't have to believe them.

And back in college I started to dabble around on the internet in self-promotion (Feed my narcissism! 🤣) but yeah, way too much work and trouble for this lazy girl. 😊

[RandomGirl42]

Ty for the MHO 😊

[Agape93]

Because they either equate it with you being a bad or dirty person, or they don't like that you earn money via sexuality.

I don't give a shit. I have friends who are prostitutes, hell my girl was one for a short bit. Do as thou Wilt.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most if us learned that sex is something which should be shared as an expression of love between a man and a woman in a committed relationship. When someone flagrantly disregards something that we believe is so fundamentally important, it feels like an insult.

So, you minimize what you have done by saying you have "dabbled" at being a "sex worker." Translation: you are a rather unsuccessful prostitute, or whore, who is unwilling to accept the reality of what you have chosen. Will you be proud to tell your children and grandchildren what you did when you were younger, or will you hide the truth because you'll finally feel embarrassed?

You asked for opinions, and you got my unfiltered opinion.

[Hardon-Collider]

Nobody on here cares about the impact of prostitution on your personal soul. But you are literally a prostitute. And while there are metaphorical ways to "prostitute oneself", the term "whore" specifically means a sexual prostitute. It's a very accurate description of likes of you.

But like i said, nobody here cares for your soul. And by extension, nobody is judging you for it. They just call it what it is. If you have a problem with this title, perhaps it is good for you to be called that because you obviously dislike being a whore and their pronunciations it snap you back into reality.

Besides, construction workers build things. Whores destroy things. So it would be more accurate to compare yourself to demolition workers. ㅤ

[emeraldsaphire]

"the likes of me" huh. Look even though I don't do sex work anymore, I'll wear the term whore with pride. And what do we destroy? I talk to lonely men, and send them photos, I help them feel better. Sex workers give value to society.

[Hardon-Collider]

Lonely men? It scratches an infected wound just because it is itching. Imagine thinking that sex is the cure for loneliness.

And yes, destructive. Even though the actual destroyers aren't always the main culprit: if a wife hires demolition workers to destroy the house, then who should the husband get mad at, the wife, or the metaphorical prostitute men?

Of course the wife. But doesn't change the fact that they destroyed it. If you entertain men who cheat, then you aren't the reason they cheated, but you carried out the physical destruction of that marriage vow.

[emeraldsaphire]

Contrary to what you might think, I had clients who just wanted to chat. They didn't want to do anything sexual; they just wanted someone to talk to. I had this couple who were having problems in the bedroom, and I helped them by talking to them about sexual stuff. Most of the guys who joined my OnlyFans were single. They were often guys who were single by choice and preferred to pay sex workers because they didn't want the stress from relationships. You seem to have a lot of judgments about an industry you know nothing about.

[Tamera952]

@emeraldsaphireE: I just wanted to commend you! You have excellent responses and on point facts! I’ve known personally many sex workers, and you’re absolutely right that it is more than just wham-bam sex, it’s much more nuanced. And, I wholeheartedly agree with you, that people with the most judgement and are the most disparaging and critical about sex workers, always know the least amount about it.

[Lliam]

It's a good question.
People are fine with companies that abuse their workers and with industries that victimize clients. But they have all kinds of issues when it comes to sex.

In ancient times, temple priestesses and "vestal virgins" were essentially prostitutes but they were highly regarded, even worshiped.

Historically, wealthy married men could afford concubines or mistresses.

And regular prostitution is known as the oldest profession. It serves as an essential outlet for men's needs.

But working class wives justifiably saw prostitutes as threats, temptations or competition. And before antibiotics, man would catch STDs from prostitutes and pass them on to their wives.

Followers of the Abrahamic religions - Jews, Christians and Muslims - have serious sexual hang ups. They believe that sex is a "sacred" act reserved to monogamous couples for the purpose of procreation.

Nevertheless, prostitution is a very valuable service. I think of places like mining camps and frontier towns where there were few marriageable women. Men were desperate for female companionship, the sight and sound of a female, the touch of a woman, and sex.

Many men in big cities were also isolated and seem to be increasingly so today. That is why prostitution continues to thrive. And, unfortunately, it is big business for pimps, traffickers and organized crime. Many prostitutes are unwilling victims - essentially slaves.

Legalizing prostitution would make it easier for victims of trafficking and abuse to report their abusers to the police. There would be no need for pimps and protection.
It would also allow prostitutes to establish legitimate businesses, get certified, report their taxes, organize associations and unions, get health insurance, etc. Health inspectors could visit them just as they do restaurants and salons.

If psychics and masseuses can advertise, have store fronts or do house calls, why not prostitutes?

I once found out that a lady I knew had a small list of regular clients when she was in college. She was apparently very discrete and nobody else knew. She was young and attractive and they paid very well. She could be selective about her clientele, work hours that fit her schedule, and make enough money to support herself and pay tuition. And she also enjoyed it. She thought if was much more preferable than working regular hours for a low salary.
When I met her, she had a college degree, a long-term boyfriend, and a good job with an insurance company. She was really cool, too.

Now days, there is the vast porn industry. I assume that some of its female stars are groomed and victimized.

But there is a also a relatively new, cottage industry of girls who earn money on sites like Only Fans. Those girls are self-employed entrepreneurs. I assume that those who do it are kinky, like sex, are confident about their bodies and comfortable with exhibitionism.
And who are they hurting, guys who pay on-line to watch? Or more like girlfriends or wives of guys who watch and are hurt that their guy looks at other women? Some people are really jealous and possessive like that.
But if a girlfriend or wife doesn't like it, it's not the on-line girl's fault, it is the boyfriend or husband's. It's a far cry from going to a prostitute, but he is still hurting his partner's feelings and spending money on someone else.

So, there is a wide range of what can be described as "sex work" from strippers to escorts to street walkers to brothel workers, to porn stars and Only Fans girls.

I don't have a problem with any of it as long as it is safe and voluntary.
I don't think there is anything inherently dirty about sex or about women's sexuality.

[Nik1hil]

Dear, don't Pay attention to people who call you anytime Bad.

You don't do anything bad..

Most People are stupid and Don't Realise How amazing the Girls working in any form of Sex Work are..

It actual work, at Most Place.

One Girl She Sold Her Nudes to collect 50,000$ Fund to Stop Wildfire from Burning a Whole Forest Down.. Tell me One of These Loser who can Do that and Provide Fund to Fire control Until to do Their Job..

Many Prostitutes in USA collectively Did pool Money from Sex work for orphan and Poor helpless kids, and Not Just once but many Times..

Every day So many Prostitutes Help Spies of their Nation gather Intelligence, from enemies and avoid assassinations and Mass Terrorist attacks, while Working as a Prostitutes and Most Female Spy Agents are Working as High Class hooker or PROSTITUTE!.. Save so Many Lives from Evil Powerful People..

PROSTITUTES are the Only Women who Protect Young Girls from being broken the way they once one, and they Mend Hearts of Broken-man, enough that He can Live and not Go kill Himself..

Be proud of your Sex work, Focus more on healing People and Being Force of Good, instead of Taking Money for Yourself and Watch Men Happily Spill Money to you..

A 15$ Just Blowjob is more Expensive,

But a 20$ Blowjob that Comes with a small 10 cent Bracelet which Initial of Name of PROSTITUTE engraved on it, after the Act when the Men is leaving, Tell him to wait.. Tie the Bracelet on his wrist and Kiss his forehead and Tell him, "Something encouraging, He is a strong man, a warrior and He needs to Stay a Good man and Protect and Provide for people in society!"

I used to Think Sex workers are Bad until I was 19 also Hated them, but with Time I developed a Vision and was Open to Proper Communication..

Bless my Stars I found Eliza-Micheals here and Now I Understand, Sex workers are Psychologists & Sanitation Department, and Acts like a backbone in Societal Structure, to Handle men in Society

[OneViewpoint]

We are taught ( in the USA) that sex is "dirty" and sex for money is evil. It's mostly rooted in fucked up Christian religion.

But women buy into it because they see a woman who has sex for money as competition and frankly a job as a sex worker is out of reach for most women here. They'd starve. So perpetuating a stigma about sex workers allows them to feel morally superior.

Men buy into it because a lot of men are incredibly insecure when it comes to women and they can't tolerate a woman being in control of her sex life. That threatens them at a fundamental level. So men can also feel superior if they adopt a stigma towards sex workers.

I take a more practical view of sex work. You may be able to pull it off from 18 to maybe 35. But sooner or later your looks are gonna fade and men will move on to the next 18-35 year old. If you haven't done anything to educate yourself or gain experience in some other field, what are you gonna do from age 35 on to earn a living? So it's like a pro athlete. You have a short period (10-15 years) of great earnings that come pretty easily. And then you're forced to retire from football, basketball, baseball, etc. You better have a plan for what comes next in your life. You don't wanna wake up at 40, with no kids, no husband, no income, sagging body parts, belly fat, and no interest from guys who only want those 20 something girls.

[emeraldsaphire]

I've known some women who were active in sex work into their 40s, but I agree more broadly that you can't do sex work forever. A lot of that stuff wears down your body fast, and you suffer burnout sooner. I ran my onlyfans for about 6 months before I quit. It's a lot. This is true for many other jobs as well.

[OneViewpoint]

You seem pretty intelligent and well balanced. That breaks another stereotype for sex workers that says all sex workers are all losers who barely made it through high school, drug addicted, and have no other options. While that may be true for a lot of young women who grew up in bad circumstances and ended up bumping into the wrong people, it certainly isn't true for all young women. I read stories of a of college girls using only fans to help pay tuition or women who are diligent about investing and saving to create a future for themselves.

But once again, on the downside I have to wonder if the constant focus on being "sexy" and casual sex for money eventually ruins sex and intimacy for sex workers. Too much of anything will desensitize most people to that stimulus. Do you end up unable to feel anything or have a "normal" relationship? I don't know.

[emeraldsaphire]

lol, thanks. I think there is a bit of a difference between being a content creator sex worker like I was and working for a pimp in some kind of club. Those kinds of women usually don't choose that line of work, and that's where I think the difference is. I don't think those women are less intelligent, but they've fallen on hard times and have been trapped.

Honestly, many sex workers I know hate men. I don't blame them; you really see the worst of guys in that line of work. It's part of the reason I got out of it. To succeed, you need to be sexual all the time. In my opinion, sex work is best used as a sprint. I got laid off because of Covid, and I needed money. Overall I did enjoy it, but that's because I think I got out before I started to hate it. Other women might have less or more endurance than me. It all depends.

[OneViewpoint]

Interesting. Thanks for the insight. That all fits what I sort of expected. We are all shaped by our experiences. And sex workers are exposed to umm... not the best men, probably some downright pathetic men. But I've obviously never experienced it firsthand so it's just conjecture on my part.

[Levin]

I feel like there's a lot of dimensions to this.

I did have a friend who briefly dabbled with the idea of selling feet pictures. In that little time she changed a bit. Like your soul is important, it is impacted by these things. Greed, worldly and lustful thoughts do consume the heart. I'm not being prudish here because I think sex is wonderful. I just think we shouldn't underplay the subtle just because we live in a materialistic world.

As for marketing women? Well, who gives a shit. Being a woman and selling sex is not difficult. Flash a bit of tit or pussy, and you will have 1000 sad lonely men willing to pay in a heartbeat. It's a bit like online dating. Women think they're desirable because they get 1000 likes within 12 hours. Men will get three likes a week. You didn't accomplish anything because you're female and have a vagina.

Actually create something of value in life, and see how difficult that is.

As for having sex in real life with people for money. Sorry, but that is just unimaginably horrible.

Lust consumes and it jades.

[aaron13547]

I think its more about ignorance and not understanding it. If you enjoy something and someone wants to pay you for it, you would almost be stupid not to accept that.

However, when the thing is sex it gets complicated. Sex is magic, its about connection. Personally, when money makes that connection happen for me. Its not the same as making love. Its missing something.

Most people on here probably hate sex workers because they can't get money or women and they wish they could. Hating those things justifys to them not being able to get it.

I dont like sex work because money ruins the connection for me. I had an ex girlfriend that told me she would suck my dick if I took her to get her nails done, she was girlfriend for months before... As much as I wanted to enjoy it, the trade off took away from the enjoyment. I realized then I wanted my dick sucked because she wants to suck it. Not because she wants to get new nails.

The biggest turn on to me is turning on someone else. Anyone can get money, there is nothing special in that. I want to feel special everybody does. Money doesn't do that for me. Especially giving it away, no matter how much money I have, giving it away doesn't feel good...

Making love does. Mix them ruins it for me.

[Lliam]

"The biggest turn on to me is turning on someone else." Maybe that's what some sex workers enjoy and why they like their jobs.

[aaron13547]

Im sure it is. Its Just not my cup of tea.

[MissSunshine2]

I know I'm quoting the Bible, but whether you're religious or not, Jesus was an impressive person, the way he changed history and it was Jesus himself, who said 'Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone;' about a promiscuous woman that everyone was judging. That was thousands of years ago.

Me, I partly don't judge others harshly because I'm a Christian, (but that doesn't stop many Christians); but I'd say mostly because I've made my share of things that others might regard as mistakes and judge me for them. Also, I had a friend who had to become a prostitute to survive. Last I heard, she quit the business, got a clerical job, moved states, bought a house and got married. I was thrilled for her. She was a dear friend of mine.

I think that people have a defence mechanism where they are hateful and dismissive of what hits too close to home, that it could've been them that this happened to. Or when they react with fear to what they don't understand.

[ohsheeT]

I think if anybody hated him, it would be another woman. And that's only if her boyfriend or husband has used them before

I have the best friend who is a prostitute

She used to be a stripper, and I got her out of the clubs but then she has a friend. Who is a prostitute and talk to my friend into it? She's been doing it for quite a while

She asked me for advice and I said I can't tell you what to do. Personally , is not my type of thing , but i'm not a girl either

And she has 2 kids and I told her, if you're going to do it, do it the right way and make your money, put it away and don't just spend it thinking that you'll get another payday because 1 day when you least expect it, everything will just stop. So put your money. Away, go to school, do something, buy a house, buy a car.

And she's been wise in a lot of different ways , but I mean , nobody can tell them what to do and they're just like every other girl , except for they do things a little bit different , so

I look at it like this. It takes a lot to do what she does. What you do. You have to be a certain type of person. You have to be a certain type of b***** because you need to protect yourself. You have to be wise. You got to be smart in every manner and you have to be able to take care of yourself. So I don't hate them, I don't dislike them. As a matter of fact, I pay attention to them, because I want to see who they are in life and what they're willing to do when shit hits the fan, how they're going to stand back app and get going again and not blame anybody. Just keep going forward it real.\nLy takes a very strong girl to do what you guys do

[RavVid]

I agree with you.

If a guy spent a lot of money on a girl and she gave him sex that's not prostitution. If a beautiful girl manages to negotiate marriage with a rich guy she will be applauded for that. However if she gives sex for $X she will be hated and derided. There is a grey to black scale with many infinitesimal steps if you look at it closely. Did that beautiful girl marry for love or money mostly?

Women's mags only started talking about marrying for love in the early 1800's so marrying for love doesn't have a hallowed history.

The whole concept of men as providers is just dressing up that it is sex for money & resources. Fundamentally, because women are vulnerable during pregnancy, childbirth, and nursing, the need for resources being provided has been part of the evolved pysche.

It is basically always sex for money and it is hard/impossible to make a demarcation line. That beautiful girl will insist she married even it was money that got her wet.

On a legal basis, Australian law regards it as a type of employment. It is quite legitimate for a girl to get a working holiday visa and to work in a brothel.

[love_conquers_lust]

The strongest opposers to prostitution have historically been women. Men tend to discard prostitutes once they are done with them. It's no coincidence that some of the poorest societies don't allow it because it would make things a whole lot worse if they did. Men, just, don't give a shit if they can get laid with minimal effort.

I quote Dave Chappelle "If men could fuck women in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house". "Men don't like nice cars. Men get nice cars, because women like nice cars." "Women like being comfortable as shit." "A woman's test in life is material. A man's test in life is a woman."

It's a tragedy of the commons. While you and your sex worker friends were out satisfying the sexual needs of some horny men, there are other women out there looking for a mate but can't find one because those men got what they wanted somewhere else.

Take a look at matriarchal societies. It's run by women and they tend to behave like bonobos. They use sex to neutralize conflict. Women will have sex with many different men. Their infrastructure, their society, on the whole, looks like crap. They live in dang straw huts. While the men are passed out in alleyways in a sexually satisfied stupor because... they don't have to care beyond that.

[DextroShade]

Construction workers contribute to society by building things, unlike whores who degrade society by spreading degeneracy. Men used to not have as much of a problem with sex workers because they effectively existed as their own separate caste of society, were small in number, and did not affect men's ability to find a wife. Now with OnlyFans and similar it has become way too easy for any woman to become a whore as soon as she turns 18, and there is constant ✡️ propaganda telling them how much money they will make and how empowering it is. As a result, a sizeable percentage of young women have now ruined themselves and their prospects for marriage by being OF whores.

Men hate this because it reduces the supply of women who could be considered for marriage and they talentless thots making lots of money for taking naked pictures of themselves while they don't have to option to do that and are stuck working regular jobs for low pay like chumps.

If I were in charge, these apps would be shut down, the small hats running them would be publicly executed, and Sophie Rain would be immediately deported to Afghanistan.

[Kingofkings1992]

Comparing prostitution with being a construction worker is asinine. "Sex workers" are not respected by a large chunk of society because they don't have any respect for themselves. Plain and simple. If you don't respect yourself, then why should anyone else respect you? Don't get me wrong- I'm a firm believer of the sentiment that everyone should be free to do whatever they want with their own bodies. Just like no one else can tell you what to do with your own body, the same principle applies to what others think of you. If I wanna get covered in tattoos, it's my right. But another person also has the right to look at me, and say "this dude looks like he's been in prison." If a lady wants to sell her pussy on the corner, it's totally her right to do so. But another woman who has different values has every right to look at her, and say "Christ, look at that whore. She'll suck off anyone for a $20 bill. I have zero respect for her." You have every right to live your life the way you want to, but there are social consequences for any decision you make. Expecting to do whatever is you want to do free of facing any consequences is a very childish mentality.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... Let's just say You are not wife material if You are known to be promiscous, and that does make You "damaged goods", whatever You think of this expression. Having learned a bit more about what You did, including all the non-sexual acts (unless You ripped those men off for those), I will admit that this kind of prostitution might be the only thing keeping men from extreme violence out of frustration and therefore keeping the Western societies in one piece. You might consider going with the time, though. There are so many ASMR VTubers out there, some even supposedly do actually depraved stuff on platforms I never even know the names of (check out ProjectMelody).

[4ngelic]

it's because women being promiscuous is viewed as dirty and horrible, and you get stigmatized and judged. prostitutes and other types of sw take that to another level. there's also the idea that they might be litterally filthy, have diseases, be hooked to substances, be dirt poor, be mentally ill, etc. there's also some women that view them as competition or as a potential disruptor to their marriage/relationship and men who hate that a lot of women can make 'easy' money with their body but they can't. with of and all that some men don't like that some women can make easy money without selling their actual body and that they create simps. there's also people, especially christians who view all sw as moral decay because they have a more conservative stance on sex.

[cherrytreeblossom]

because people still believe to this very day in the immaculate conception of our lord and saviour sweet baby cheezus christ and you're supposed to be a virgin nun never thinking about no-no things

or because they are no-life losers with nothing better to do and having achieved nothing better, either. a woman with a career is a threat to those men who have no career. and being successful in your field is still more even in the eyes of a former christian than being a basement-dwelling neckbeard.

[HawkPerception]

You think you're not hurting anyone, but you're becoming less wifey material to the majority of guys and you're taking money from desperate simps, unless you're doing it for free, which I highly doubt. Now don't get me wrong. It's equally their fault that they indulge in that pathetic crap. If it's what you want to do, then own the fact that you're a whore, because that's what you'll be labelled as by the majority of society, whether you like it or not.

Many people are trying to make a living doing honest work, and it's very frustrating when a girl just shows her body off for easy money. And as I said, not many men are pathetic enough to want a girl where everyone else has seen her.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

A combination of misogyny and puritan influence. The misogyny says that a woman can’t be any good without a consistent man in her life, and while sex workers can date just fine, puritan influence says that women can only be with their husbands and only perform sexual acts with their husbands exclusively in the name of making a baby together because having sex for pleasure is sinful and shameful and fuels the whole sexual shame culture that says the men who look at the work done by sex workers are deviants, perverts, and undesirables. But instead of blaming the man’s actions, society prefers to blame the “temptation” of women. I agree, it’s very dumb and we honestly should have better, more casual attitudes about sex as a whole.

[Miristheiss]

You have to be so warped and gone to even be willing to do stuff like that.

Sex is for marriage, families, babies, bonding.

This is the Satanic perversion of what God created sexuality for. Total rebellion against all that is natural and good.

Selling your soul for a few bucks... so perverts can jack off in private. Instead of pair bonding and intimate families... degenerate perverts selling themselves and people jacking off. Ruined bonding, addiction, trauma, no families or intimacy, no children.

Once someone does porn... it can never be undone.

[Zack-Bann]

Why do you mind being called a whore?
you are whoring your body as you clearly said.


Just own the label.


And people don’t really hate sex workers themselves. They hate the concept.
They don’t want it to be normalized or accepted because that might push their own kids to decide to do it


Usually people have higher expectations from their own offsprings as they represent their legacy in life.


And total disregard for stranger‘s feels
So they shame you without a care in the world as long as they can protect the society they wish to leave behind

[Anonymous]

A majority of men don’t care if you show your ass or tits for money. It’s usually other women who are against it. But also keep in mind which I’m sure you’re aware of. Even though most men would consume that type of content, they’re not as willing to marry a girl who has done sex work. To most men women like that are just for fun, nothing serious. So as long as you’re ok knowing that there’s a strong possibility you won’t find a man who takes you serious, then you’re good. But don’t expect men to accept your past once you decide I don’t want to do this anymore.

[capriVib]

It's because people are hypocritical, they consume the service and then vilify the very thing they use. Historically, female sexuality has been seen as high-value, leading society to develop control mechanisms. When sex workers bypass these norms, they disrupt the status quo, which triggers a protective instinct in the form of hatred.

[AviatorTom]

I don't hate anyone, and I support sex workers... If what they are doing is of their own free will (no trafficking) and don't physically harm anyone. I've been a proponent if legalizing prostitution for years. There's a legitimate reason why it's the oldest profession. Properly regulated and managed, of course, like Nevada in the US, Germany and The Netherlands in Europe, and Australia.

[PeachyPie93]

They are doing scummy work for easy money while everyone with dignity works hard to get theirs..
Sluts pass around STD's
They sleep with married men
They flirt/dress provocatively and call attention to themselves in front of other peoples partners..
When girls give out easy sex it makes men not that inclined to have relationships or get married.. it's bad for society as a whole. This why when a hoe gets murdered no one cares..

[NathanDavis]

I don't

I'm just neutral about it...

people, naturally... judge, that's something we just do, everyone does it... now, the jump from judgment, to criticizing and then, actually hating on someone... that usually comes from these people hating themselves and then projecting it onto others... lol

[Berethor]

I don't want to date a sex worker but prostitution reduce rape rates so it helps to society.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/legal-prostitution-zones-reduce-incidents-of-rape-and_b_58c83be1e4b01d0d473bce8a

[DonaldDarko]

Because they're whores and bring nothing to society but evil. No one has sex who isn't at least attracted to the person they're having sex with. Except when some weirdo starts having sex with men she isn't attracted to or even hates for money. She sells her body but also her personality her very soul, faking and pretending all the wile. A truly macabre and ghoulish act. Unthinkable when you actually examine it. No doubt that's what people are picking up on.

[MisterWack]

I don’t judge people and their life decisions, as long as you aren’t actively hurting other human beings or being a douche then by all means follow your dreams, please do what will make you happy in this life. You only got one.

Sex worker, pornography providers, camera models, Hooters waitresses, so on I don’t care as long as you are happy, feel fulfilled.

I wish them all the best, as they hopefully would towards me (if they don’t, I’ll still wish them the best).

[DeeDeeDeVour]

3. They assume prostitutes and male escorts have STDs.

2. They assume sex workers have no morals.

1. Because they don't want to pay for sex.

[CalmUntilAbused]

@DeeDeeDeVour

0. ... and they are perfectly allowed to have those opinons - in fact, point 3 and 2 are grounded in statistics.

[Master_Debator]

I like your viewpoint... construction workers sell their bodies too... you hit me right in the red pills with that one. You're right.

You make me ask myself what my beef is with the... you know... what is it?

I think my shield wall goes up when I realize I'm the target... you know I want to bang and you seek to take advantage of that. I'm not going to purposly be mean to the attempt, but I recognize I'm being tried to be used. Defence goes up.

[Dargil]

I am a faithful Christian, but also a libertarian. I think that Christian morality plays a lot in loathing sex workers. Even though haters are not Christians, It's embedded in our culture. Maybe it's a little bit like anti semitism. People already hated Jews, and now they have to invent reasons why.

[ChillDude4L]

I don't hate sex workers, but I can see from others perspective, like you have a daughter and one more thing you have to protect from, these are risky jobs with no long-term guarantee. I heard some save for college, good for them, life is shitty, but I worry if it affects their emotional state.

[888theGreat]

Because they use less people that spread diseases. They depend on looks or how they dress to make a living. They use what is between their legs instead of what is between their ears. Low self esteem , maybe sexual abuse in their lives. They have many issues They could always do something else that would be more gratifying. It looks like they take advantage of other people's weaknesses.

[Tamera952]

Because they’re ignorant, misinformed, and overly judgmental. Sex work is just that; work. It should be legal, across the board, without any restrictions, in my opinion.

[Shy_Steve]

Because most of them are females and they can make lots of money and everyone knows how much straght Guys want sex and how females have more access to sex so it looks bad because it is seen as a form of mistreatment and they are making lots of money while doing it.

[Chloe432]

People are just judgmental and can't let go of stigmas. At the end of the day it's a job like any other

[ilistengood]

Jealousy on oh so many levels.. I have had ltr with 2 strippers im not shy about paying for pussy. Espe rally if imout of town working.. I've also paid for it just because she wS hot

[AMS700CX4u2]

There is truth in your comment. Socially, Sex Workers are a necessity..

[David318578]

People are hypocrites. I bet most of the people saying negative things about sex work have jerked off to porn.

[FreyaRed]

If you don't know what is true reason for disdain or hatred, it's likely this reason is money

[NoDecision]

Because they make it easy for someone to cheat.

[loveslongnails]

Hmmm... because SO MANY people are hypocrites who don't know that most of the men they elect use them? And they're self-righteous?

[butterly248]

I've done fansly, escorting and sw. It's because we sold out bodies and self worth :(

[Anonymous]

LAME

If interested listen to Granny Beatrice on Facebook, she kills it with the advice.

[jamesgoldman]

Pretty sure it stems from hard-line religious teachings in youth

[noohair]

I think the stigma of a sex worker comes from the concept of being a street walker. Take care of yourself and be well.

[jahaims]

Sex workers are mentally ill people being taken advantage of

[blackeagle007]

This needs to be legalized. So stupid to bust someone purchasing sex

[Anonymous]

Sex workwrs are sluts
And threat to monogamous couples, in other words society

Don't get me wrong, I was a significant customer is hookers 30 years ago
And I felt the judgement of society too

I am saying this because I understand

[dragoblack]

Cultural norms, and jealousy that they can earn so much.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I have FAR more respect for you than First Hoe Melania Trump !!!

[WhiteBoyChill]

I dont particularly care what they do, its only that buying nudes isn’t my thing personally

[Anonymous]

I’m just like you and I don’t care what anybody thinks about my being a prostitute.

[exitseven]

there is a stigma towards them.

[Oldschool1981]

I don't. I once dated one

[Shrimpenjoyer]

I mean you kinda are a sex worker

[Nice222]

I love them myself.