I will just grab popcorn and see the disgrace this question will be! Thank you so much for making it really.
My take on this. Society will never be matriarcal. There is nothing wrong with women having high paying jobs or being strong. Men will always have that too so no need to worry. You say that men are weaker now, but that is a result of the evolution to a society where the brain matter more then the brawl. Nothing wrong with it. Don't worry we will always be on average phonically stronger. It's good that women now also work. More people working makes society evolve even more and they now also bring money home. Not only that but in case of a emergency if they are stronger they can help.
Don't see this as all men are weak now and all women are stronger. People have more of a choice with what they want to do with their lives. That is all. Live and let live and don't worry about something that doesn't need worrying about.
If anyone of any gender fits and wants a job position, than they deserve the position. We can only hope the future will be run by competent people in general. It just makes life easier.
What if more than one person fit a job position and wants it? Which is usually the case. And then you have the bias of who actually is fit for a job. It's not simple especially when there is no way to rank every person in the world against an requirement.
@Adam1978 If all the candidates fit the role it’s natural to go to who applied first. Are you suggesting favoritism? If a person hiring knows the applicant that would benefit them.
No. I think more women will be in positions of power (which is fine as long as they are in said positions because they were most qualified and not as a result of affirmative action) but there are to many men who do possess the necessary masculine traits that’ll keep them in positions of power such as President, Prime Minister, etc.
1. Women don't want to run things really... if they did half or more of government would be women since women have that kind of voting power. 2. Science says women are weaker: they get stressed more easily than men and they have psychological issues more often. These are the same women telling men to show their emotions. Ha. 3. It's a lot easier to let someone else lead & complain about things than to be a leader. Yes, this applies to many guys today too.
Im sure that'll work out fine. That's why history is full of successful matriarchies.
And lets say the west is going to become matriarchal. Rival countries will see that as a sing of weakness and probably go to war.
No offense to women but war just isn't your strong suit. And you can't have a strong army by encouraging them to express their feefees and "muh diversity" and all this other shit.
Normally, I would love to have this debate with you. Honestly I would. I just don't have it in me today. You can blame it on hormones making my temper super short, but im just trying to be really super nice and treat you as an equal here.
I appreciate your point of view and, again, agree to disagree.
I am more amenable to the idea of what you are saying though it is still inherently flawed. Equal opportunity is the main idea of course, but treating someone better over a perceived "superiority" has too many downsides.
ah i dont mean perceived superiority but actual superiority in measurable quantities like being good at math and studying physics being able to think 3dimensionally like some people are freakishly good at something "savants"if i may say so
and on the grassroot level you car needs fixing and you have found a excellent mechanic who does the job fast, good and reasonable price would you not say they are superior to other mechanics and you would value them over others
Don't know to be honest. I was someone who was freakishly good at math like you stated. I wasn't treated any better than those who needed more time with it. I moved on to other interests and that is where I think I tend to diverge from others. I believe in more of a jack of all trades, master of none mentality so that we don't become reliant on a select few to do all the work
well if you are the top canditate for a jo and you are chosen for it did you not get treated better then the others because you were the best match for the job hence "superior" compared to the others
That’s unrealistic men and women complement each other meaning one is always gonna be over the other under certain conditions we make up for each other’s faults
Evolution takes a LONG time to work. Up until the last century or so, things were very divided by those gender roles but as we start doing more and more things equally we will eventually develop traits that will be more beneficial to completing those tasks equally. Possibly way off in the future, women having stockier frames and possibly men losing overall height for example. We are moving away from a purely physical work force and to more of one based around technology so the genetic traits that will be more beneficial will be based around those qualities.
How anyone feels doesn’t matter a lioness and a lion aren’t the same these are facts I don’t understand why you people blab about equality so much it’s not important and is distracting from real issues
They do more than that they protect, hunt , establish pack leadership male and females both have a lot of responsibility responsibilities that they are best suited to handle
Lioness do a majority of the hunt. The male lion actually stay back and watch the kids while the women do that work, specifically because they are faster and more agile than the males.
If anything this goes to show that both men and women can do the same work as one another so thanks for proving my point.
Yes it is a great thing. Why limit ourselves when we can all become better versions of ourselves? If you are cool being half useful, by all means, knock yourself out.
We’re limited when we all try to be the same perspective and point of view helps us grow as a species who was it that ever even said men and women weren’t equal? Do you know? No but I’ll tell you this whoever did was on the outside looking in
Are you blind? It already had been happening. Feel free to peruse a history book for women's rights just here in the US alone in the last 100 years. Over that time also look at what was considered the standard for beauty. Now women are actually in the work place more often and thanks to things like women moving more outside the home and things like airbrushing in media print, women are expected to meet new standards. We are constantly changing as a species and will continue to do so as technology takes over more and more of our lives
Smh you see the difference the in equality in that men work cus we have to women work cus you want to if men could choose between being taken care of or working on our own we would never leave the couch we’d play video games drink fuck and sleep all day
I thought you were done trying to explain primary colors to me and yet here we are at 2 am with you still hopeless clinging to a dying mindset of gender roles.
You act like if a woman is home she just sits on her ass and plays games all day. Do you think the house cleans itself? That laundry gets washed and folds itself? I don't care if a guy wants to stay home, but he better actually be taking care of the house
I'm just responding to you saying something because I never claimed to be done. See, if you say you are done explaining, that means you are ready to walk away. If you come back and post again you are then a liar because you weren't done after all.
And that’s another thing would you take care of a man who does absolutely nothing while you work all day? Because a whole lot of guys do just that for women they don’t cook the order food they don’t clean they hire professional cleaners
Technically no because I'm gay, but if I were into guys and I could afford a professional cleaner then I really don't care as long as he is offering something else to the relationship.
Choose would be blatantly inaccurate. Trust me, I tried to force myself to like guys before I ever tried anything with a woman. It just never felt right so instead of trying to force myself to be something I wasn't, I just went with my natural instincts.
First time I kissed a girl was high school but first time I ever noticed them was way before then. I kissed a guy in middle school just to try and force the issue, but that was like sleeping in a motel bed. It functions like a bed, but was never as comfortable as my own bed which in this case was other women.
I don’t mean to offend but I’ve fucked a lot of alleged lesbian women so I’m just curious because women instinctively want to be dominated I’ve fucked so many lesbian women like seriously they were saying the same things you are and the crazy part is they are the one who wanted it if a woman tells me she doesn’t swing that way I back off but they come to me and my instincts get the better of me I mean no disrespect I’m just confused as why so many lesbian women still want dick and it’s always the more masculine ones who claim they really love pussy
You've had sex with exactly 0 lesbian women. If you have had sex with any woman then at best they were bi and they mislabeled themselves.
There is nothing about my wife that wants to be dominated. She is very much the dominant type who isn't afraid to put anyone in their place.
I like being dominated. I really do love giving up control. I am actually even a-ok with a guy doing this when done online because I don't have to make myself vulnerable around him in person. It still isn't a sexual thing for me though when I do. For me it is therapy to get out of my own head because I have a lot of self hatred and it is nice not to have to really do a lot of thinking. I can let someone else do it.
Of the two of us, only one of us has ever had interest in men and has actually had sex with one and that is her. Your theories are just wrong and smack of those over confident liars who think they have the slightest clue. Sadly, it is always the same tropes with you too.
I can tell you now with no uncertainty that I am feminine, I like to be dominated, but if you ever tried to have sex with me it would be a total fight or flight response with me. I will hurt you very badly and I will try to get away or die trying.
I hate the idea of anything penetrating me. I dont even use toys that go inside me. Same for fingers. I dont even have my ears pierced and I am super careful about what foods I even eat because the idea of things going in me that should not be there freak me the f*ck out.
hmm have you had a chat anyone about that food issue disregarding anything penetrative but avoiding certain certain foods could maybe be compulsive disorder or something similar and you said you have selfhatred so maybe go chat with an actual therapist if you can afford one sorry if I am being too nosy
Nah, I dont mind sharing. I already see one for my self hatred issues.
I already know I have compulsive issues, but like even the idea of sharing food with people gives me the bad shivers. Even with my own kids, if they drink from my cup it becomes their drink. I just can't do it.
I don’t mean to rain on your parade but plenty of straight women think the same about their men and they still bottom for other guys also I don’t chase I get chased I wouldn’t try to have sex with you or any woman their the ones who want it by the way a penis is definitely supposed to be in a vagina
Feel free to put it into any willing vagina you can find, but there is not a single penis or phallic shaped toy on planet earth finding its way inside me ever, ever.
i like to think the future isn't a he or she thing but it is build and hold together by both , both man and woman work together , to many times we seen what happens when one dont have have another to maybe talk to when duel with want to hurt another bc they hurt someone they love or someone who feel evil but feel like they have no one to open up to, so i think the future is both we have great leaders of woman and of man randoly out though our time here
I don't think the future will necessarily be female. I think it will be more collaborative, with less emphasis on traditional roles. And I think it's been happening for a while already now.
Your question shows complete ignorance of history. Future will never be female. Or male, for that matter. Just like it never was any gender. It is just a bullshit oversimplification of the society, as women always had and will always have just as much power as men had. To claim that somehow, magically, having society run by women is to have more fair society is utterly idiotic, as it was never the case.
I think it would be nice if we were just like or similar to the Slends. It’s okay for guys to hug other guys, no gender is more superior than the other, everyone just takas the role they play best in, basically no conflict whatsoever, devilish dishonor don’t exist, cheating don’t exist, and uhhh, yeah. I that’s them summarized
let's get back to the best people for the jobs... we had an election where it was stolen and now look how bad off america is in just 7 months... harris the 1st women of color as vice but she's not able to do the job at all... so on and so on.
The future is neither men nor women. We need everyone together and equal for a good future. Turning everything into a competition between genders is bad for progress.
Name one specific field of substance that is currently male dominated with male numbers declining and female numbers on the rise in positions of leadership.
An industry with decision-making power in a meaningful way
Personally idc. I’ve withdrawn from this shit and won’t play a part. Let them have the failing country I welcome the end coming under their rule. Idc it don’t effect me any regardless.
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I will just grab popcorn and see the disgrace this question will be! Thank you so much for making it really.
My take on this.
Society will never be matriarcal. There is nothing wrong with women having high paying jobs or being strong. Men will always have that too so no need to worry.
You say that men are weaker now, but that is a result of the evolution to a society where the brain matter more then the brawl. Nothing wrong with it.
Don't worry we will always be on average phonically stronger.
It's good that women now also work. More people working makes society evolve even more and they now also bring money home. Not only that but in case of a emergency if they are stronger they can help.
Don't see this as all men are weak now and all women are stronger. People have more of a choice with what they want to do with their lives. That is all. Live and let live and don't worry about something that doesn't need worrying about.
If anyone of any gender fits and wants a job position, than they deserve the position. We can only hope the future will be run by competent people in general. It just makes life easier.
What if more than one person fit a job position and wants it? Which is usually the case. And then you have the bias of who actually is fit for a job. It's not simple especially when there is no way to rank every person in the world against an requirement.
@Adam1978 That is life. Whoever applied first I suppose.
That sounds like a bad way of getting the best candidate. It will be someone who knows the one posting it, if it's an attractive position.
@Adam1978 If all the candidates fit the role it’s natural to go to who applied first. Are you suggesting favoritism? If a person hiring knows the applicant that would benefit them.
No I am saying you should raise the bar until only one remains. If you really best suited for a important job your to busy to apply fast.
@Adam1978 Ah. Ok.
Let's make a list of the woman in power:
Nancy Pelosi
AOC
The Rest Of The Squad.
Liz Cheney
Hillary
Dianne Feinstein
Shall I continue?
So be real.
Based on this list of women is the world a better place?
Let's not forget Angela Merkel... She's a keeper.
No. I think more women will be in positions of power (which is fine as long as they are in said positions because they were most qualified and not as a result of affirmative action) but there are to many men who do possess the necessary masculine traits that’ll keep them in positions of power such as President, Prime Minister, etc.
1. Women don't want to run things really... if they did half or more of government would be women since women have that kind of voting power.
2. Science says women are weaker: they get stressed more easily than men and they have psychological issues more often. These are the same women telling men to show their emotions. Ha.
3. It's a lot easier to let someone else lead & complain about things than to be a leader. Yes, this applies to many guys today too.
Im sure that'll work out fine. That's why history is full of successful matriarchies.
And lets say the west is going to become matriarchal. Rival countries will see that as a sing of weakness and probably go to war.
No offense to women but war just isn't your strong suit. And you can't have a strong army by encouraging them to express their feefees and "muh diversity" and all this other shit.
How about no.
True equality is the way to go. No gender should be over the other.
Two things in this universe can't be equal
If you are breaking it down into a scientific matter, no we can't be exactly equal, but we can still treat each other as such.
Equal treatment can't be given
Everyone has a certain character, value etc
Agree to disagree
It's ur choice to disagree
Men and women are different both biologically and psychologically
Brainwashed people patting on their backs won't change facts
Masculinity and femininity are different things
Normally, I would love to have this debate with you. Honestly I would. I just don't have it in me today. You can blame it on hormones making my temper super short, but im just trying to be really super nice and treat you as an equal here.
I appreciate your point of view and, again, agree to disagree.
not maybe equal treatment but equal opportunity. superior people regardless gender are usually treated better isn't that true?
I am more amenable to the idea of what you are saying though it is still inherently flawed. Equal opportunity is the main idea of course, but treating someone better over a perceived "superiority" has too many downsides.
ah i dont mean perceived superiority but actual superiority in measurable quantities like being good at math and studying physics being able to think 3dimensionally like some people are freakishly good at something "savants"if i may say so
and on the grassroot level you car needs fixing and you have found a excellent mechanic who does the job fast, good and reasonable price would you not say they are superior to other mechanics and you would value them over others
Don't know to be honest. I was someone who was freakishly good at math like you stated. I wasn't treated any better than those who needed more time with it. I moved on to other interests and that is where I think I tend to diverge from others. I believe in more of a jack of all trades, master of none mentality so that we don't become reliant on a select few to do all the work
well true just because one is superior at something that does not guarantee superior treatment one still needs to be able to apply it to something
lets say you are a fast runner better than anyone but you dont go to sports in that instance you would not get treated as superior
Which would be my personal preference but I know some people live for the attention
well if you are the top canditate for a jo and you are chosen for it did you not get treated better then the others because you were the best match for the job hence "superior" compared to the others
but still I just want people to have equal opportunity to be the best of themselves as they can
That’s unrealistic men and women complement each other meaning one is always gonna be over the other under certain conditions we make up for each other’s faults
Not really. We are just complacent in thinking that is what it is supposed to be.
So why are our bodies not the same
Because we haven't become clown fish yet.
Evolution takes a LONG time to work. Up until the last century or so, things were very divided by those gender roles but as we start doing more and more things equally we will eventually develop traits that will be more beneficial to completing those tasks equally. Possibly way off in the future, women having stockier frames and possibly men losing overall height for example. We are moving away from a purely physical work force and to more of one based around technology so the genetic traits that will be more beneficial will be based around those qualities.
We still won’t be equal a man and a woman are not the same thing we’re not supposed to be equal
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You are free to feel that way, but change is occurring whether you want it or not.
How anyone feels doesn’t matter a lioness and a lion aren’t the same these are facts I don’t understand why you people blab about equality so much it’s not important and is distracting from real issues
Really? Want to use lioness and lion? The lioness do all the work and the lion just gets to have sex, walk around and mark their territory.
I'd like to think guys are more useful than that.
They do more than that they protect, hunt , establish pack leadership male and females both have a lot of responsibility responsibilities that they are best suited to handle
Lioness do a majority of the hunt. The male lion actually stay back and watch the kids while the women do that work, specifically because they are faster and more agile than the males.
If anything this goes to show that both men and women can do the same work as one another so thanks for proving my point.
My point is that if we were or ever could be equal we would all be the same but we aren’t
And yet we will now that the divide is becoming less and less massive. We won't see it in our lifetimes but it will happen
And you honestly believe that’s a good thing just answer that because I’m done trying to explain to you why red isn’t blue😂
Yes it is a great thing. Why limit ourselves when we can all become better versions of ourselves? If you are cool being half useful, by all means, knock yourself out.
We’re limited when we all try to be the same perspective and point of view helps us grow as a species who was it that ever even said men and women weren’t equal? Do you know? No but I’ll tell you this whoever did was on the outside looking in
The grass isn’t always greener
Guess we will find out when we get there huh?
We never will and the sooner people like you realize that the sooner we can deal with real issues
Are you blind? It already had been happening. Feel free to peruse a history book for women's rights just here in the US alone in the last 100 years. Over that time also look at what was considered the standard for beauty. Now women are actually in the work place more often and thanks to things like women moving more outside the home and things like airbrushing in media print, women are expected to meet new standards. We are constantly changing as a species and will continue to do so as technology takes over more and more of our lives
Stop denying change and get with the program..
Smh you see the difference the in equality in that men work cus we have to women work cus you want to if men could choose between being taken care of or working on our own we would never leave the couch we’d play video games drink fuck and sleep all day
I thought you were done trying to explain primary colors to me and yet here we are at 2 am with you still hopeless clinging to a dying mindset of gender roles.
You act like if a woman is home she just sits on her ass and plays games all day. Do you think the house cleans itself? That laundry gets washed and folds itself? I don't care if a guy wants to stay home, but he better actually be taking care of the house
Well I was but you keep bringing it back up so here we are😂
I'm just responding to you saying something because I never claimed to be done. See, if you say you are done explaining, that means you are ready to walk away. If you come back and post again you are then a liar because you weren't done after all.
And that’s another thing would you take care of a man who does absolutely nothing while you work all day? Because a whole lot of guys do just that for women they don’t cook the order food they don’t clean they hire professional cleaners
Technically no because I'm gay, but if I were into guys and I could afford a professional cleaner then I really don't care as long as he is offering something else to the relationship.
Checkmate 💯😁
Now an unrelated question? Why are you choosing to be gay?
Checkmate what? That makes no sense.
Also I dont choose to be gay anymore than you choose to be criminally misinformed.
Ok then when did you “know” since you don’t like the word choose
Choose would be blatantly inaccurate. Trust me, I tried to force myself to like guys before I ever tried anything with a woman. It just never felt right so instead of trying to force myself to be something I wasn't, I just went with my natural instincts.
First time I kissed a girl was high school but first time I ever noticed them was way before then. I kissed a guy in middle school just to try and force the issue, but that was like sleeping in a motel bed. It functions like a bed, but was never as comfortable as my own bed which in this case was other women.
Me looking at a guy to get sexually aroused is like you trying to stare at paint on a dry wall to do the same. It just isn't going to work.
Is it maybe because it wasn’t reciprocal desire is decreased when you know the latter wouldn’t approve or want it thats why rape is wrong
I don’t mean to offend but I’ve fucked a lot of alleged lesbian women so I’m just curious because women instinctively want to be dominated I’ve fucked so many lesbian women like seriously they were saying the same things you are and the crazy part is they are the one who wanted it if a woman tells me she doesn’t swing that way I back off but they come to me and my instincts get the better of me I mean no disrespect I’m just confused as why so many lesbian women still want dick and it’s always the more masculine ones who claim they really love pussy
You've had sex with exactly 0 lesbian women. If you have had sex with any woman then at best they were bi and they mislabeled themselves.
There is nothing about my wife that wants to be dominated. She is very much the dominant type who isn't afraid to put anyone in their place.
I like being dominated. I really do love giving up control. I am actually even a-ok with a guy doing this when done online because I don't have to make myself vulnerable around him in person. It still isn't a sexual thing for me though when I do. For me it is therapy to get out of my own head because I have a lot of self hatred and it is nice not to have to really do a lot of thinking. I can let someone else do it.
Of the two of us, only one of us has ever had interest in men and has actually had sex with one and that is her. Your theories are just wrong and smack of those over confident liars who think they have the slightest clue. Sadly, it is always the same tropes with you too.
I can tell you now with no uncertainty that I am feminine, I like to be dominated, but if you ever tried to have sex with me it would be a total fight or flight response with me. I will hurt you very badly and I will try to get away or die trying.
I hate the idea of anything penetrating me. I dont even use toys that go inside me. Same for fingers. I dont even have my ears pierced and I am super careful about what foods I even eat because the idea of things going in me that should not be there freak me the f*ck out.
hmm have you had a chat anyone about that food issue disregarding anything penetrative but avoiding certain certain foods could maybe be compulsive disorder or something similar and you said you have selfhatred so maybe go chat with an actual therapist if you can afford one sorry if I am being too nosy
Nah, I dont mind sharing. I already see one for my self hatred issues.
I already know I have compulsive issues, but like even the idea of sharing food with people gives me the bad shivers. Even with my own kids, if they drink from my cup it becomes their drink. I just can't do it.
I don’t mean to rain on your parade but plenty of straight women think the same about their men and they still bottom for other guys also I don’t chase I get chased I wouldn’t try to have sex with you or any woman their the ones who want it by the way a penis is definitely supposed to be in a vagina
Feel free to put it into any willing vagina you can find, but there is not a single penis or phallic shaped toy on planet earth finding its way inside me ever, ever.
The future is definitely NOT female. Have you ever seen an all-female workplace? Shit hardly gets done.
Besides going bankrupt.
i like to think the future isn't a he or she thing but it is build and hold together by both , both man and woman work together , to many times we seen what happens when one dont have have another to maybe talk to when duel with want to hurt another bc they hurt someone they love or someone who feel evil but feel like they have no one to open up to, so i think the future is both we have great leaders of woman and of man randoly out though our time here
I don't think the future will necessarily be female. I think it will be more collaborative, with less emphasis on traditional roles. And I think it's been happening for a while already now.
Your question shows complete ignorance of history. Future will never be female. Or male, for that matter. Just like it never was any gender. It is just a bullshit oversimplification of the society, as women always had and will always have just as much power as men had. To claim that somehow, magically, having society run by women is to have more fair society is utterly idiotic, as it was never the case.
I think it would be nice if we were just like or similar to the Slends. It’s okay for guys to hug other guys, no gender is more superior than the other, everyone just takas the role they play best in, basically no conflict whatsoever, devilish dishonor don’t exist, cheating don’t exist, and uhhh, yeah. I that’s them summarized
let's get back to the best people for the jobs... we had an election where it was stolen and now look how bad off america is in just 7 months... harris the 1st women of color as vice but she's not able to do the job at all... so on and so on.
The future is neither men nor women. We need everyone together and equal for a good future. Turning everything into a competition between genders is bad for progress.
Wise man
Thanks
Name one specific field of substance that is currently male dominated with male numbers declining and female numbers on the rise in positions of leadership.
An industry with decision-making power in a meaningful way
Ok so I'm lost. Apparently gender is now bad but the future is female so what pronoun do I use?
Females are in charge and everyone who wasn't lucky enough to be a hot succesful female can be nonbinary
Personally idc. I’ve withdrawn from this shit and won’t play a part. Let them have the failing country I welcome the end coming under their rule. Idc it don’t effect me any regardless.
The future, and the next generation is over. Unless people wake up to what's really happening with the pandemic...
What is happening?
@Yyyyu Do you not notice anything off key about the pandemic so far?
Urine. As in urine idiot.
If men quit doing what they do society as we know it today would come to a screeching halt within about 48 hours.
Just fucking clueless. And you whine too much - women absolutely loathe that.
Ideally it would be something closer to equal or equal for both sexes, as well as qualified people of all diverse backgrounds