I barely ever see my boyfriend, advice?

[Anonymous]

so we've been together for about 3 months now. but we've been offically dating for about 3 weeks. he works 40 hours a week, so I only get to see him about 3 times a week,and we hangout for a few hours..if I'm lucky. we don't talk on the phone. he takes an hour to reply back to my texts. I finally talked to him about it yesterday how I never see him, and he says he trys. and I feel bad for getting upset with him about it,cause I know he really does try. but I feel like this relationship isn't going to go anywhere.

do you have anyy advice? :/

thanks!

[cristinaboss]

I honestly think you're expecting too much out of him. He works a full-time job, he's busy and he's tired. I don't see what's wrong with only seeing him three times a week. My brother and his girlfriend saw each other like five times a week and they ended up breaking up because they both got sick of each other and I know many other couples that broke up for that same reason. And then I have a friend who sees her boyfriend once a week and they've been together for five years. I think it's better to not see each other as often cause when you actually do spend time together, it's much more exciting. Loosen up a bit, he's at least trying and not avoiding you.

[mandy555]

I think you should understand that he has to work hard, but he should take time and meet you more, if he wants this relationship go.Maybe he meets you rarely because it's a new relationship and it's not yet that serious or deep. Patience or leave him if you really can't stand this situation

[icanbme]

I think he doesn't have time for a relationship, I know you like him but if what he's offering out isn't enough move on.