I can't stand when people say that. When doesn't have confidence is for a reason. For example, I don't have confidence for different types of reasons. One reason is because my whole life, people have said I can't do anything right, I'm stupid, made fun of me, etc. Including my family. Top it off I have been bullied in grade school, college, at work, etc. You can't expect me to just have confidence when so many people have treated me like shit. It is the same with other people with low confidence.
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Yeah it's a bit of a "non-advice" situation.
I'd prefer something like "it's ok to make mistakes. Try it even though you're scared"
Or
"Treat it as an experiment"
Or
"Just send it"/ "yolo"
Life is a lot more fun that way.
You'll also notice with successive attempts at scary stuff that you'll learn a lot and have less anxiety. It becomes a virtuous cycle.
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Yup. Like the other garbage sayings in relationships, such as "there's someone out there for everyone"
Okay, so you can go ahead and stay stuck in the past. The choice is yours.
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