How come when a guy wears women's underwear/clothes he's labeled as gay, but when a woman wears men's underwear/clothes, she's not labeled a lesbian?

[Anonymous]

[sirderpsalot123]

I think its more socially acceptable for a girl to be a tomboy, but, I think people also assume tomboys are lesbians. People just don't make as big of a deal out of it like we do if a man is wearing a dress. I have a sister who's straight, always been a huge tomboy, and she's constantly asked if she's a lesbian. She's been with the same dude for 4 years now and people think she's secretly at least bisexual. She always laughs about it though lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

I have never heard of a woman wearing mens underwear but neither should be labeled as gay. That being said I’ve actually thought about this and guys wearing women’s underwear defo don’t turn me on. Just a visceral thing. A personal preference.

[Asker]

Actually it's pretty common for a woman to wear her man's boxers around the house/to bed. I agree neither should be labeled as gay, would also say neither should be labeled as a kink/fetish.

[Gwenhwyfar]

That doesn’t count. I thought you meant wear them outside.

[Asker]

Still kinda do as there are women who wear men's underwear everyday/outside, just not as common as men wearing women's underwear.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Both seem odd to me and neither would turn me on. And I think most girls would agree with me.

[Asker]

It is odd when most do it supposedly for comfort which is weird when women's underwear isn't designed to a accommodate a snake and eyes, and men's underwear is usually thick and rough feeling which wouldn't be to comfortable for a woman's, soft, delicate skin.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Exactly. Mens boxers are comfortable to wear around the house after sex but I couldn’t imagine wearing them out. And womens panties can’t be comfortable for guys. Must be a kink.

[Asker]

Yea boxers are comfortable if you don't have something extra that needs supporting. I don't know how, but some men really do find women's underwear more comfortable, claim their, something to do with them being made for softer, stretchier material.

[Anonymous]

Most men are gay, so they should be labeled gay regardless of the underwear they wear.

[Asker]

You're joking right? If most men are gay, then most women are lesbians.