No, it's not fair. This is what a lot of angry, man-hating feminists and other similar people say. I am sometimes lonely, but I don't hate women. And most incels actually worship women. To an unhealthy degree, in fact. That IS what makes them incels! I really hate the idea that because Elliot Roger existed, all incels must be the violent school shooter type. These men are already sh*t on by society, and then people want to make things worse to the point it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Incels need mental help and emotional support, and hell, so do their female counterparts, feminists. I myself spent 14 years in therapy due to having an abusive mother AND health conditions which stunted my growth and killed any chances I had of finding a partner ("surrogate mother" one could argue.) If I hadn't, hell, I might have become an incel myself. I certainly had the severe depression and lack of family or love to justify it.
The thing is, to not give a single f*ck what these people say. They are just looking for attention and the more you argue with them, the more you justify their beliefs. You don't spend all day arguing with a Flat Earther, and you don't waste your time trying to convince radical fourth wave feminists that lonely, depressed suicidal men aren't all Elliot Roger types.
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Invariably it comes out that hatred of women.
for some it’s just words dripping in hate at how it’s always someone else’s fault they can’t date.
for others it’s walking around with a shotgun murdering people.
loads of people date and crash n burn on those dates, I have loads of times, some for really stupid reasons, I have never bleated about how it’s unfair, it’s the girls fault.
Also a lot of these types appear to have very poor social skills and just come across as Toxic Sheep.
Yeah, generally incels are self entitled more than they are misogynistic.
No I don’t think it’s fair to lump people into one category.
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Because it's women that does that and they can't handle criticism especially not from men. So they reflect back with lies so they don't have to self improve. Complaining doesn't make you hate something, it's just a sign you could like it more if things was different.
Mostly because these movements is not about addressing specific problems but as a foundation to project hate and attack from. The only real reason why these groups exist is because it has become socially unacceptable to openly just say you hate women so they had to construct some sort of cover that they could hide behind.
Lonely men don‘t (necessarily) hate women and I also hven‘t seen anyone claim that they do. Incels on the other hand do hate women because that‘s what incels are. Incels are not just lonely men, incels are lonely men who blame and hate women for themselves being lonely and not getting any.It is hard to complain about women without sounding misogynist. Especially since there are so many misogynists and so many women have had some severely negative experience with them. Maybe someone making the utmost effort to be as fair as possible wouldn't always get that impression, but most people don't feel up to making that kind of effort most of the time, especially with someone who--let's face it--is probably a misogynist.
Does the word incel even still have an actual meaning anymore especially after it was severely watered down by leftist soy boys and feminist women who calls any man who disagrees with feminism or refuses to kiss up to women, "incel"?
It’s a broad brush that we use to paint incels, but you’re the one standing so close to them. So don’t blame us when you get paint on you.
Let's be honest, incels are the male equivalent of modern feminists. It's not fair to say all of either group hates the opposite sex, but there is a lot of truth in it nonetheless.
From what i've seen part of the incel mindset involves an intense hatred for women. A guy who is lonely isn't the same thing as an Incel.
Becyase they don't like you or want you. Until they need you at 30.
They want you to know your placeBecause they do, don't they?
Because all lonely and incel men hate women.
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