What is something toxic you know you do?

[IJhonnyI]

Mine is being loyal to people that wouldn't do the same and that's on me

[Lionman95]

I tend to question everything and I have trust issues.
I'm a bad texter, I often take hours also a day or more to answer.

[IJhonnyI]

In a way that's not your fault 🙏🏽💪🏽

[Lionman95]

Yes but it's hrad nevertheless because I feel like having a hard time trusting people and so I have to fact check everything.

[IJhonnyI]

Look no one can blame you for not trusting people coming from someone who also doesn't trust people that was clearly a life lesson we were taught there's no reason too trust people but when it comes to certain beings they don't give us reasons too not trust them unless they do then we have all the right too question the fuck out of them or jus separate and go our different ways

[SpaceGalaxy]

Get on GAG

[SpaceGalaxy]

Thanks for the MHO

[WonderBell99]

Sometimes, if I like someone, I change myself and alter my personality to win their approval. . . but you know what the silver lining is? People whom I’ve never tried to impress are the ones who’ve stuck around. This has a lot to do with my childhood and I’m working on it.

Secondly, I can be very petty. I’m not vindictive by any means, but if someone is petty once, I’ll give them a chance and act civil, but if they continue to be petty, I will be thousand times pettier.

I get defensive sometimes and oh, I almost forgot - I am also very short tempered.

Walking red flag, aren’t I? It’s good that I’m self aware though.

[IJhonnyI]

See I wouldn't say walking red flag for being petty when someone was petty too you and you give them a chance and act civil that's not really bad it makes sense if u ask me, but now when it comes too changing yourself that could be toxic depending on what you do exactly

[WonderBell99]

Thanks hahaha

I seek approval from other people. It has a lot to do with my childhood, to be honest.

[baserunner611]

Come on, you change for the other person? How much? All the way?

[WonderBell99]

@baserunner611 Nah, not all the way. Just a little, but I’ve tried to stop that.

[baserunner611]

I hope 🙏 for the best 👍 with love

[Kkstarzz96]

I'm not a good friend, like I don't care as much as about my friends as they care about me. I've never been upset with a friend based on my expectations of what I'm supposed to do in our friendship, but when you're friends with girls, I've learned that is the case. I sympathize as a girl with her boyfriend, but I justify it as I'm only supposed to have one boyfriend, so of course im going to be on his case about most things. friends on the other hand, should have other friends but according to them, I am their best friend, still, I couldn't make sense as to why we'd fight about expectations that i wasn't aware of.

[IJhonnyI]

At the end of the day it's how they see you and what you show them and yea when it comes to a relationship that's a whole different story y'all both have to give 100% never 50 50 but that's just how life works some people have low expectations some have high expectations always gotta make sure you don't let the person confuse how you really are cause they can take it offensive depending on what you "showed that friend" and how you "rub off to people"

[Adronicus]

I can become a black hole at times & suck the life out of a room; I can also be the light that people like to be around. People I know IRL always want my advice & I have no problems making friends, or enemies. I tend to mirror others actions at times if they're being difficult I start pushing buttons which I EXCEL at. I can also get VERY cold when well stated boundaries are continually crossed.
Not sure if you're into the zodiac? I'm a x4 planet Virgo with a Pisces Moon, Venus in Cancer, Gemini Rising.

[MrJMM]

Tell people unfiltered truth with no sweetening because I’m not fucking Willy Wonka. I don't see that as toxic but people do. I think what I do is toxic is not understanding my emotions but still not my fault if I suppressed them for almost my entire life because my father and family forced me.

[Sour-rose]

Fart in public.

[MCheetah]

@Sour-rose
You're a monster!
(And girls fart?)

[Sour-rose]

@MCheetah Shuuusshhhhh... I'm being funny here. Of course girls don't fart.

[IJhonnyI]

@sour-rose you know I don't believe you😂👍🏼but no judgment gotta toot you gotta toot🤣

[ArrowheadSW]

Well, hopefully nothing. Although "toxic" is a strong word. I'm sure that I am not perfect all the time in social situations. But hopefully nothing toxic.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Using my democratically-elected position to install a one-man rule.
It's not correct I know, but our community has always been like that and it always worked out for years.

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

I get angry really fast and easy. If someone talks shit or does something to try and intentionally make me look bad or upset me, or do it toward my loved ones, I can get enraged within a matter of seconds.

[IJhonnyI]

In my opinion that's not toxicity that's a activation of defense mode 👍🏼

[Marshymallow]

I could easily turn from being the best person you ever know to your worst nightmare if you get to me. And we'd never come back from that!

[Marshymallow]

And people annoy me easily so you can only imagine!

[JoyGirl]

People pleaser.
I don't know why, tbh. I want everyone to be happy, but it is hard. I am just hurting myself in the process.

I think I am getting over it, but it is a VERY slow process.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Hold a grudge, like if I'm pissed at someone, I could probably go the rest of my life without talking to them and just carry on life like normal.

[jennifer_bloom]

Some people say I’m lazy cause I procrastinate on my book projects but my response to that accusation is that I’m meditative and guidance dependent.

[Kaneki05]

Get limerence over people unattainable or not good for me.

[Flower7]

Not able to tell a guy that I don’t like him. So I just start avoiding him instead.

[baserunner611]

I would rather a girl tell go to hell! So I can live with it

[Jltakk]

The phrase "I hate myself" plays on loop, if someone says something bad about me, it stays in the loop cycle. Not suicidal, but INCREDIBLY self judgmental. Had a toxic friendship where I accepted the bad and questioned the compliments.

[Subarugirl]

I shut down when I am overwhelmed. I would rather repress what ever I am struggling with instead of talking to someone about it.

[sp33d]

I love poking fun at the woke folk. It's well deserved, as well.

[Rockstarrrrr]

I sometimes remember bad stuff about someone and start treating them badly without explaining..

[Weird_name]

Too romantic. People pleasing. I get attached to a guy that's nice to me so easily. I always let others cross my boundaries co'z I don't like them hating me for it.

[Anonymous]

[Waldoe]

Sarcastic comments... I think I am "clever" others think I am a "jerk"

[msc545]

I can become unreasonably sarcastic, but all of you know here that already.

[dolemite89]

i put out cigarettes on prostitutes necks, i just can’t help myself

[jimmy2]

Mine is I love a way to much than what comes back to me

[flaboi850]

I can be somewhat of a narcissist. Nothing is ever my fault

[Last_aliennn]

Negative and over thinker

[Blackcosmo]

I let people walk over me.

[MCheetah]

I don't do anything "toxic" or super rotten.

[Agape93]

I'm very quick tempered

[Blueeyes81]

I always see the bad in a situation.

[IJhonnyI]

🙏🏽

[TrueConfection]

I complain too much.

[IJhonnyI]

That honesty is legendary who doesn't 🙏🏽

[TrueConfection]

🤔 The truth hurts, but the complaints are usually out of my mouth before the filter has a chance to work.

[IJhonnyI]

But are you saying you complain for no reason or you got reasoning behind it 🤔

[TrueConfection]

Don't we all feel like we have a reason of we complain?

[TrueConfection]

*if.

[TrueConfection]

Here's one... My neighbor cutting his grass on a weeknight when I want to go to sleep. Who does that? 🤦

[IJhonnyI]

Can't argue with that you are correct 👌🏽 but sometimes people's reasoning are not even close to correct not saying you are one of them 🙏🏽

[shortster]

I work in a toxicology laboratory.

[IJhonnyI]

Meaning

[shortster]

I try to identify toxic substances in people's samples utilizing mass spectrometry.

[IJhonnyI]

Oh my, legendary but that's not my question I know you took advantage of my question tho good answer but I would like an answer to my question if you don't mind giving one still legendary way of spinning my question😂😂

[shortster]

How is it not an answer to your question? It is something I do that is toxic. Honestly your answer is a non-answer loyalty isn't toxic. Taking advantage of someone else's loyalty is toxic. Or holding grudges against people who have been repeatedly disloyal is also toxic. Since I learned to manage my anger issues my job is the most toxic thing in my life.

[IJhonnyI]

See you must have not read it then giving loyalty to people that wouldn't do the same for me read get facts straight then type

[IJhonnyI]

And you took the question too literal that's not the point but okay I get it

[IJhonnyI]

And if you don't think giving loyalty to people that don't deserve it isn't toxic then your looking at it the way u wanna look at it its toxic towards me no matter what it doesn't change the fact of that it's toxic 💯👍🏼

[shortster]

That isn't toxic either.

[shortster]

You would have to hold a grudge against those people for it to be a toxic trait; as I said.

[IJhonnyI]

Umm trust me I did 😂 tryna explain my life bro🤣

[IJhonnyI]

And regardless it's toxic towards me and that's just factual no matter how u wanna spin it

[IJhonnyI]

And RE READ the question maybe you'll get it more 😂

[shortster]

No, it isn't toxic to yourself unless you hold grudges. Why do you think I had anger issues? I have been through this and learned from it.

[IJhonnyI]

Your anger issues have nothing to do with being toxic to yourself you are able to be toxic towards yourself no matter if you want to except it or not you can be toxic towards yourself and yes I hold grudges so try to tell me other wise

[IJhonnyI]

😂😂

[IJhonnyI]

Actually no anger issues does have to do with toxicity depending on what your dealing with

[shortster]

My anger stemmed from me holding grudges. That slowly eats away at you until you become a vile person or give up on those grudges. Hence being toxic to yourself.

[IJhonnyI]

Yea i already corrected myself fully agree with that coming From a person who still has really bad anger issues still learning to control them

[IJhonnyI]

What I'm trying to clarify is what u read and what I mean are completely different it goes a lot deeper than what I put on an app but why would I explain my self on a application 🤔🤣

[TheBigGuy9]

That is not what being toxic is

[Blaine999]

I'm incapable of trusting or forgiving

[IJhonnyI]

Yo i can't even lie bro that part of incapable of trusting I felt that 100% literally like holy shit that hit home and depending on what the person did yea I literally am incapable of forgivness

[Creampiekarl420]

Read text and not reply

[Skyros]

Listen to Whiskey Lullaby at least once a day.

[IJhonnyI]

Damn my man are you okay 😔by that choice of song seems like your not doing so well🤔

[Uptowngirl88]

Nothing..

[IJhonnyI]

Hmmmm can easily tell u are lying but it's all good🙏🏽

[sassyredhead]

People pleasing

[lofii]

I am the toxic king

[JoyGirl]

Yes, we know this already.
You still have your good traits. 😂💜

[Wise4myage]

I run like hell.

[VV3ZZY]

Get fuked up

[scarletyes]

I'm not telling you.

[IJhonnyI]

Must be hella toxic then🤣

[scarletyes]

Yeah I am, but I'm working on it. What toxic thing do you think I do?

[IJhonnyI]

I don't know that's up for you to tell me I don't wanna assume 🙏🏽

[scarletyes]

Don't worry about it, you can assume anything you want about me. I don't mind.

[IJhonnyI]

I feel like u jump to conclusions, another one is you feel like when someone would give you constructive criticism you would be offended or hurt that's all ig

[Uptowngirl88]

Right let him assume. He tried it with me. I'm not even going to waste my time going back and forth with him. @scarletyes

[IJhonnyI]

@UptownGirl what are you talking about?😂are you offended right now? she said too I even said I don't want too assume cause it's jus a random question but she said no go ahead it's fine was that like a trick or something

[IJhonnyI]

I swear you females be buggin🤢😂

[scarletyes]

No I won't be offended, I'm not offended easily.

[IJhonnyI]

No that's not what I'm saying she was like let him assume like what i was just answering because you told me you don't mind

[IJhonnyI]

Talking about uptowngirl

[IJhonnyI]

And @scarletyes I didn't say it to offend you in any way I was just saying because you said too not for offended anyone or being an asshole

[JessieBellll]

Argue easily

[pakki_girl]

backbitting