First of all I see it a little bit different but he is who he is and he would be my son so I'm not going to react if I react that means making a choice I'm now making it my business either positive or negative if it's negative that means I'm going to be selfish to say why why what are you doing you're embarrassing you're this you're that and that means I just took the focus off of what he's trying to tell me and making it about me and it would be the same thing in a positive way I don't need to react I don't need to judge I don't need to tell him how I feel I just need to be his father and be the best father I can be and no matter what ever happened I would be there for him
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Tell him that he's not. The school is trying to make him something he is not. Don't listen to that sh*t. And ask who told him to think that he's gay so I can punish whoever is trying to screw with him and potentially other innocent children.
If I had a gay friend or family member, I would let them know I love them but do not want them sharing non biblical views and ideas with our children or future children so I would apply a conditional isolation strategy where I divide the time they have with me with the time I reserve for kids.
They would be the same person you always knew, just be different than you assumed. I would still want the same things for them. A happy, productive and safe life.
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I would wait for him to say "Dad, I'm gay," and then I would say "Hi, gay, I'm Dad!"
Then I would laugh at my own joke.
Then I would say: fuck, I've been waiting to say that one for six years. You honestly think we didn't all know?I wouldn't be angry. I would only be angry if he decides that he doesn't want to get married to a woman. He can have gay sex as a side thing, and in secret. But my children getting married is a must. It's their duty to further the family's connections.
I wouldn’t care too much although I’m not gonna lie if he was acting like little nas x for example it would probably irk me a little bit but at the end of the day he would still be my son and it’s his life to live not mine
Indifferent. It's not something I would really care about.
I would love and support him and make sure he can live the best life possible.
"Does this mean you're not a Republican?"
I would be supportive since that’s my son’s identity.
Humour him if he's under 21.
Otherwise, don't worry we still love child 2.
(It's a joke, jeez).
no more internet or media for that boy. Ship him off to a farm in Russia where he can learn what it means to be a man
I have a son hey I didn't know wow I've got a son wahoo
I'd give him a big Hug, and tell him that I LOVE Him... I don't know that anything else matters
Throw him out of the house and make him live on streets, of course. God wills it.
He can't no longer be in my house. No further comment.
Honestly, I wouldn’t be very enthusiastic about it
I would be fine with it
i wouldn't care
I would be happy he came out to me.
same bro, same
I'm bi myself sssooooo..
I didn't do my job as a father. And I failed.
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