Why would it be acceptable for older women to go after young guys, but when a man goes after a going woman it's called icky or pedophilic?

[Anonymous]

You see this all the time, man in his thirties dating a 19 year old woman and he is called pedo, or predator, as if what he is doing is wrong. Yet an older woman dating a young guy is told " slay queen" and "rob that cradle".

Its the same thing with teachers. Female teacher has sex with her student, she rarely sees consequences for it. But if a male teacher did it, prison for 20 years.

[sage2021]

If she's 18 or older she is not considered a minor, but an adult.

From what I have heard from guys through the years, is an older woman (30's-40's) had sex with them for their first time when they were young teenager's. Mostly women get the boys to come to her house.

[Asker]

Agreed.

[KayMay]

The only part I agree with is the part about teachers.

[Asker]

You agree female teachers should face less consequences than male teachers for having sex with students?

[KayMay]

No, I agree with you that they shouldn't get lesser sentences.

[Asker]

Thanks for clarifying. .

[KayMay]

Sure. A girl once commented here that she was 16, and dating a 40 year old guy. Tons of people jumped her shit about that. But they were too stupid to read that she was from South Africa, and that's legal. As long as it's legal, I don't see why people care. There are way more important things to worry about, than a victimless crime.

[Asker]

Agreed.

[YourFutureEx]

If you're called a pedo for dating a 19yo woman in your 30s. It only means that you're not rich enough.

[Anonymous]

Because most men seem to go after minors. I haven’t seen many women going after minors. They may be younger but not illegally younger.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm speaking only and specifically about adult women. Nice try to change the nature of my question.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that’s what I’m saying, I’m not trying to change the nature of your question 😂 some adult women go after guys younger than them, yes. But the guys they date are still of age and legal. Whereas a lot of adult men tend to go after minors, meaning somebody who’s not yet legal.