Do you force vibes on people who are not interested in you?

[beautyqueen985]

[FunkyMonkee]

Nope. If they're not interested in me, fuck `em!! I used to be a huge Todd Rundgren fan! about 23 years ago, I ended up working "for him" 2 nights in a row. At one point, he and I were sitting right next to each other for a good 5:00 as he was waiting to get on stage (He was waiting for Jesse Gress to finish tuning his guitar) and, even though I'm sitting literally shoulder to shoulder (minus about 3") with one of my biggest heroes, I never said a word to him because of the way he'd been acting around and towards me the last 5 or 6 times that I saw him live! Obviously, he was either scared of me or just didn't want to talk to me so, I just didn't bother!

Jesse & I got on QUITE well together, though!

[nolabels]

@FunkyMonkee
It's interesting how the perception of 'heroes' can be altered, or on the other hand, reinforced as the case may be.

Not directly reflecting your experience, but the title of this song came to mind:

https://youtu.be/Jta56wBl7SM

[FunkyMonkee]

@nolabels Great song! I was a big fan of his, too until "Buddha & The Chocolate Box". "Moonshadow" wasn't one of my faves, either.

[nolabels]

@FunkyMonkee
Yeah, Cat kind of fell off of my radar screen after a time, too.
See ya around!

[Charlesbrandonf]

No Not purposely but often when we fell in love with a person or got attached or got attracted. This would happen without intentions. Because life won’t give 2nd chance most of the time.

[fembotnpc777]

shit's deep

[Minahh]

I tried to do that for a period of time, doesn't work

[Summeroflove]

No and nobody should. If you want to date and see if attraction develops naturally that’s one thing. But if it’s not meant to be it’s not. You’re hurting them too by stringing them along wasting their time

[Friendlybro79]

If someone doesn't like me for an unknown reason, and I have to see this person regularly, I'll try to make the best of it by being civil, but I won't beg for friendship.

[Andres77]

nope. if i'm interested i'd make myself available without being pushy, if they're not interested then it's a waste of time and makes things uncomfortable if i push things.

[loveslongnails]

Why would I waste my time doing that? No, I don't.

[Anonymous]

I don't force anything on anybody. And I don't chase. Any woman that tells me know wanting me to "try harder" finds herself alone.

[fembotnpc777]

heavily so, unfortunately

[Kharolia123]

No i never did like this

[ArtemisSilver]

I ain't got time for that shit.

[Havthrills]

No. I hope not.

[CubaPirate]

Absolutely not

[SnowedIn]

Not at all.

[LavLavLuv]

Never

[Anonymous]

No 🤨