Combining 2 family's both with kids?

[Anonymous]

My step son has recently asked if his girlfriend could stay with us once she is released from the hospital, we are already staying in a hotel and his mother is also living with us in a 2 bed hotel room my oldest son is currently homeless and being winter I want to do whatever I can to help him however he has a job and would like to stay homeless if that's what it means to keep his job... I don't know how to handle the situation my son is homeless but should I let my stepsons girlfriend stay with us also we are struggling everyday just to make sure we have a place to stay?

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Okay to clarify the girlfriend is my boyfriend's son's girlfriend they were both in a head-on collision car accident his son is in the hospital and will be in the hospital longer than she will be he had a place for her to go with him but they will only allow her to go there if he's there which is my boyfriend's son's mother's place they don't want her there without him because apparently his mother has trust issues and doesn't want any girls there temptation for her boyfriend

[andreasderjuengere]

I'm surprised that the ''hotel'' owners haven't raised their voices yet.

I knew a group of Nepalese migrant workers once, who shared one room with 10 guys - it seems to work. Even the floor will carry that much excessive weight.

Anyhow - such an arrangement is only good as an emergency over a few days or weeks;

I suggest to make plans to lastingly improve your living conditions. Wake up... now :)

[Guy13]

That’s difficult:
Son works but must stay homeless to keep job.
What significance is a girlfriend to one of your children? Unless she is financially contributing then this would be an area that. I may be able to draw a line.

What are these parties bringing to the table to help increase money flow etc

[KrakenAttackin]

It sounds like you are on the edge and the others need to fend for themselves.

[Anonymous]

I don't know. It might make your situation so much worse.