Why do people think i'm fake until I video call?

[Androm]

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I'm not video calling anyone here, don't be silly

[AnUglyBarnacle]

I mean, if randomly some hot, muscly, well-dressed Chris Hemsworth-looking dude started messaging you / matched, seemed interested, and wanted to video call, then wouldn't you be more than a little suspicious that the person is actually who they claim to be / look like?

So, yeah, if some cute, buxom, Goth-ish Russian girl is interested in a guy, then he's probably gonna doubt that you're real. That's just the way that things are online.

As long as you've verified, then the early disbelief isn't a big deal.

[AnUglyBarnacle]

Thanks, AI Bot! You're spoiling me here recently.

[DryGermanGuy]

„It’s the eyes I reckon, they unnerve some folk.“
- Rubeus Hagrid, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince

[lachuppacabra]

are you just trying to show of? I don't know i kinda got that feeling with your question. like you tried to act quirky and stuff. if you didn't, my bad. But i kinda get the feeling that your doing something your not thinking about which makes people doubt that you are who you say you are.

[Androm]

what do you want to say?

[lachuppacabra]

uh, what i just said?

[Sour-rose]

Because everyone is fake forever. You can't convince them you're real if they wanna think you're not.

[SlavicThor]

I'd imagine because you're very attractive some guys don't believe that a pretty woman is talking to them

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Are you actually video calling people here?

[Androm]

not here

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Oh you mean not with people from this site? Or not on this site?

[Androm]

ot with people from this site

[Androm]

I don't speak to the people on the vu site, my English is poor, sorry

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Oh I see. Yeah I mean people tend to have a hard time trusting a cute face on the internet. A lot of time people are catfishing when they are willing to “chat” on a site like this. especially in f they are going off site. I mean either catfishing or a stripper trying to real someone in to a private show… lol but you seem legit to me. How often do people ask to chat?

[Wish4UrB00ty]

No you are doing fine!!

[BJP21]

One of the tricks I used in online dating is ask for a video chat. If they are an alleged scammer, they come up with an A-Z list of excuses of not video chatting or wanting to meet in person.

You probably scared off a scammer.

[bean2k21]

Throw down your phishing net, and follow me. I will make you a disciple of bean2k21 that you may teach my ways to others.

[trina_x]

u are seriously making a religion

[Paulychicagoluv]

It's not that they truly think you're fake, they just want to get their foot in the door jam so they can pry it open and see how far they can get for their sexual desires. Unfortunately it mainly only happens to females on here.

[Summeroflove]

Because many people online are. Irenwhybineinr meet people online

[tzdc21]

Because a bunch of people out there are fake. They need verification.

[Jennz6]

Because there are so many fake profiles here on GaG, it’s hard to tell?

[Likes2drive]

Probably because you’re pretty and there’s been so many catfish on dating sites. It’s ridiculous

[Anonymous]

Why would you video call anyone from this site? lol

[BLP11520]

Because of all the scammers, I ran into many in 2022... a real person will not ask for money. That being said I have met people here I really like and hope they are lifelong friends.

[AsaKyo]

I guess you're just too good to be true to people online and they need proof lmao

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No idea, but I never found You fake. Will You video call me?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Dammit. I really want to talk to someone.

[AmeerX]

Because you are so beautiful 👍. How do you video call people? From gag?

[AmeerX]

Alright 👍
But you're not fake in my opinion. May be you like attention but not 🤥

[Xtendable]

I don’t know you well enough to call you fake

[ChefPapiChulo]

you're a queen <3

[Rossdasa]

Catfishing is common so people are wary.

[Wise4myage]

Its the internet, lol.

[Wise4myage]

Its takes some. people a while before they trust anyone.

[Charliefretz329]

Probably cause you’re gorgeous

[Krillind]

Because you look kinda scary?

[TallAnon]

No idea, perhaps they just want to video call

[Anonymous]

You look scary.

[User_69]

Cause you're too beautiful to be real.

[Anonymous]

Because everyone online are fake.

[MysteriousDarkness]

That would include yourself which means you called yourself fake.

[Opinion Owner]

@MysteriousDarkness Well obviously because I'm an anon. And did I say I'm not?