Why are people finally "respecting" me & leaving me alone the more violent I get?

[Anonymous]

I was bullied passively by a lot of people from both genders for 9 years in the neighborhood I'm currently living in

I don't know why but the demographic was mostly older men & older woman who for whatever had a huge gripe against me

But I have noticed a pattern

It was always my face that got the majority in a gripe & made both genders want to test me

But I've noticed that when I started throwing, smashing, breaking almost anything in my yard & cussing, being very negative & talking a lot of shit

I've been left alone since then

[JustMeL120]

They got the result they wanted so that they can move on. I dont know what its like in america bit here when people get bullied they normaly move somewhere else. My theory is you should always feel sorry for bullies because if they are that way its because they have many problems. Just walk away and hope that whatever problems they have will be solved in their life.

[Asker]

What "results" are you implying I was being gaslighted on purpose for years out of spite?

[JustMeL120]

I am not from america so i dont understand how neighbours can bully you. here we keep ourselves to ourselves. We say hi occasionaly. If neiborous started to pick on me i would tell them straight stop picking on me or i get you done for harrassment. That would be enough to scare them and that would be it.

[Asker]

Are you from Europe?

[JustMeL120]

Yes. I think if you really havibg problems with somr bullies you should same up and move somewhere else. Life is too short to be bullied.

[XXblack88]

It's not respect their showing you it's fear.

[Asker]

So it took all of that to finally be left alone?

I'm being serious

[XXblack88]

It shouldn't but unfortunately some people need to see just how crazy 🤪 you are before minding their own business

[Anonymous]

They don't respect you any more now, probably less actually. They are just afraid of you because you've turned into a nutter who they realize might pose a danger to them. Don't mistake the two things, they are very different.

[Asker]

But what the hell did they want in the first place?

All the constant passive aggressiveness & yapping about me & even constant gawking & frowns

I'm you're average looking guy

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[Opinion Owner]

I have no idea, but that is beside the point of my comment.

[Asker]

I've noticed that even woman MUCH older than me would try to "poke" me in sexual ways but more on the negative side

I was 16 at the time

[DarkLegacy]

Good on you, i have had the same problem where i live. The only difference is the people are baffled by my violent outburst

[Asker]

Why did they mess with you? If you don't mind me asking

[DarkLegacy]

Because im very skinny and have Autism. They did not know about the Autism bit but they were picking up on certain traits

[Asker]

What certain traits?

[DarkLegacy]

Certain traits with regards to my Autism such as me jumping at loud sounds or staring a lot or walking very quickly.

[Asker]

& they "poked" at you for that?

[DarkLegacy]

Yes until i fought them off

[Asker]

How would they "poke" at you?

[DarkLegacy]

Yes they did

[Asker]

Verbally or physically?

[DarkLegacy]

verbally

[Asker]

Did you fuck them up?

[DarkLegacy]

Not really, just scared them

[boggboss]

Because they can see your unhinged

[Asker]

So it took all that aggression to be left alone?

Does it really need to go that route just so I can be left alone?