Is it really scary to go through a mother hood?

[prakhindev92]

I am asking this question because , why are many women afraid to be a mother and go through mother hood? , I really don't understand! , Maybe because I am not so familiar with the western culture , because I am an indian! , Can you explain why?

[Heterosketero]

I can try. A mother fears not only for herself, but her child, even with the best man by her side, because men die. It is deep and ancient this fear, but if faced with no choice, it will produce a dangerous foe between threat and child. She glfears abandonment, wherein no other man will raise her child because it is not theirs. This shouod be as easily understood in your culture as in mine or indeed, in anyones culture. In some cultures, even families abandon single mothers, as if they have lost all worth. Over 50,000 Irish unwed mothers went through the Irish Carholic adoption system, many mothers died, or were killed, there children shopped off to gentrification. They are fat, emotional, extremely vulnerable and completely unsure, post partum depression is common after birth. We just cannot comprehend a life coming from inside ourselves as is the plight of a mother. I hope this helps, you seem to be asking from a place of benevolence. Good luck sir.

The women and children first, without them, men have no quarrel worth fighting in this world.

[megabamse]

Everything Changes, the lifestyle, the sosial things change, her body, well just about Everything you can think about will change. Also it's extrem amount of work and struggle. You basically don't sleep for the next 3 years. And there is no guarantee that the father stays or she stays with him. So it's a lot.

[prakhindev92]

Why do you think one of the parent leaves in between