I just had a Muslim write a long letter to me on their check about how they would have left a 30% tip if I wasn’t so rude and condescending?

[Anonymous]

I was not rude nor condescending.. what is exactly disrespectful to them from a waitress when they go out to eat?

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The only reason I mentioned they were Muslim is because I don’t know much about their culture and thought maybe I did something rude when I feel like I didn’t

[WindAtMyBack]

The anon below asked what this has to do with being Muslim. Why did you feel the need to mention it? Do you think the customer picked up on it.

Other than that, I have no idea why they thought you were rude. Maybe you really were rude. Maybe they are just being cheap. Maybe they were just being assholes. There is no way to know.

[Asker]

Because I don’t know much about their culture and I wasn’t being rude

[Spade_01]

Nah, it seems the problem is with you. I checked other comments as well

[Astarlessnightsky]

Who knows?

Maybe you were rude, maybe its just their personal perception..

[Sitaraxx]

Why was it necessary for you to tell us they were Muslim?

That says all that needs to be said about you. You probably were rude and condescending.

[Sitaraxx]

Didn't even check the comments before I commented
But it's nice to know that I'm not the only one who sees something wrong with your question

[leahzrc]

That is true, like did she mention being muslim or did the waitress just assume she was offended for being muslim... you right girl

[Anonymous]

What does it have to do with them being a Muslim?

[Asker]

Because I wasn’t rude

[Asker]

So I’m assuming it has something to do with their culture

[leahzrc]

sounds like internalized oppression or something