Seen a lot of misogyny on here recently and its made me wonder.
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Seen a lot of misogyny on here recently and its made me wonder.
Votes are anonymous so answer honestly and unabashedly. We'll never know.
When I didn't have much experience with women, I blamed myself. I forced myself to get out there and met women until I became more comfortable and confident, and then my "luck improved. I love women! I feel better when I have a female companion. I have male friends and I would not compare the two friendships - male and female, but I don't want to LIVE with a guy!
Nope, I just hate shitty people.
There's definitely misandry and on here for sure though too, but some women on here just can't stand the idea of praising men or holding other women accountable for their BS and there's guys who are no different too, although from what I've seen, guys do call out other guys more.
Outside in the real word, I don't see much of that stuff, it's just here, lol.
Prime example of toxic:
Wow. I'm surprised by the results. I thought a vast majority would have gone with option B, C or D. I guess the few of those incels who hate women are just really loud. Most men are sensible, at least, in real life.
I don't think most men hate women. There are a few on here that could hate women though.
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Most men don't actually hate women, they hate the way a lot of women are, i. e. attitudes, behaviors, etc. However, women hate women, and they especially hate women who understand where men are coming from.
Are there some terrible, disgusting, woman-hating men out there? Definitely, but it's rare that you'll ever meet them. The idea that men are misogynists is a white-feminist construct created to demonize men for saying or thinking things that women don't like. Yet nobody is saying women hate men for disagreeing with men or even saying things to put men down.
Oh i love women I just don't like the games they play and how they twist and manipulate everything said or done so that they're the incident victim and the guy is always to blame
A prime example is "do you think this dress makes me look fat" why even ask that question if either way the guy answers is wrong and you get upset at him, rhe truth is you yourself think you're fat that is why you're upset you're just looking for someone to blame and thst not fair, and men don't care and don't notice and never will care or notice what a woman dislikes about her body
And than bring it up years later and use it against him "remember when you told me I was fat" when he never even said it
Its not what a man says that a woman hears its how whatever he did say makes her feel that she hears
I don´t hate women I just sometimes have a hard time understanding women, because not everything does is right away reasonable or self-explaining to me.
I also sometimes struggle with a fate of what seems like I´m going to be single for ever but at the same time I know that women are humans, too and they themselves have struggles, too. I respect their decision.
"Deep down" there's no such thing as hate.
Hate is a surface level emotion.
It's a reaction to certain behaviors.
The boogeyman called "misogyny" is far more overblown than it actually is.
Some men hate women who do things that makes their life harder but anyone who isn't a complete fanatic does not hate women indiscriminately
anything that is remotely critical of women even if valid or doesn't paint women in a positive light these days is considered hate even if the topic has nothing to do with women themselves
for some reason feminists love to narcissistically inject the possibility of "misogyny" into topics that have nothing to do with women e. g. male suicide rates, male infant circumcision etc.
if men truly hated women, no woman would be alive today
Quite frankly, I have yet to find a woman that doesn't take any slightest criticism from a man as "sexist/chauvinist/misogynistic" and a woman that ever holds herself and other women accountable for their own problems that they more often than not blame men for.
Seems like self-accountability is such a non-existent concept to far too many women (especially modern-day women).
@Aztecwarrior480 You lost me at "have yet to find..."
Don't use absolutes like "never" and "always". Every time a person uses them they have just made their statement false; and invited the listener to cite myriad examples of exceptions.
Women need to stop telling men what they are, what they think; and men need to stop doing this to women.
Would you say it's true or false that women usually can't handle criticism especially when it's coming from men? ↗
@AmandaYVR Perhaps I've exaggerated my statement a bit harshly but a better way for me to word it is a lot of younger women in particular these days (are difficult to find that can handle criticism).
@Aztecwarrior480 Well I think you might be right about that.
I was just on that topic earlier...
Would you say it's true or false that women usually can't handle criticism especially when it's coming from men? ↗
I don't. Okay, it's true that some are ass holes, just as are some guys. So I see them as human beings. They don't threaten me in the least. But I have to admit that I also love femininity. I always like girls. In that sense, sexy women are a blessing.
I've learned so much about myself and about women when I decided to act on my femininity and it's been a amazing journey it's made me a better lover, a better person as I've surrendered my manhood I've become one as I've blended both genders into one. After years of fighting these feelings and refusing to act on them due to fear has finally ended and I'm a better soul!
Most of their behavior comes from love. Think about it. What would you do if the ones you loved kept on destroying themselves, destroying their own potential, ruining their ability to bond, allowing themselves to be brainwashed by the enemy and damaging their self esteem and future. Wouldn't you start to become frustrated...
How could someone hate a woman? You bring us to the world, take care of our house making it a home, raise our childrens, allow us to be vulnerable and show our feelings that we cannot show around men. You girls make our life so much better, we dont hate you, we love you <3
This is a potential problem I think. I don’t believe most men hate women. And in fact most men do like women even though they wouldn’t be friends necessarily.
Teens on the other hand should focus more befriending and talking to the opposite sex.
I'm confident you can find just as much misandry if you choose to look and recognise it.
Best will in the world. Loving partners still grumble about each other because we have different ways of working and different aims. It can be hard work meeting in the middle.
Others are just poor quality or damaged people, bad experiences, or griping for the sake if it.
The only women I hate are the women who treat me like a creep just because I exist and I sadly wasn't born with a vagina. Yes, I would like one. Yes, I am too cowardly to transition.
Hold up: "resent them for the power they hold over men"?
That's weird, feminism keeps telling me that the opposite is true.
I don't think they hate women. They are more just very annoyed by them 😂
i've always hated how passive they are in the human mating game, on how its apparently in a womans nature, DNA, that prevents her from approaching a guy or making a move on a guy, asking him out, men for all time, always having been expected to be the initiators.
There's no way I could ever hate women, because the only purpose of my existence is to serve them and worship the ground they walk on.
I hate terrorists, rapist, pedos, and other such dregs of society, so if an individual woman is one of those , yes. Otherwise, nope.
I don't hate women at all. There are some specific ones I know personally about whom I feel deeply annoyed, but I don't hate them.
I don't hate women. I do dislike some things that some women do, just like I dislike some of the things some men do.
I do not HATE anyone. However, White, educated, middle class women are a no fly zone for me.
People often mistake the term "educated" for intelligence and most "educated" women, especially overprivileged Western White women are "educated" in the sense of being indoctrinated.
I hate feminists. Women are lovely, wonderful people.
Nah. I get tired of some of thier constant games. But if becomes a problem I just cut them out of my life. I don't hate anybody. Hating takes effort. Why would I want to put effort into feeling bad? That's not healthy.
don’t hate women, i just hate when they act shitty which is a majority of the time 🤷♂️
No. I don't hate women in the slightest, but I met some women that absolutely hated me just for being male. A shitty person is a shitty person.
Zero. I would only hate a person including women if they are disgusting and very evil human beings.
I love women in general, but I do hate some women, particcularly feminists. I shouldn't have to exaplain why.
@msmissydc Splinter group? Not so much. Every feminist I've ever had an in depth conversation with about gender issues demonstrated clear misandrist sentiments, so there's that.
Most feminists see men as "the problem" in the world, and try to convince other women to have the same mindset.
Feminism has a long history of demonizing men, teaching women that fathers are unnecessary and trying to destroy the nuclear family.
Feminism constantly pits men and women against each other. Take the issue of abortion for example. Feminists clearly see abortion control as "men telling women what to do with their bodies", despite th fact that there are as many pro life women as there are men. Abortion is an ideological issue, not a gender issue, but a lot of women harbor a lot of hatred for men just because of the issue of abortion. They spread hatred for men as part of their strategy to enlist support for their side.
ARe there some good feminists? No, by definition there are not, because any women who supports the modern feminist movement does so knowing how much damage it is doing. You don't have to support such garbage to support equality and fairness. But women still choose to support feminism, and by definition that makes them shitty people.
Destroying the nuclear family just means more options for those willing to have them. Its not that we are against the concept.
Abortion: yes that's literally the case, men controlling women's bodies. If you are personally against abortion then don't have one. Its pro choice not forced abortion. You are a man and are trying to tell a women what she can do with her body its not going to get more obvious. If you are anti womens rights, you Yourself might be the reason feminists hate you. Hate goes Obviously both ways in this case though and its pretty clear what caused the hate.
If you are trying to take womens rights away they obviously will not love you for it.
So what you are telling me there are no good feminists because everyone not sharing your opinions is someone you need to hate? Thats a pretty hatefull world view to start with.
What kind of damage? Destroying a misogynistic world view? If that is damage I want the damage. I dont consider that damage though.
@msmissydc Thank you for affirming everything I said and proving my point for me. WOmen like you are the reason men know feminists hate men.
@msmissydc Spoken like a typical misandrist feminist, lol.
I hate feminists, but I love real women.
It's hard to not hate someone who hates you just because you were born male.
@msmissydc Bullshit. Today's feminism is rooted in misandry. Their actions speak louder than their words.
I only hate modern entitled promiscuous feminist women; I love and respect traditional women.
Why would I hate women when I have a mother, a wife, a daughter, and sisters?
Come on, be nice to women, it's harder to be women.
I agree with another user, I always resented that guys have to make the first move and do the pursuing, be the Initiators
I don’t, men are frustrated but then again so are women
if we hated you women
we would be ending your lives in mass
but we dont
Nah, I love women...
Not all women just the shitty ones
But women will accuse men of hating them or libel them incels for callling them out.
Not at all only one or two. who put the hert on
I hate everybody.
Not at all.
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