How do you feel toward guys that are whipped?

[brunettebelle]

I have some friends that demand their guy to be whipped.

Personally I would hate that, my friends looked at me as if I was a retard for saying that. I want a guy to stick to his beliefs and thoughts and be a man, but very nice, caring, and funny. I went on a date with a guy like that, I was turned off and creeped out.

What about you? Guys are you whipped or do you have a friend who is?

[Flatmanlewis]

It's pretty pathetic. I've never met a girl that was worth having who wanted her man whipped. I think that it is sad to see. A healthy relationship should be based on equals who respect the differences each possess ( as men and women ). Usually the women in that kind of relationship are physically and emotionally unattractive and the men are wimpy and spineless. Of course they're are exceptions but as a rule, it's the norm.

[kheserthorpe]

Virtually all wives try to get their husband to be whipped.

If they are successful, they will lose interest in him.

[brunettebelle]

No I know people where the husband isn't whipped and there are others where the husband is the dominant one.

I would hope to never make a man become whipped and I never want him to be dominant over me.

[Anonymous]

It seems weird to me when one person in the relationship is whipped or just has no desires/goals/etc in life. I want someone that challenges and motivates me and expects the same in return.