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Guys, why do guys like being mistreated?

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  • blueonblack22
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    Yoda Age: 40 , mho 44%
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    No one in their right mind really likes being mistreated. At best the man thinks the woman is just shit testing him when in reality she has no respect for him.

    However speaking of right mind there are guys who have this problem usually have childhood trauma issues. It was usually from being raised by an abusive mother. This is especially bad when the guy grew up watching his mother mistreat his dad and his dad just “took it”’. It gets imprinted in his mind that is how male and female relationships operate despite it being highly disfuncional. Childhood bullying can screw all this all up to.

    So some men will subconsciously try to recreate their childhood by seeking out abusive women. It’s a well known issue how some women seek out men. However society rarely acknowledged that men can have this exact same problem as well.

    Also there are some men who have bizarre cuck/masochinist fantasies. It gives them some sort of weird adrenaline rush. There is one older guy (in his 60s) who openly admits on GAG he enjoys being mistreated by women which is crazy. But I think it some sort of bizarre reverse psychology goal he has. Like directly telling women he likes being mistreated will somehow make them do the opposite. Maybe it works for him occasionally.

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  • Lionman95
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    Guys that like to be mistreated have a low self esteem. They think they aren't worth more so they take what they get. It's either because of being bullied in school, feeling bad because they don't have a good physique or something else. It's not that all guys like to be mistreated.
    Others take it because they want to be in a relationship and the only girl that showed interest in them was a crazy chick so they enter a relationship with her to not say single.

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  • The_Canddyman
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    Xper 3 Age: 38
    +1 y

    More information? Seems a lot of people like to have blanket answers.

    When your together just the two of you behind closed doors let's have some fun..
    Outside those conditions there needs to be respect both sides.
    Could ask the same question to women. During a year of my life enjoying myself shocked to see how many girls wanted to be mistreated during sex. The choking really shocked me.

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  • remember2forgetme
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    Most of us don't. There is a certain amount of people though (both m and f) that doesn't know love without abuse so they tend to subconsciously bond over trauma. Then there is an even smaller amount of people that developed kinks as a coping mechanism to physical abuse, these are the ones that usually like being mistreated, but only in appropriate times and within the kink's limit.

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  • Billlewis
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    Because when I'm being used, exploited, humiliated and shamed by a beautiful woman, I'm indescribably happy and fulfilled.

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    • Wallythewalrus2
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      Embarrassing!

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    • Billlewis
      Billlewis
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      @Wallythewalrus2 Yes, Sir, thank you very much.

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    • Wallythewalrus2
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      I don’t think I can humiliate you anymore, Bill, you do a better job of doing it to yourself.

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  • slatyb
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    Some do, most have more sense. It's the same reason some women like being mistreated -- that's how they were raised, and it feels normal to them.

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    No mentally healthy man likes being mistreated. Simps will put up with a lot of shit because they don't know any better. Why do you like abusing men who have good intentions towards you?

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    • Anonymous
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      I don't abuse anyone.

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  • exitseven
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    My uncle the cop used to say that the sadists always find the masochists.

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  • Leme2
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    We do not. Please provide the example you are thinking of.

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  • DextroShade
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    Most of us don't, the simps who put up with only do so because they lack other options.

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  • Jmmmfi4
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    WERE JUST USED TO GETTING TREATED LIKE SHIT BY YOU FUCKING FEMALES

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  • Anonymous
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    We don’t some girls are just immature like that and we have been conditioned to tolerate it. I won’t

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    • Anonymous
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      You like to tolerate it up the ass, huh?

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    • Anonymous
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      Read the whole thing please

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    • Anonymous
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      I was joking 🙄

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  • BoopBoopBeep
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    977 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Uhm... we don't.

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  • ChicoFromThe305
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    I don't think they do 😂

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  • Squatting_Slav
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
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    In what sense? What context?

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    • Anonymous
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      In every sense. In every context.

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    • Squatting_Slav
      Squatting_Slav
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      Nah I don't allow myself to be mistreated that's for cucks

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    • Billlewis
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      Every sense.

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  • Luckycharms12
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    What in the world gave you that idea

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  • boggboss
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    They don't

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  • RebelinSteel m
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    We don’t.

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  • AviatorTom
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    No, hell no.

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  • Unit1
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    1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Do they?

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  • Anonymous
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    Only in bed, I want to be her foot bitch

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  • _Derpy
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    Xper 2 Age: 29
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    We don't

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