Do you regret bullying?

[Anonymous]

Not all bullies do.

Some stay the same throughout life.

Some realize how wrong they were.

Which one are you?

This is also for people who were bystanders and quietly did nothing instead of standing up to bullying.

Please vote, and explain your answer below.

Yes I regret it

No I do not.

[Billlewis]

I've been bullied much more than I've ever bullied anyone else, but strange as it may sound, I honestly don't regret a single episode of the bullying I received when I was growing up, because I assure you that I'm a better person for it today.

[Asker]

It depends. Not all bullying is the same. Traditionally, bullying was this juvenile innocent act. Then it became teens being mean to each other. In recent years, bullying is basically vicious harassment aimed to end in suicide.

[Billlewis]

I of course oppose the kind of bullying that results in catastrophic consequences, but the more benign type, which can often provide a catalyst for the sexual responses of both men and women, can be tremendously erotic in some cases.

[Billlewis]

For example, during my junior year of high school, I had a huge crush on a lovely young woman who was in several of my classes, but I was unaware that she had a boyfriend who was on the football team, and when he learned that I'd been pursuing her, he waited for me after class and beat my ass , right in front of his gorgeous girlfriend. I found out later that Becky had set the whole thing up intentionally, because she decided that she wasn't interested in me and she wanted to watch her boyfriend beat me up in front of not only her, but all her girlfriends, as well. We've stayed in touch over the years, and we both agree that the experience was unbelievably exciting. To this day, she insists that knowing I've masturbated to her viciousness is, quite possibly the most enjoyable thing she's ever participated in.

[Asker]

@billlewis

Proud of you. You are 1 in a trillion.

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much, sir! I'm sure a lot of people have a hard time understanding how being bullied repeatedly over a long period of time can be a very positive element in a young man's life, but I wouldn't trade the humiliation I endured for all the gold in Fort Knox today, and I've become a wonderful servant for the women who have been the recipients of my dedication.

[Anonymous]

i was bullied all through my school time. i did it once and i hated it. i hated doing it so much, that i didn't continue doing it after realizing that this would probably be a way that would have reduced the bullying i was subjected to significantly.

[Billlewis]

Was there ever a sexual aspect to it, in terms of you realizing later that it turned you on, or because some of the girls enjoyed it?

[Opinion Owner]

absolutely not. the most "sexual" part was just the good old "pulling ones pants down" move. i don't think that anyone who was bullied in their childhood would actually end up liking that. also i was for the most part not actually bullied by the girls. just some minor verbal stuff once in a while but nothing that would have bothered me a lot but i most definitely did not enjoy it either.