If a waitress intentionally misgenders someone because she doesn't believe transgender people are real, should she expect a tip from that group?

[Anonymous]

Yes, you should tip regardless

No, of course not!

[provokeesmokee]

Lmao, "if a tip-reliant customer service person insults and hurts their customers, should they still get (service-based) tips?".

No.

Tips aren't guaranteed. They're given if you do good work.

Insulting your customers is the opposite of good work.

If I witnessed this, not only would I be complaining to the restaurant manager about the unprofessionalism and transphobia of their staff, I'd be ringing up district managers and blasting the restaurant on social media.

Plus also aggressively be misgendering and snapping my fingers at the lowly garçon after that until I leave without giving a tip. (If my server is different from the transphobic waiter, I'll directly give them cash so they can slip it away without forcing a tip share).

Disrespect my trans homies and I'm gonna identify as a fucking problem.

[LazerBean]

If I were that waitress, no I would not expect much of anything from a mentally ill person.

[BigDog1989]

Waitresses and waiters aren't to EXPECT a tip, at all. I actually had a bertender tell me i should be tipping her. I never went to that bar again. That's a no no

[BigDog1989]

bartender*

[Drewtate]

If a waitress insults customers expect no tip. If a customer insults waitress expect bad service

[ShadowYamihiro]

well i come from different country and we don't have tipping system like you but honestly its up to you, sry can't answer cuz i don't know what i would do in your shoes cuz i also don't believe in those who aren't a he or she

[Anonymous]

Trans people are simply delusional. They are wearing the opposite sex's biology as a costume no more no less. Their genetics do not match their delusion. So I am glad to have voted the first one and I'm glad those of us with a Brain voted the same.

[Anonymous]

I don’t believe transgender people are real either.
I wouldn’t expect a tip from them if I said “I don’t believe trans women are women.”

[AngryCarl2]

I don't think waitresses should expect a tip. if I was staying at a hotel I might tip them at the end of the week.

[Anonymous]

Probably not. Part of being a waiter is being respectful and providing good service. Being a sensitive snowflake isn’t a valid reason to deliberately disrespect someone.

[Anonymous]

She shouldn't expect a tip from the person confused about their gender and the enablers they are eating with, but she should absolutely get a tip.

[Rush_hour]

Wouldn't life have been easier if everyone just stuck to the two genders?

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[jimmy2]

Lol it's life