Do you believe that feminism has trained women to not reflect on themselves and their poor choices and instead project?

[SolitarySolace]

The rise of online dating and the rise of feminism has taught women that they are not to blame for any poor choices. Every poor choice is glamorized. If you want to be a sex worker, it’s great. If you want to post bikini pictures online it’s fine. If you want to be… every poor choice is glamorized, and every internal reflection is seen as gaslighting yourself. So they’ve even got terms for internal reflection to prevent it happening. And so what will happen is they are trained to not reflect on themselves because we’ve been told we’ve been oppressed for so many years, now it’s time to make sure we project and so we don’t take any accountability and as a result we get into relationships we don’t feel completely soothed all the time he must be a narcissist. He must be manipulative. He must be gaslighting. He he he rather than I I I and unfortunately we’ve got an online market that caters to that wounded woman. That caters to that entitled woman. Caters to that narcissistic woman. - https://youtu.be/V4Nit_xv7tY?si=EnBS9b1BkdjcMLGl

Yes

No

[DarkLegacy]

Yes it has, it is chiefly about allowing women to get away with what they like and not take responsibility, by blaming men being sexist or saying men don't take accountability.

[DarkLegacy]

Thanks for MHO

[Sharkstealth]

I have seen replies in which women only blame the male for decisions that must be made by both. Deadbeat father for example.

[MzAsh]

It’s possible women do self reflect and still form beliefs and make choices even though some people don’t like it or think it’s a poor choice. I know there have been choices in life I’ve made that others think it’s a poor choice, but turned out to be a fabulous choice for me. It’s all about how you perceive things and world view which can vary greatly from person to person.

[Ozanne]

Are you also this hard on the men who post shirtless in their bathrooms, taking selfies of their abs, or even their hard dicks through their undies? Do you think feminism has had something to do with that too? Answer: no, of course not.

Sounds to me like you're just criticizing the online culture of the ability to post without thinking of repercussions, because most people (men AND women) don't put themselves out there without knowing the consequences when they choose to take selfies that others might find provocative, or engage in activities that are uploaded onto social media that make them look stupid.

You're just noticing the women, because you're a man, and of course the women are going to catch your eye first. But look closely, and the men are doing it too. This has nothing to do with feminism, and that's not what feminism is about anyway. It's about having equal opportunities, without being stunted for doing something simply because they are women.

If you don't like the modern times of women doing their own thing, and want to call that making "poor choices" then you are unfairly giving men a free pass for engaging in the exact same behaviour.

[SolitarySolace]

If you were to watch the YouTube video I linked you’d see that it was in fact a woman that said this about women and not me or any other man.

[Ozanne]

I don't care who said it, and I don't click links here. This was YOUR post, so I'm responding to you.

[inhua]

feminism does more than that

it preys on the innate primal fears and primal desires of women usually surrounding the idea of control as well as revenge, reparations and retribution

feminists love to claim males "grooming" females when feminism itself is the biggest groomer of females that's ever existed and to a large degree it grooms males too into becoming obedient simps, cucks and soy boys

[Dargil]

I think Feminist Ideology has caused them to be misandrist, atheistic and amoral . It is why educated white (and some other) women are enemies of civilized society. It is why I recruited a partner off shore and most men should do that except in the Bible Belt.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I think some of them at least refuse to take accountability for their action/poor choices and are quick to divert the blame towards men or even defend other women's decisions too - toxic feminity in my opinion, because regardless of what some may say about the manosphere or whatever it's called, at least they call men out too.

[Stacey55666]

When I leave home I don't see the rise of feminism and online dating has been around since dial-up Internet. I haven't noticed any rise in online dating.

In the real world I've never once heard of anyone obsessed with body count and/or virginity.

But on planet GAG, it's a horse of a different color.

[Sharkstealth]

Feminism started in the 60s. Of course on line dating rose since the invention of the internet!!

[LazerBean]

Feminism is just one branch and symptom of the problem that is promiscuity. It's certainly one of the more radical symptoms, but most people who partake in the disease are visibly screwed up in one way or another.

[Exterminatore]

How does being promiscuous equate to being messed up?

How is feminism linked to promiscuity? Take note that many feminists are 300 pound beasts who have become lesbians because they can’t get men…. because they’re 300 pound hippos.

[LazerBean]

Promiscuity literally messes you up. Feminists are notorious sluts, so I don't know what you are on about. Most women identify on some level as a feminist, so that's very obviously not true. Sure, a few obese ones whine because they can get paid as much as they want with who they want, but same for men. It should be really obvious, but most people are too in denial to see the fact that promiscuity increases the likelihood of the person being mentally ill and a failure when it comes to relationships.

[Exterminatore]

300 + pound hogs are not sluts by virtue of the fact no one wants them. Most women identify with feminism but are not activists.

Promiscuity literally messes you up. Ok. How?

I am by no means promoting fornication. I’m simply challenging your premise. How does promiscuity increase likelihood of mental illness? Mental illness is caused by a lowered amount of certain neurotransmitters depending on the illness or brain structure difference. Not promiscuity.

Understand I’m not attacking you. Just dialoguing with you. I think perhaps you simply don’t like promiscuous people, which is fine, but the reasons you have cited thus far are not grounded in fact.

[LazerBean]

Being an activist is not required to be a feminist. You are referring to extremists, which is a different story. And you are right, I misspoke. Promiscuity is not a cause of mental illness, it a symptom of it. Getting high off of whoring around, which screws up your brain and causes y'all to continue making to same poor choices to get that burst of temporary happiness from sex, and thus the cycle continues. Basically y'all are druggies, but for sex. Hence why y'all are high risk to fail in your relationships in a similar fashion to other druggies.

[Exterminatore]

Who is y’all? All men? Men in general? People who sleep around?

May I suggest sleeping around is a result of being horny? Not necessarily some result of a sex addiction.

Do you have evidence to show sleeping around correlates to a sex addiction as that’s basically what you’re describing?

Call me crazy but, maybe people just like sex. Maybe people even like it with a few different people, or many different people.

Do you have evidence to show your assertions are correct?

I’ll be quite honest with you. I think at least for men, not getting laid enough causes mental issues. Look at incels. Look at that mysoginist who lives near you…that you know hasn’t been laid since 1965. There’s at least one in every community. So I know there’s one near you. Do you think maybe a nice roll in the hay might chill those people out?

Again, I’m not attacking you here, I’m just conversing and I think you have little basis for your views. You’re entitled to your opinion, but I’d like to know how you developed it.

Maybe it isn’t that people who have had a lot of partners are high risk, maybe it’s people who are also turds and have slept around are high risk. Maybe sleeping around is independent from being a piece of crap. All people like sex. Why is it a symptom of a problem if all people like sex and some are able to meet their needs by finding willing partners?

You do know that literally 50% of any population can have sex without any bond or emotional attachment right? This is basically glorified masturbation for the crowd that can do so.

[LazerBean]

I'm not going to read all that, but people's likelihood getting divorced and having low marriage satisfaction. And relationships in general. Hence the bad attitude towards people of the other gender that is more prominent in whore men and women.

[Exterminatore]

I think that’s a bunch of BS to be honest with you.

[LazerBean]

I'm sure you do, whores never accept the statistical fact that they are not fit for marriage.

[Exterminatore]

I’ve been married for 5 years.

[Drewtate]

He who hesitates mastutbates

Donald Trump 2002

[Sfrankum]

Hard one to land too firmly on either for me. Best I could say is just because one rallys against someone or something so bad or whatever doesn't make them so pious and good...

[ScisorsAndRaisins]

I believe that I'm very lucky to not obsess over feminism. I just don't have enough shits to give.

[Exterminatore]

100%

[sirderpsalot123]

Yeah