Why do people always try to keep people from the same “race” as themselves from dating other “races”?

[Anonymous]

I put the word “races” in quotation marks because I believe that race is fake. But why do people believe in gate keeping other peoples genitals, because that’s EXACTLY what that is. If it was natural for people to only reproduce with those with the same skin color as themselves, wouldn’t everyone already be doing that? The most aggravating part about it, is that gay men who masquerade as straight will push this bullshit agenda just to secretly express their hidden gayness, and feel like they’re the owner of other men’s penises. This is EXACTLY what it is. “wHiTe pEoPLe aRe rAciSt” isn’t an excuse and you KNOW not all white people are racist, just like not all black people eat fried chicken and watermelon. And people who push this shit are too stupid to know that this whole agenda originated from the chattel slavery era.
(this is coming from a dark skinned men who’s tired of older dark skinned people trying to gatekeeper younger peoples genitals)

[rigmarole]

You sound retarded.

Racism: The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.

In no way does someone recommending that you don't date an individual for any reason make that an act of racism. In order to be racist you have to think all people of a particular race have specific defining characteristics and abilities or lack there of due to their race, and as a result that makes one race or another superior to the other race.

So for example, don't date that guy. Why? He's Black... What does that have to do with anything? Statistically interracial relationships have higher rates of domestic abuse. Blacks statistically commit more violent crimes, are incarcerated at hire rates, have lower education levels and lower IQ on average, are less economically successful on average, etc.

The above may sound like a harsh judgement against Black men, but it is not racist. It is looking at facts to analyze risk. You are using information to make informed decisions.

In contrast if you were to be like, sure go ahead and date that Black guy you'll love it. Why? Well all Black guys have BBC... They're great in bed, you'll have a great sex life. They have bigger dicks than other races and perform better in bed.

This is a racist statement. It's saying all men of a particular race have a particular characteristic because of their race and that makes them better or worse than other races. You see the difference. So someone can say don't date that person because the are Black or White or Asian or Ugly or they have long hair or they're fat or they have brown eyes or they smell funny or whatever. None of that is racist... It's just superficial preference. If someone has good reasons backed by evidence about a particular group, like don't date that race or people in the military or doctors, or gang members because of this reason or that reason, it's called having judgement. If you know the details and it seems like something you want to do anyway, then you are taking a calculated risk. You know the potential outcomes, and you are willing to accept possibility, for the potential benefits. As to your gay butt buddies. I don't think that has anything to do with the situation. Your circle of friends are just a bunch of homos.

[Asker]

Older blacks often tell younger blacks not to date whiten people, just because they’re secretly perverts and they want young blacks to live out their sexual fantasies. A lot of them don’t want younger blacks to be with white people, just because they know they could never be with a white person themselves. Trying to prevent someone from dating another “race” for any reason isn’t just racist, but insecure and stupid. This is obvious to anyone who has a brain, but statistics don’t account for every single individual. Plus race is just a theory

[Anonymous]

It is definitely cultural.


Numerous times l have been in a crowded venue and one of the things that has stood out to me the most is how subconsciously people congregate according to race.


Congregating this way isn’t a form of racism. It is just subconscious.

[Opinion Owner]

When it comes to the offspring of an interracial couple, many friends and family are afraid that the family tree will no longer contain their original genetic code. They don’t want to begin losing their own identity by introducing the genetic code from any other race.

The biggest concern that l see with interracial offspring is not based on prejudice but from a medical perspective. When different races mix, and then that racially mix child becomes ill or suffers from a disease that affects organs, the chances of finding a genetic match for transplant or treatment drops dramatically. To me, that isn’t fair to that child because mom or dad felt the selfish need to bring a racially mixed child into this world.

[Opinion Owner]

Nearly all European’s have a mix of different ethnic backgrounds. It just happens that they are White only because of geography. You have many that contain German, Irish, Russian, English, Scottish, Italian, Jewish, or from any number of other European countries, middle eastern countries as well and at some point even Native American genetics. The lack of any genetics related to Africa is due only to geography.

Many Africans have their own separate ethnicities. This is why different African countries are still suffering from genocide.

You rarely will ever encounter someone that is “pure”.

[Asker]

People congregate to race due to fear of other races and societal/media cohesion.

[findacure4wokeness]

African Countries are still suffering from genocide because because they are hateful. I see a lot of resentment in White communities because Every white space is being invaded by forced diversity which wouldn't exist if our spaces were respected. Negros in African countries hate diversity too, So if you force it on them you will only amplify the resentment. Negros are lucky in the sense that no one will follow them to the ends of the earth like they follow the white man.

[Asker]

Their chances don’t drop dramatically. By that logic, it’s selfish for 2 black people to have a kid together because only blacks carry the sickle cell disease. By that logic, it’s selfish for 2 whites people to have a kid, because then that kid is more likely to have cystic fibrosis.

[Opinion Owner]

Why should a Black man have a child with a White woman and dilute his ethnicity? I never see a biracial child that is skillet black.

[findacure4wokeness]

If you mix you will breed out abilities and strengths that tend to be a more common trait to that race and you can't unmix later or reverse the diluted characteristics.

[Asker]

You’re saying “dilute” like “black” genes are superior. Why is it so dire for “black” people to have children who are “skillet black?” Why shouldn’t a black man have a child with a white woman? There’s nothing special about us just because our skin is a little dark.

[Asker]

@findacure4wokeness so what if you breed out those certain abilities and strengths? The biracial children are still able to live successful virtuous lives. Blacks and whites are not superior to biracials. It’s not that important to make sure that dark brown and peach colored people stay around

[findacure4wokeness]

@asker It's important to me that my people stay around. besides multiculturalism and race mixing has brought problems to western countries. we were never asked if we wanted it we were told we just have to accept it by our leaders. All the crimes non white people commit doesn't often get talked about by the media for instance as well as racial hate crimes that is committed against us are just some of the problems introduced to the west through multiculturism, multiculturalism has no real benefit to our societies. Plus a lot of bi racial people feel like they belong to a culture at all.

[electromagnetic]

I don’t think it’s race related as much as it’s cultural. We naturally gravitate towards those who speak the same language, have the same culture, enjoy similar dishes and the ability to talk about home life and aspects and them being relatable between each other.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t say it’s natural to gravitate towards your own skin color. That has more so to do with fear of other “races,” and caring about what others think. The belief that you’re “supposed to stick with your own kind” was started during the chattel slavery era.

[Agagagagaga]

Why are you asking such a retarded question when you already have your own idiotic stubborn ideas about things?

[electromagnetic]

@Agagagagaga I didn't want to say it so thank you. lol

Asker, if you're so apposed to 'sticking with your own kind' then date outside your kind. There isn't anyone preventing you except yourself. And considering you aren't getting the opinions you were hoping for, its safe to say, there is a little bit of insecurity in your ability to accomplish
such goals.

[HaleyCatgirl]

I'm not too worried about the race thing it's just my best friend and I have been best friends and I'm interested in him we're both White sometimes that's just how it goes sometimes we're dating now but yeah I wouldn't go after anyone else cuz I'm with him

[Matilde03]

I am white tho I grew up in a neighborhood that was mostly black. In school i was the only white person in my class. I have only dated black and have 2 biracial children. My mother also lives with a Jamaican man. I think it’s jus normal

[Asker]

Yump it’s totally normal. Anybody who’s against interracial dating and reproducing has a deep insecurity about his/herself, and uses that immoral standpoint to cope with it. Much love to you and your family 🙏🏾 💫 ✨

[Matilde03]

Thnx

[Asker]

@Agagagagaga If you prioritize having kids that look like you, that’s a sign of insecurity because you’re basing their own birth and life off of your likeness, and not their own. Plus, making sure your kids look like you just shows that you need validation that it’s okay to look like yourself. If you were really content with the way you looked, you wouldn’t care how much your kid looks like you.

[Matilde03]

That is not so…my second has my eyes. Jus that they both have really dark skin. Many times I am asked if I’m babysitting.

[siseñor]

People stigmatise regardless of their own race, and I think it does stem from racial insecurity. These people are taught to feel secure around those who are of a similar race to them, so seeing interracial couples may upset them for whatever reason.

[Jersey2]

Statistically, black males do not marry, raise their children or teach important values to be successful so I think it is a terrible choice for a white woman and sad in a way as the end result is not hard to in-vision… being a single mother, poor and alone for a lifetime.

[getwiththepg]

Black males aren’t in their child’s lives due to a slew of indirect government ‘sanctions’ against them SINCE first arriving during the Atlantic Slave Trade.

[Jersey2]

@getwiththepg Nonsense. The black family was very strong in MLK’s day which wasn’t that long ago.

[getwiththepg]

@Jersey2 Yeah, & who killed him? Who killed Fred Hampton? We can dispute that Fred was a revolutionary & if your people are trying to start an uprising, you should put an end to it to maintain power, but MLK didn’t advocate for violence.

[Jersey2]

@getwiththepg A white man shot him or course. And black men have shot white men… actually black men shoot a whole lot of black men now… far more than white men or cops each year.

Anyway Baby Daddies don’t take care of their family any more which is a stark change from even 50 years ago. The current generation of black ales simply won’t and that wasn’t always the case. This Christmas will be quite different for black children vs what it was in 1973 as an example. What’s changed is a complete pack of discipline. They run wild.

[Jersey2]

Lack of discipline*.

[getwiththepg]

@Jersey2 Old white men are so delusional it’s funny. When the crack epidemic hit, dealers were given the same sentence for 5g of crack that someone with 500g of pure cocaine would get. Where was crack cocaine being sold & who brought it there? NY had a stop-and-frisk program targeted to anyone they deemed fit. Not only blatantly disrespectful and embarrassing, someone is going to jail for 10 years for a joint. Now when you take the fathers away, the children have no one to guide them except other fatherless dealers & hoodlums in the street. You think every father chooses not to be in their child’s life? All races have issues but none have been exploited like black people & Indigenous Americans. I’m a 25 year old black male who’s smarter than you.

[Jersey2]

@getwiththepg Crack is a very dangerous and addictive drug. It devastated many families including black ones. But people could make a lot of money selling it even though it destroyed people along with the black community to a large degree. It was about the money. That’s why they did it. Jail was to stop it but it didn’t. It was their choice and that is what they choose. Crack cocaine is still devastating. Taking care of a family can be done but they don’t want too. They spend their money on themselves.

And no, you a 25 year old black male are not smarter than me. I have had an amazing career in the Fortune 500 and made literal millions while doing business on 6 continents. You haven’t even been tested yet. At your age I served in the Army National Guard, graduated from an good University, was married and working in the F500. My first week of work I was in a new state, with other new hires and at the end of our first week of new hire training I was named Team Leader for 6 of the other new hires as the company was growing so fast and they saw leadership in me. Now do your childish “nah uh” and F off.

[Jersey2]

Here are the statistics for Chicago below, 89% dead are black males, probably your age or younger. Its fueled by drugs. To bad jail doesn’t work but a bullet does. These stats go back many years and are kept up to date using public records.

https://heyjackass.com/

[Jersey2]

@getwiththepg

[getwiththepg]

@Jersey2 Everyone is someone online but no one ever drops receipts *yawns*. COINTELPRO. Look it up. Read about it little boy. Stop living in denial. Next you’ll probably say something like reverse racism is real & how you experienced it everyday of your life.

[Jersey2]

@getwiththepg Yeah well like I said, nah uh… but I’m still me which is beautiful. Anyway, the people I am in awe of are the early black millionaires. They had it going. Now so much opportunity is being dumped at the feet of black people its actually discriminatory to others… but its like handing an idiot a twin engine plane to fly… the results are terrible but yet people still look the other way.

can't get in a good university, lower SAT requirements for them, can’t pass the courses, put in separate grading for them, can’t get hired, make quotas but call them goals, can’t compete, don’t allow firing and push them upwards where they can make bad decisions. I’ve seen it. I have also seen some amazing black executives but here’s the point, they are the top 10% of the black population like any other top population but everyone is trying to treat them all like that when they clearly are not.

So many of the amazing ones were raised by white mothers and white expended families. Like Obama. Its about values and that is what is lacking in the losers. I am guessing people gave you unearned achievements which has inflated your self worth. You are quick to check the black male box on applications as it gives huge advantages. I fought my way through 100 million white guys striving for the top and I did pretty well for an honest guy. Life has a way of slapping the unworthy down hard, it just takes some time.

[Jersey2]

Extended families*

[A_Bell]

They are racist losers who deserved to be shunned by reasonable people.

[Altheavas]

I don’t think it totally about race, it’s about entourage and proximity. It might have to do with preference that’s if the proximity doesn’t have any effects.

[Joshydavid25]

It's just tribalism which is a natural part of humans.. Although it's definitely been taken to toxic levels all the time.. Which in this case it is..

[Anonymous]

Yes, the concept of race was invented about 100 years ago. Before that, everyone looked alike and were from the same race.

[Asker]

Race is just a theory

[Opinion Owner]

If it's nothing more than a theory and there is no difference between the races, then I assume that you are opposed to reparations on the basis of race?

[Asker]

Yeah I’m very opposed to reparations on the basis of race. A lot of blacks in americans are super big hypocrites. They want reparations for chattel slavery in america, but don’t wanna pay reparations to native Liberians, who were enslaved by formerly enslaved blacks in america.

[Anonymous]

Exactly.

It's about them being worried about the dilution of their 'race'. They don't want to dwindle in number, or characteristics, or power. It's stupid.

[Hungryghostwriter]

It's tribalism. Which is kinda what racism is. If you're not Asian particularly South Asian you have no idea how deep it can run

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by "always" because I've never seen that in-person and I've only seen it online like 2 or 3 times and I've been alive for nearly 30 years.

[Asker]

This is anecdotal but I grew up hearing black women talking shit about white women, and always trying to get me and other “black” kids to find them gross, which in turned made me find black women the last attractive 😆

[Opinion Owner]

It might just be insecurity but while I could very wrong, I'm of the impression that isn't common.

[Philyouup]

do they? i don’t see it

[Daffotul]

sounds racially biased

[getwiththepg]

It’s tribalism.