Do you believe some people are immune to good advice?

[Anonymous]

[Still-alive]

oh yeah definitely. this is why i try to remove as much of my ego out of the equation of giving them my advice. so in that way i don't feel hurt when they do something thats bad for them against the advice i gave them. It's healthier that way lol. i try to just state it for them and let them decide if my advice is for them to take or not.

[Asker]

I try to make my advice effective, I like to open a hole of reality into what's wrong so they don't just shrug it off, It can come out a bit harsh at times but I think it's effective.

[Altheavas]

Unfortunately yes, a lot of people just want the attention they get from their bad situation. They don’t actually want the advises. Some people just hate other telling them anything to do, simple as an advise. I maded enemies, just by giving advise.


So Nop, right now I said okay, “I heard, is there anything I can do for you.” I don’t care if I’m indifferent.

[mandyfire98]

Of course. Some people just will never listen. If they didn't come up with it, it's not valid.

[Asker]

That's indeed unfortunate for such individuals.

[Anonymous]

Some people are immune to advice period, either out of arrogance or the mere fact that they can't be reasoned out of a position into which they were never reasoned.

[Asker]

Yep sad truth indeed smh

[4ngelic]

yea some people are very stubborn and they won't budge on anything even if its good advice they're getting

[Asker]

Indeed so smh

[rosemilk]

YES! at that point, maybe they just want to vent and don't want actual advice

[Asker]

I guess that can be a valid reason

[DryGermanGuy]

Oh yeah. Primarily alcoholics and other addicts.

[Asker]

That makes sense, I guess it all leads to wanting to put that effort for change

[RedInnocent68]

Yes. They have to come around to it themselves. All you can do is have conversations that encourage thinking, and offer support.

[Asker]

Indeed, it comes from stubbornness I assume right

[RedInnocent68]

Not always deliberate stubbornness, more inability to process where they’re at.

[Asker]

So they lack comprehension levels?

[RedInnocent68]

Not quite. More like not capable or willing to believe like, you’re clearly in a toxic relationship and should leave. But it may take years of abuse for them to come around…

[Asker]

Interesting 🤔

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yep. There are some profoundly dense people out there who couldn't make good choices if you tied their leg to one and dragged them down the street.

[Anonymous]

Totally! I call people who ask for good advice then never take it, "askholes". They are a nexus for good advice where good advice goes in and disappears never to be seen again.😆

[Asker]

That is just another level of this question if they ask for it 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Well I don't dispense advice unless it's asked for. Mainly because I know most people are askholes. Like on this site. The vast majority of women ask questions regarding their partners or guys they aspire to have as their partners. And 90% of these women already KNOW what she wants you to tell her. As long as you tell her what she wants to hear she's happy. If not she's either going to lash out at you or keep changing, keep altering the question, the situation until you do tell her what she wants to hear.
It's pointless advising people like this.🤣 stick to the people you CAN help. That's what I say.

[Asker]

This whole site is for advice and people still toxic it's crazy smh

[Opinion Owner]

Yes because feelings aren't rational. And people most of the time want what they want, not what's best for them. And this goes for both genders.

[Asker]

I agree

[ProbablyClueless]

of course, but there are also people who will recognize your good advice for what it is and run a marathon with it.

[Joshydavid25]

We all are at some point.. That's why we fall and get back up.. But yes, some people will never learn..

[Sonorous]

Yes, I have observed those types.

[Asker]

Indeed

[Sonorous]

And sadly, many aren't even self aware of it at the least. Causing the inevitable suffering they'll experience to hurt far more/cause a greater perceived amount of chaos. And if they're a parent, for instance, they won't be the only ones suffering. The kids will suffer as well.

[Sonorous]

not to be too dramatic ofc 👌

[Asker]

I agree

[NathanDavis]

lmfao... you're just stating facts

[Asker]

Lmao yep people out here scared of good advice 😂

[Lyndsielee666]

Tag me next time.

[Asker]

Why?

[Lyndsielee666]

I was joking 😭

[Asker]

Oh okay, you scared me with confusion Lyndsie 😂

[Anonymous]

You mean like Donald Trump?

[Asker]

You would try turning it political 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly, I wasn’t trying to but that’s what instantly came to mind when I read the question 😀

[Asker]

Well that quite a political brain you got there anon 😆

[serious]

Yes that is true

[exitseven]

Yes, some folks always have to do the stupid thing

[Lisia]

Lol yeah I am

[leftAndRiqht]

What does it mean?

[Asker]

That some people no matter how much advice you hive them, they seem to just not want to change.

[Asker]

Or can't change from how comfortable they are with whatever destructive thing they received advice for.

[leftAndRiqht]

I am open to personal development. They expecting from you say what they need to hear

[Asker]

Yep indeed

[Joker_]

@Worst

[Worst]

I'm rich lol

[Joker_]

I would advise you to invest your money into getting some bitches

[Worst]

Ok lol

[Anonymous]

Many are