Is it wrong to try to tell people something good? Why people do not like when someone tries to give them good advice or genuinely assess them?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

The fact that you beliece your advice is good doesn't mean that someone else wants to hear it. Most people insist on making their own mistakes and lerning through their own trials and errors. Sometimes, the best thing you can do for someone else is to keep your piehole shut.

[Asker]

Really 100x helpful.

[IMuser]

As we say in India: "laaton ke bhoot baaton se nhi mante" (translated to: some people only learn from experience)

There are times when your advice is well mannered but there is a reluctance from the other party. You really cannot do anything about.

Male a rule for yourself: do not give advice unless someone says "please i really need your help on this". Assume that they are just complaining to you and need your ears not brains, not brains

[UniquelyBasic]

People see themselves as if they can do no wrong and anything that even slightly questions them is taken as an insult.

[Asker]

Man, I understood it with a live example today...

[McLlovin]

Unless they ask you, people generally don’t like to be criticized