Is loving your family more than others a form of racism?

[Anonymous]

Your reaction: huh? That's crazyyyy... I'm not racist and I love my family!

My response: try to be logical for a minute.

Yes

No

[IslaTheWitch]

I can't tell if I love my family more. Definitely, it's a different love than I have for friends and different than I have for my partner.

People ARE different, so we love them differently. I don't see it as racism but as a rational decision. Prove me wrong.

[Asker]

It's easy to prove you wrong from a scientific point of view. From an emotional point of view it is impossible. Scientifically, we have been shown to love people more genetically related to us than less related to us. This is innate narcissism we can't do anything about. It's the same "narcissism" that "makes" viruses "want" to replicate. Without this narcissism, you would be crushed by genes that were narcissistic. Humans aren't self sufficient so we have developed a feeling that too much narcissism is actually bad. However that is all perspective, from a genetic point of view no amount of narcissism is bad as long as it results in "success". Where you get proved wrong is that a "race" is literally your extended family. So when you prioritize your family over others, you're acting with the same narcissism that racists act with.

[IslaTheWitch]

1. if you say something is proven, please add the bibliographies.
2. I don't believe your theory about narcissism, especially since you have nothing to prove it.

3. we love different people differently. Every kid in the family is loved differently, but not necessarily less or more. But this also could be the case. Some kids are loved more, and some less.

4. We love parents in totally different ways, than kids, aunties and grandparents

5. Scientifically, it was proven we statistically love our spouse more than any family member, mostly because our mind makes an additional effort, because this is a person we have chosen

Also, we share love between close friends. But this love is totally different. Even if very often stronger than that shared with family members

[Asker]

I don't argue point by point. That's extremely rude and dismissive.

[IslaTheWitch]

the best praise I can get here :)

[HelpfulWoman]

I like how mr anon thought he had done something, but didn't bring receipts XD dude is just a dumbass who found a word and feels the need to use it. Bless him

[Asker]

Yes thank you for admitting you're being emotional. And yet when it comes to the natural emotions you feel, which are optimized for your own good, you ignore them because it would require meeting real resistance head on. You disagreeing with me is 1. Fundamentally unnatural. 2. Completely natural from the perspective that you lack the testicles and the will to stand up and stand firm for yourself. You would rather take the sure fire bet of living in peace and avoid all real conflict.

[HelpfulWoman]

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[Asker]

Laugh all you want but nature itself will prove you wrong in the end. Actually besides being fun, really, I am arguing with you to save you. I can see 1k years in the future with logic and I know the laws of nature that are the basis of fate. Not only will your race go kapoof, you will go kapoof. It's called convergent evolution and it made hyenas and wolves, unrelated animals, almost identical I call it fate. There is an optimal way to live for survival and it is narcissism.

[HelpfulWoman]

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[IslaTheWitch]

@HelpfulWoman do you need popcorn? I can provide some :D

[HelpfulWoman]

that would be great @islathewitch
:D its hysterical

[HelpfulWoman]

not everything is racism.

it's pretty obvious you're just throwing the word around.

[jshm2]

You must have skipped school, you dimwit.

Family isn't a "race". You can have a mixed race family to boot.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

It seem many people on this site don't understand the damn definition of racism, inlcuding you

[In_Trance]

This is fkn dumb

[gorydetails]

no. next question?

[Asker]

No. Lets not just move on. "The unexamined life is not worth living" Plato and mine's sentiment that'll make me start an argument with you lol

[gorydetails]

you'll lose.

[Asker]

Quite frankly I don't think I can lose. Because your perspective is a mix of self-denial and hypocrisy. Anyone with balls will agree with me.

[gorydetails]

lmao. Anyone not a retard will agree with me.