No one has rights to yell at anyone, we should remember that it's their first time in life too. If they are wrong by our understandings, then we try to hear out their side first and if they are indeed wrong in logical terms, then we try to talk it out instead of blaming them. It's first time in life for them too, we shouldn't expect everyone to be perfect. Arguments are healthy if done in healthy debate manner. Not if done as a competition where you feel like winning if you're right.
If they're wrong in your eyes, remember, your opinion is wrong in their eyes too. I don't see why one needs to yell and be proud for being correct in an argument when arguments is literally about learning more about each other and growing together. We can see the effects of 4th wave feminism but a true feminist is the one who believes in equal opportunity for both men and women. That's literally how feminism was supposed to be. Search up the definition of a feminist and it was never about keeping a woman above a man, but as women were denied in pre modern world, it is about bringing women to the level of men. Basically giving both the sexes equal rights.
Weird how google provides righteous definitions yet has a stereotypical mindset. But if we see, then usually men get really aggressive when they yell and it urges them to get physical and usually when a woman is angry, it's because they have a bad day. That's what I noticed in my country and with my cousins. But it must be because my country is still a male-dominated one (if we rule out the modern places like Mumbai).
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For the question about the wife, the abuse hotline is the second website
For the question about the husband, the abuse hotline is the first option.
So there's already not really a huge difference. And let's be real, for two people genuinely googling those questions, those are probably the results that the two people in those specific situations were looking for. Google is good at what they do, and they know that.
I feel yelling in a relationship is overall socially unacceptable, does not matter who is doing it.
I also feel like it is unhealthy, unhelpful and just makes the situation worse regardless so there is no benefit to whomever is doing it either. Its just the sign of someone who does not have the experience in how to maintain a healthy relationship and just resorting to lashing out which can result in being abusive or at the very least is extremely hostile.
I don't get the point of yelling. I have a feeling, that my parents yelled more than just using their regular voice and all it did was hurting my ears and making me feel unsafe to say the least.
There are ways to deal with things and yelling isn't an effective one. We're not talking about situations like being in the military, in the front lines or in a loud environment or far away from each other.
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it hits different when a guy is yellin at you than when a girl is lmaoAbsolutely not! No one deserves to be yelled at, honey. A healthy relationship is about talking things through with respect, no matter who you are. Yelling is a sign of anger that needs to be dealt with in a calmer way.
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I just never yell at anybody...
because I am very aware of how I can look like, and how I can sound like...
it can be intimidating, so you have to be aware of this... yelling at people is just not acceptable, regardless of gender... lol yelling is showing disrespect. It's taking it out on another person when we can't control our own emotions... we show weakness and then wear it in nice words.
yelling is mental abuse, don't let anyone do it to you. Man, woman, kid... they all should show the basic respect.
No, no one should yell at anyone. I used to hate when my bd/ex would yell at me in front of people, Iโd be dressed and fixed nice and heโd talk so much shit to me
Google is quite woke and has double standards, I've observed that multiple times
No one should be yelling at anyone , and there is little excuse , certainly not acceptable for a wife to be yelling at her husband / boyfriend , om either side of the fence , never accept such behavior.
wow but yeh, no help for men in same situation. awful. they should offer help to men too! not justify her!
if justified then "trigger man same list"?
It's not socially acceptable to yell at anyone.
Like learn to use your words without raging
I like your fun questions more lol
It's a different stereotype. I think yelling is not okay period.
LMAO no fucking way.
Only a maginay lets himself be yelled at by a woman, if a woman yells at me, I hit her in the face.
Its not socially acceptable for men to stay alive
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no, never, nor the other way around.
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