If you search on Google "why is my wife yelling at me?" you'll have a list of reasons on why your wife is yelling at you but if you search up "why is my husband yelling at me there's no list and a bunch of help abuse victim numbers and sites pop up, is screaming abuse? And if so why is this type of abuse only allowed or socially acceptable from women?
Is it not socially acceptable for a man to yell at his wife?
No one has rights to yell at anyone, we should remember that it's their first time in life too. If they are wrong by our understandings, then we try to hear out their side first and if they are indeed wrong in logical terms, then we try to talk it out instead of blaming them. It's first time in life for them too, we shouldn't expect everyone to be perfect. Arguments are healthy if done in healthy debate manner. Not if done as a competition where you feel like winning if you're right.
If they're wrong in your eyes, remember, your opinion is wrong in their eyes too. I don't see why one needs to yell and be proud for being correct in an argument when arguments is literally about learning more about each other and growing together. We can see the effects of 4th wave feminism but a true feminist is the one who believes in equal opportunity for both men and women. That's literally how feminism was supposed to be. Search up the definition of a feminist and it was never about keeping a woman above a man, but as women were denied in pre modern world, it is about bringing women to the level of men. Basically giving both the sexes equal rights.
Weird how google provides righteous definitions yet has a stereotypical mindset. But if we see, then usually men get really aggressive when they yell and it urges them to get physical and usually when a woman is angry, it's because they have a bad day. That's what I noticed in my country and with my cousins. But it must be because my country is still a male-dominated one (if we rule out the modern places like Mumbai).
For the question about the wife, the abuse hotline is the second website
For the question about the husband, the abuse hotline is the first option.
So there's already not really a huge difference. And let's be real, for two people genuinely googling those questions, those are probably the results that the two people in those specific situations were looking for. Google is good at what they do, and they know that.
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Not really cause they can be arguing about dumb stuff and then they decide to search that lol, scream and abuse are different things
I mean technically they can be different, but realistically if your partner is screaming at you (aside from maybe really rare occasions) then they are going to be abusive in one way or another 99% of the time. But that's why I said genuinely. If someone is genuinely looking something like that up because their spouse is regularly screaming at them, then the results they get is probably what they're going to be looking for.
I feel yelling in a relationship is overall socially unacceptable, does not matter who is doing it.
I also feel like it is unhealthy, unhelpful and just makes the situation worse regardless so there is no benefit to whomever is doing it either. Its just the sign of someone who does not have the experience in how to maintain a healthy relationship and just resorting to lashing out which can result in being abusive or at the very least is extremely hostile.
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Still happens within arguments tho, not top of the lungs telling but yelling in general ha
Not saying it is not happening, just that I have never seen an instance of it happening actually being an improvement or otherwise helpful. It is a breakdown in communication if nothing else so hardly the best method to try reach a solution.
I don't get the point of yelling. I have a feeling, that my parents yelled more than just using their regular voice and all it did was hurting my ears and making me feel unsafe to say the least.
There are ways to deal with things and yelling isn't an effective one. We're not talking about situations like being in the military, in the front lines or in a loud environment or far away from each other.
Absolutely not! No one deserves to be yelled at, honey. A healthy relationship is about talking things through with respect, no matter who you are. Yelling is a sign of anger that needs to be dealt with in a calmer way.
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I hope you are speaking for both genders and not just mine
yelling is showing disrespect. It's taking it out on another person when we can't control our own emotions... we show weakness and then wear it in nice words.
yelling is mental abuse, don't let anyone do it to you. Man, woman, kid... they all should show the basic respect.
No, no one should yell at anyone. I used to hate when my bd/ex would yell at me in front of people, I’d be dressed and fixed nice and he’d talk so much shit to me
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Well that is just straight up abusive tho I mean in an argument for example, not top of the lungs yelling either, that I know usually leads to abuse if it isn't but I feel bad for how poorly you were treated, although glad you stood up for yourself
I will never support yelling again, I dealt with too much. Don’t feel bad, it’s the sad reality for most women after becoming pregnant. Just make sure you’re never like that
I surely don't plan on it, I hope you find love again tho kitty and this time that you are treated like a queen, til then you just keep enjoying every breath god gives you with your duckling 🙂💯
I think so, you seem like a good woman and you seem like marriage material, your child is visual evidence that you have the strength for being a mother, that plays a part in marriage material, that with you self control, your serious but still humorous personality will assure it, you should believe it too, if you don't I can't say it will matter tho cause usually love finds you in a way you don't normally predict, we all feel down at times but don't eat up all that overthinking stuff, you'll see one day you'll have someone and you'll think back like "hm that dude with the lorax nose on gag was right" 😂
No one should be yelling at anyone , and there is little excuse , certainly not acceptable for a wife to be yelling at her husband / boyfriend , om either side of the fence , never accept such behavior.
I mean you aren't born into the language, it takes time, you've learned the basics and can communicate and read and type English, the hardest part is done, you'll learn more as you advance in life and speak and hear new things.
Yes, it seems your brain works, many people just don't seem to know that guns require lubricant to properly function so as the chrisax I speak for guns they should lube their shit lol
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