Is it wrong for a man to yell at his wife?

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Oncewildtwiceburned · Accepted Answer

That kind of depends on age, younger people might do that sometimes but as I got older I could never imagine myself yelling at the woman I love, I’d just walk away if something conjured up feelings like that and leave her. I’m a muscular guy that looks like a 205 mma fighter, my voice can get loud so all I can think of that deserves yelling is if she cheated on me or murdered someone in cold blood. For the cheating part If never get with a woman like that again, or I’d simply not talk to her and just leave.

The type of woman I got with when I was young and had kids with was crazy and my childhood wasn’t too great either, hers was worse. We yelled at each other a lot, she got me started, she fed on drama. I fed into it like a man-child, no stoicism no self respect-I should’ve left her at the first sign of this behavior but I wanted to help her, I thought I was in love, and then boom-we had kids. She scratched me up threw hands and did all sorts of things like that, I held her down once and I even prayed that the demons would just go away in Jesus name.

Just leave, such behavior will destroy y’all’s love. A girlfriend I dated for a while yelled at me once on her period and its fine I just ignored it and didn’t think too much about it. If it became a pattern I’d just leave. Its for the better.

John_Cobretti · Accepted Answer

Depends on the context Can't expect him to not yell if she accidentally feeds his dog rat poison

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Yes but I understand that in a serious fight people sometimes lose their temper and yell at each other. I wouldn’t leave him unless he does this a lot or he does it in a demeaning or belittling way.

MK1997 · Accepted Answer

Depending on the situation

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, diving right into the deep waters of relationships, I love it! 🌊 Let me share a little pearl of wisdom: communication in any relationship, especially in marriage, should be rooted in respect and understanding. So, yelling? Nah, that's not the love song you want to be playing. It's a red flag waving in the wind of your romance. Now, I'm not saying we're all perfect—emotions can make our voices louder than we intend. But, making yelling an opera in your love story? Definitely not the melody of a healthy relationship. Aim for harmony with open, calm conversations where both feel heard. That's the chart-topper right there! 💕🎶

Finchie40 · Answer

Just depends on how much he is yelling at her , and what he is yelling about , if he is yelling at her constantly like every day , she should really reconsider that relationship and start making her plans to move on from him , If he is only yelling once in awhile then that’s normal , Every couple argues from time to time , you both can’t always agree on everything ,. Arguing and yelling is only bad , if it’s consistent and even worse if physical violence is involved as well like hitting or slapping or throwing things at their partner , causing physical harm. Then that is abuse and that’s when someone should walk away and get the fuck out of that relationship. Nobody should be putting their hands on anyone , especially their partner. Even though at times you might feel like you want to knock your partner out , it’s best to just walk other way and separate from each other until you both calm down and talk to each other without yelling at each other

ohsheeT · Answer

. You know there's no reason to yell whatsoever because that's like he's trying to control.

In a relationship it's called respect not control if he has a problem he says it there's no reason to yell..

Most people that yell when they're having an argument it's because the other person said something that was true and they the truth hurts so they get all been out of shape and they think if they yell and scream and detour everything it'll be forgotten about but once this person starts yelling and screaming there's something that they're probably trying to hide

AviatorTom · Answer

Arguments in a relationship happen. Yelling at each other is much preferred over hitting each other, or throwing things.

imtiaz45 · Answer

Yes, it is generally wrong for anyone, including a man, to yell at their spouse. Yelling creates an environment of fear, disrespect, and emotional harm, undermining the trust and communication essential for a healthy relationship. While disagreements and frustrations are natural, expressing emotions through yelling is not a productive or respectful way to handle conflicts. Instead, partners should aim to communicate calmly, listen to each other's perspectives, and resolve issues with empathy. Mutual respect and kindness are the foundations of a strong relationship, and yelling violates those principles, potentially damaging the bond between partners.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

It is always a sign of break-down. It is not good to feel that the only way to get a point across is to ramp up the volume., but it happens. frustration will win unless you find a way to de-fuse the situation. The technique I have always used, until I lost my legs that is, was to excuse myself and walk away from the argument and use that away time to re-evaluate goal and the cost of either side. Respect the person who is voicing the opposite opinion by returning to the discussion. Just walking away will incur their wrath. The worst place to get in an argument is in a car because you are trapped in close quarters, Escalation is inevitable Comment: Very few animals are dangerous as long as they are provided an option to escape. Even a snake will avoid confrontation.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends what she did. To quote Daniel Tosh "There's no excuse for domestic abuse"..."it sounds like a challenge". "Say a guy comes home from work to find his wife has drowned 2 of thier kids. She's about to dunk the 3rd. Is it OK to run over and pop her then? The point of what I'm saying is sometimes there's a Grey area".😆

But seriously, no one should yell at there spouse if the can humanly avoid it. I would 🤦‍♂️ and then go for a walk. If she has any kind of non verbal awareness she can read between the lines. Sometimes silence can be deafening.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

If you are asking if voicing anger, per se, is wrong, then no, it is not. Voicing anger is not even gender-based. When voicing anger is a daily routine, then something is wrong, yes, very !

If you're into stereotypical eastern beliefs, then yes, you'll find it wrong, like any other emotions probably. Including joy and sadness. I'm sorry to hear that.

Angelo75 · Answer

Any type of agression to your partner is "wrong". Because on that moment you're tackling "the person" instead of tackling the problem.

Either by yelling, swearing, punishing or hitting... they are all agression.

You get frustrated? Yell at the problem.

Besides, by yelling, the only thing you're doing is setting yourself up for having to apologise to her later.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

It is wrong for either of them to yell at each other.

Berethor · Answer

Maybe he was having a limit break, like Jiren who was stoic before that, just kidding. :)

KpopMusicFan · Answer

Yes it is. A man should not yell at his wife or girlfriend period. It’s disrespectful.

MisterWack · Answer

Depends, if he naturally passionate about certain issues / topics then it is fine. If he is yelling, demeaning, and making her cry constantly then that is bad.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

No more wrong than a wife being bitchy to her husband.

Unit1 · Answer

I fled from my "family", being yelled at over nothing at what feels like 100 decibels being just one reason of many. I'm not going to tolerate risking having my ears damaged or impaired.

DrPepper12 · Answer

It's wrong to yell at ANYONE. If you're yelling, you've already lost emotional regulation and are getting into irrational and non-productive.

TDDMS · Answer

No, it is not. If I walk in on her abusing the kids, being yelled at will be the least of her concerns. Her concern in that situation should be, "Can I afford the bodycast and being without income for the next 6 months?"

MemeSupreme · Answer

idkk what if she did something fucked up  like IDEALLY no one should be yelling at anyone but sometimes shit happens

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Probably. There are definitely situations where yelling is called for, though.  Nobody should be yelling at anyone else, as a general principle.

lexie_xo · Answer

its wrong for both to yell at eatchother best to be patient then yell

quickquesocheese · Answer

Its wrong to tell at anyone in a relationship. Man or woman doing it. Control your feelings and act like what you actually are. An adult.

thrillcr · Answer

it's kind of a vague question. i think context is important here.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course, nobody should be yelling.

Easy1134 · Answer

I would say so under most circumstances. Yelling normally isn't the best way to communicate.

exitseven · Answer

Howcum nobody ever asks if it is okay for a wife to yell at her husband? Asking for a friend.

bowenw · Answer

I believe it is. Sometimes people raise their voices, but it shouldn't resort to yelling.

DrewJohnson · Answer

My wife doesn't appreciate it when I yell at her. I'm far from perfect, but I'm learning it's better to disagree without yelling.

worldscolide · Answer

Yes, just as wrong as it is for a woman to yell at her husband. It's abuse.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you suggesting it's more wrong for a man to yell at his wife than for a woman to yell at her husband?

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Probably not, but it depends what it is. Women yell at men all the time, but society doesn't care about that.

Mrinalkishore · Answer

It's wrong for a human to yell at another human, there's no conflict that requires someone to bark like a dog, unless and untill that dog want to assert dominance on other.

Blkgrnlntrn · Answer

Is it wrong for a woman to yell at her husband?

Inthelines · Answer

No it's not. Sometimes women can't understand everything and men have to shout.

Raaj4you · Answer

Nothing wrong if you both yell at each other. Petty issues don't matter in a relationship.

MyBrainsInsaneReign · Answer

I guess it depends on what she did, and why he's yelling.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, it's display of weakness.

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes it’s wrong but what can I do?

chrissykerdock · Answer

if she did something wrong it's ok

itsannalee · Answer

It’s wrong to yell to everyone.

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

No, it's not wrong. Men can yell at women.

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

Yes, definitely

Alexandria84 · Answer

Yes especially if they didn't talk before.

miamooree · Answer

Yes, absolutely!

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