A man threatened me?

[Anonymous]

I am 18 years old now, but when I was underage and having some problems, I was meeting people on the internet and I was really naive, I was easy to deceive, 2 men became lovers with me at that time and tried to use me sexually ((I live in a Muslim society where sex is shameful, so if my family finds out, they will get angry at me and the society will judge me)) they were much older than me, then they threatened to tell my family and kill me. they did, and even if I closed my Instagram account, they found my new Instagram account and messaged me, It's been a few years but I can't forget, what should I do?

[StarWarGirl]

I stepped into internet world when I was 19 years old. I was naive then. But one two things I always did 1st I have never shared my real name with anyone at least not before I really know that person and even after knowing that person so like for 3-6 month I didn't told my real name to anyone since I met him another rule I had that I didn't share my pic with anyone easily. These two things helped me somewhat. But i was also naive and i believed the people at social sites as real and good people. I did not know that they all do pretend so I was trusting anyone easily so one mistake I did was that I have shared my contact number with a person and this was my mistake. He made my that number as viral and I became like a kind of game among those boys to try getting my pic my information or try making me fall in love. I continue getting numbers of calls from unknown and since 2 years almost it was sooo much stressful. I tried everything, by requesting them to stop to not do, I cried, i shouted but nothing helped as much I use to shout that much they used to enjoy it more. I also belonged to conservative family so i could not say anything to anyone about it or else my freedom could have snatched. So then i used to pick up call but i wasn't saying anything for hours by using this trick after 2 years almost this got ended. Another mistake I did that I didn't know that people here on internet use internet ad mask and so they are more evil and they don't even hesitate to ask for those things what in real life they could not. It gives them power. So lot many times whenever I trusted anyone they ended up asking for sexual stuff after that I made rule for myself to not make any friends from internet. Also another thing I learnt that we need to keep strict boundry if you give anyone more freedom they will use it for more bad. For example when I trusted one as a good friend and gave them freedom to ask anything they will not hesitate to ask for things those are forbidden. And if you resist they will get angry and manipulte you.

And at final when nothing works you should remember they are real human being and whatever power they has only because they can hide behind mask of internet if you would stand strongly they will get scared of. They are just like fake bubbles and coward. So if nothing works just act strong. Show your confidence even if you are afraid inside and take care of yourself.

Internet world is most evil stay safe. Hope it will help you.

[Asker]

We experienced similar things, thank you

you made me feel better🩷

[silyt_ghoest]

If you have any of their info be the bigger person. Not as in be a better person, as in doxx them back.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Get a good education in a non-liberal-arts field. Do really, really, well at your first job. Save a minimum of 30% of your income. Throw it in 10% cash, 80% SPY and 10% UPRO. Live like a pauper if you have to. Move to a country that doesn't suck.

[Asker]

I work hard for a good education, I want to leave this country but I am only 18 years old now, I cannot leave now but I can leave in the future.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I know... it sucks. I'm sorry for you. I lived in Iraq for 3 years. Visited Kuwait, Dubai, the Kingdom... there's just no easy solution other than "get out."

[Asker]

I'm so glad you really understand me, because things here are not like where you live, so a woman can't even say she has sexual desire because they see her as a whore, yes I live in such a country, and I'm not satisfied, I'm trying so hard to leave, just, I was afraid if those men would find me and do something to me.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Good chance they will. That's why it sucks. And if they did there will be no punishment. Just gotta keep your head down and study hard. Stay off the radar and get out as soon as you can. Do it in small increments if possible. I don't know where you are now, but if it's Iran, move to Kuwait first, then your final country. If you're in Afghanistan, move to (well... anywhere but Pakistan), then step up to Qatar or whatever, then Norway... doesn't have to be all in one step, but move to a less backwards country then a less backwards country... so on and so on.

[Asker]

My mother is an open-minded person, I told her about this situation and she was never angry with me, but if my father knew, he might not even want to talk to me again.

just really today my trauma was triggered and I started crying

I will try what you said, thank you, it really makes me feel good that a man understands me, I have no one to tell this to, I can't tell anyone where I live here.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You can do it. You'll get out eventually. I've known others who have (and they are all much happier now). It's rough over there for a woman. Regardless which country you're in. Some are obviously better than others, but still a far cry from "good." Blessings in abundance to you in your journey. Be safe. Be very cautious. Be very careful. I've seen stonings before. They don't go well.

[boggboss]

Only make accounts that are private not really sure what else u csnt do legal wise as from what I have seen women tend to get blamed in situations like this

[Asker]

I'm not surprised, when were women's rights ever protected? at least it is not protected in my country

[laly520]

block em n move on

if they reach out again u gotta call cops

[Plugs]

Pocso , minors are given absolute discretion and privacy. Read minor act on India

[Asker]

I don't live in India

[Plugs]

There are similar laws in every nation that protects minors. Minors who kill are in fact released after 18 . It’s outrageous so u can easily protect yourself

[CaptainSmartass]

Let it be known in their area that they like to have sex with other men, and they've got a dose.

Simples...

[Anonymous]

I say just focus on moving on and block them if you see them again.

[Asker]

Yes I do, but I am scared that he will find me

[Opinion Owner]

Relax, its been a few years so I doubt they even think about you.

[Asker]

I hope 🥹

[Opinion Owner]

You'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

Keep doing you. They want more sex... ignore them

[Asker]

We didn't have sex anyway, but he forced me to talk about sex, where I live even talking about it is shameful and seems like a bad thing. and i am scared that he will come to my city and will do something to me

[Opinion Owner]

He didn't force you to do shit. You could of blocked him

[Asker]

Yes I hope you know that a 14 year old girl will not be that smart

[Asker]

And he tries to find me even though I block him, Who do you think is guilty? Is a 14 year old girl guilty? Or is the 27-year-old man who deceives little girls and invites them to meet up and whose sole purpose is to sex,

Who is guilty?
Lol, u literally defended him, shame

[Asker]

The man who forces little girls to have sex and threatens them is not guilty, but the little girl is guilty , ah shame!

[gorydetails]

close all your social media accounts.