Feel threatened by another man?

[Anonymous]

Do men ever get jealous or feel threatened by another man? Honestly, have you ever been in a situation where you felt threatened by another man? Maybe because your girlfriend had a super hot guy friend she always hung around. or maybe you dated a girl who got male attention all the time ( even when you were with her). did this secretly bother you? or maybe there was a time when another guy liked your girlfriend and you new he was secretly planning to get her. Tell me your stories.

Yes, I have felt threatened by another guy before

No, why would I be jealous, I mean look at me

Not sure, never thought about it

I am a woman that wants to know the poll results

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Ok JUDGING BY THE POLLS, AND THEY DON'T LIE, 87% OF MEN ( THIS MAY INCREASE WITH ADDITIONAL VOTING) HAVE BEEN JEALOUS. PRODUCING A NEW FACT"


MEN ARE JUST AS JEALOUS OF EACH OTHER AS WOMEN, THEY JUST DON'T SHOW IT

[Anonymous]

I've not necessarily felt threatened by another man when going with my girlfriend, but I've certainly been jealous from attention she's gotten from other guys when we've been out together or of things she told me when she was out with her friends. An example of this is like, ok she's really cute and likes to dress hot. She has great legs and likes to show them so she wears those short jeans skirts a LOT, the ones with the frayed hemlines, and whenever we're out she ALWAYS has guys looking at her legs every chance they get. It's so obvious and she knows it and enjoys the attention and doesn't mind when sometimes her undies peak when she's sitting because it's hard to sit without those accidentally peaking out sometimes. That does make me jealous even though that's not such a big deal, and when I tell her it just makes her laugh and she'll say like, I hope it gave you a boner. lol. Actually it does because that's being so teasy. It's just really sexy whenever that does happens. There's these two particular guys, one is a guy friend of hers and the other is his friend, that seem to be around a lot when we go certain places and they always give her more attention than I wish they did. Whenever we go to those places, she seems to make sure to wear one of her jean skirts just so that she can flaunt her legs and tease them. Sometimes I think either one of them is secretly planning to get her, and if they ever hooked up with her she'd look at it as just being fun because they're her friends. By the way, she has nice boobs too so between her hot tops and short skirts I do get jealous, but she says I'm just overacting and to just let her have fun because that only makes her love me more. Lately, it looks like more and more that one of those guys are going to hook up with her because they've texted her and she's told me and she doesn't see anything wrong with that. So I'm just not going to make a big deal out of this because she said I was her boyfriend, not either of them.

[Newport100]

I don't feel threatened by other guys, Hell I expect competition. I don't worry if the guy is hotter than me BUT.

What honestly bothers me is the female. I don't like games, some ladies out there (thankfully not all) LOVE to try to make thier guy jealous. That shit doesn't fly with me.

If she really cares about me I don't worry, I know ladies and guys enjoy the fact that the opposite sex find them attractive and worthy. It feels real nice getting a little attention but KNOW who your love is and don't betray them.

Betrayal is a reall relationship killer, even if they forgive you.its never going to be the same again.period! Cold hard fact of life and that fact will never change, never has and never will.

Now, if you(talking to the guys) are the jealous type, treat your woman with respect.she will never leave you if she loves you.

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

I agree with everything you wrote. ^-^

[Evolution86]

I met my ex at work, and there was this nice, good looking guy working with us also. Well, my ex had dislocated his shoulder a few times and was off work, and it would bother him if I mentioned that this other guy had helped me with something. He was insanely jealous of this man. It was annoying because when he said that some other girl was good looking, I never said anything. Most days I would agree or disagree with him. But my ex definitely felt threatened by this man at work. It didn't matter that he was engaged (now married), my ex was still jealous of this other man talking to me or helping me with my work. This is partially why we broke up.

[HaggardDiva]

I always thought that my boyfriend was not the jealous type. But recently we were at the video store and this guy walked out, he was pretty hot, but the thing was he had these 2 piercing in his bottom lip. I turned to my boyfriend and said "I kind of want to make out with that guy, just to see what that feels like." And it was weird the look on his face and the tone in his voice just changed. He actually got jealous, and he admitted that he did too. It was so weird, because I never thought he was the jealous type, or I wouldn't have said it.

[Just-A-Random-Guy]

What other kind of reaction would you want after your girlfriend says that she wants to make out with that hot guy? Are you expecting laughter and a pat on the back?

[melissat]

I agree with you Just-A-Random-Guy

[Exotic]

Yeah, anyone would be jealous if your girlfriend tells you that she wants to make out with another guy. You don't tell him that.

[Newport100]

If I said that to a female I loved, I would expect to get slapped right on my face. What are you, freaking nuts? I guess you don't care about your guy or your relationship with him. Well, I am usre he he picked up on it after that incident. Your relationship took a nosedive after that, I hope for your sake you grew up from that experience.

[HaggardDiva]

OK I was TOTALLY misunderstood here. I guess I wasn't clear in what I was saying. I didn't say it in a serious way by any means, I was joking because he had those lips rings, I never even said anything about him being hot. And I have had things like that said to me, under similar circumstances and it didn't bother me. The point is that it's different. I would never actually make out with him. And we haven't had any problems in our relationship because of it.

[HaggardDiva]

When you are in a secure loving relationship you can be open and joke about things like that. And I DO love my boyfriend, so how dare you say anything about how I feel about my relationship? And if ANYONE that has been in a relationship tries to say that they have NEVER joked about anything similar to that with their loved one, be it someone they pass on the street or an actress/actor in a movie, they are lying.

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty secure with myself. I trust my girlfriends that even if they get attention, they won't do anything rash. If I can't trust them, I don't be with them. I may not be the best looking guy but I'm the one with the girl that the other guys are trying to get with.

I also find that when a guy gets insecure and jealous, the relationship starts going downhill. I've had countless female friends who broke up with their boyfriends because their boyfriends were jealous of the time I spent with my friends. Hell, I wouldn't even say I'm good looking and they are jealous of me when I have no intention of making a move on their girls.

[Exotic]

I have never felt threatened by another guy, but I have been worried about stuff. Me and this girl were going out, we didn't have many classes together, and I saw her talking to another dude somewhat a lot. I got worried. I felt much better when she got mad at him because she thought he was trying to get her or something.

[Scrimz21]

I wouldn't say threatened but I feel that my girl friend's aren't very loyal at times but they say they are, and I worry about that. Like I tend to date the girls that got hurt by their first boyfriend either physically or got used by them for sex, and yeah I just worry they might go hook up with another dude.

[acealmighty13]

Yes I do but I try not to show it and I think I do pretty well. It drives me up the wall when other guys hit on my best friend. I take it in stride because we are both single and it isn't my call who she's interested in and who's interested in her.

[Asker]

If it bothers you that much..........you guys may not be "friends"............i am sensing a little more than friendship

[Asker]

You guys might not be just "friends" if you are getting jealous like that

[Anonymous]

they can be vicious. I had the feeling I was eyed badly because girls were coming up to talk to me. it was like the leader of the social organization took the first step then other a&&hole followed. in the end , I felt so uncomfortable with the situation I just stopped going that oranization's b*(&h social events.

[mario123]

guys that never felt threatened by another guy are just straight up lying, either they never really liked a girl or just don't like the girl my opinion.

[dohcrwd]

when I was younger yes, but now NO.

why?

because if I get envy then I am not ready for a relationship yet.

just that simple

[Useme]

yes, they do but they don't show it like girls do. haha theyr more polite

[theABCman]

It happens whenever you see another guy around and you are trying to flirt with a girl. Even if neither guy would date her. Its a male thing.

[death2douches]

i would given the chance. but she isn't the type to do that so I`m cool

[somthing-about-legs]

yes we get jealous every now and then

we are only human

[obscene]

Yes, I've been jealous of other guys before