A girl gave me her number at the bar, she was really beautiful.

[Fiftybelowzero]

She gave me her number and she is a really really good looking girl. Like significantly better than me.

It's a real number, how should I play this? Is she interested? Did she just feel bad about saying no?

If she was interested what should I do?

Wait a few days? Never call her? Text her?

I am just wondering how I should go about it. I am usually really confident but this girl is something else and I want to do this right.

[bauer]

lol dude it's just a number. If you're already thinking about playing games, then you're going to lose it. Just text her tomorrow and go from there. By the way, if a girl gives you her number at a bar, it's always a good idea to text her right after something simple, non-needy at all like "Nice talking with ya, stay safe.". Don't play that "wait 2 days" bs.

[nastynate7188]

well what is "did she feel bad about saying no" referring to? did you ask her to leave with you or switch environments, and she told you no, but then gave you her number or something? hit me back and ill help you out man

[Fiftybelowzero]

I told her I was leaving and asked her for her number. She gave me her number and I said I would like to take her out sometime. She said she would too. I'm just wondering if she was being for real or if she was just being nice. Like I said this is like an 8 or 9. I have never dealt with a girl like this before :P

[nastynate7188]

lol, don't base how you act on her looks. I learned a long time ago that girls are who they are regardless of their looks...i can completely understand that your nervous because of her beauty factor tho. well here's what I would do. I would tell her that you are going out with some friends (guys) and tell her that you would like to see her again, but you really need her to do you a favor and bring a couple girl friends. tell her it would really help you out. just make sure your guy friends arent

[nastynate7188]

looking for anything...ie sex. see what she says. if she says she has no girl friends then playfully tell her, that its okay, tell her the kind of girls you like never do. then tel her that you've already made a comittment to go out with your guy friends and that you don't like leading someone on and then backing out. but that you want to see her again. ask her when she is available? always tell her your busy on the first day/night she says. tell her something like you've had this night planned

[nastynate7188]

for a while...ask her when she is available besides whatever date she said prior, then tell her you think you can squeeze her in that day (playfully). this shows a lot of things, 1. that you are offering her a chance to come out with girls (protection lol). 2. that your a popular person and that you don't cancel on plans just because she is available. 3. you want to offer to spend some of your time with her. don't let her think you'll do anything to get some of her time, make it seem like you know

[nastynate7188]

she wants to hang out with you so you are offering to let her occupy some of your free-time

[BellaAtTheBall]

Call her. In your own words "grow some balls". Wait 3 days max. But call her, get to know, invite her out.

[cutie2000]

try just txting her HEY wats up , that way you can get a converstion started with her

[moviedude714]

i had that happen to me and it turned out to be a wrong number, but since you haven't called her yet who knows, she could have done that just to boost your ego

[Hades]

Don't call her for at least a week, man. Otherwise she'll think you're a spineless, desperate doormat. Make her wait aaaand wait.

[cutie2000]

that doesn't always work sometimes it makes a girl feel like you GUYS have forgotten about us

[BellaAtTheBall]

That is horrible advice. Waiting a week= NEXT to us girls.

[Hades]

A girl who'll move on and forget about you completely if you don't contact her within a week? One worthless week? What a keeper!