Do you agree if someone brings up something you stopped doing, when you call them out on something, they are typically narcissists?

[Ryan210000]

Like you tell them you are angry with something they are still doing and they call you out on something you stopped doing already and apologized for already.

[kylee2437]

It’s definitely a narcissistic trait for sure. They are redirecting a conversation so they don’t have to take accountability for bringing up something that is bothering you.

[Ryan210000]

My ex friend brought up something I stopped doing and apologized for when I told him about something I am angry with him about, and he said "I admit... but you are a..." He also brought up something irrevalant that he doesn't agree with that I have always done and keep on doing. And than we went back and forth and he said how I want perfection yet he want perfection from me. Playing victim, gaslighting, etc. What do you think?