Guys, ever notice how we’re expected to be sensitive about women’s insecurities, but they can basically say anything they want to us?

[Kingofkings1992]

Yes

No

[normalice]

I've noticed the opposite. If women aren't extremely careful about men's insecurities they tend to get murdered or raped. Whereas when it comes to women's insecurities it's perfectly fine to fat shame, slut shame, prude shame, skinny shame, etc, and in fact if you have a problem with men shaming women you might get death or rape threats, because men are super insecure about blaming women for things men know very well are not women's fault.

[Kingofkings1992]

Women don’t height shame and penis size shame? Income shame?

[normalice]

Surely some might, but none that I'm aware of murder anyone for it. In any case, in my experience men do more of the height shaming of other men than women do, and I mean by several orders of magnitude. I've never seen anyone penis size shame anyone at all ever unless you are talking about online, which is not real life, as for one thing most girls online are actually men.

Income shame, though? That's a conservative thing and I don't know many conservatives anymore, so my experience is biased, but I haven't seen that either. I have seen frustration in struggling families because there is nothing they can do to force the rich to pay a living wage but that's something right wingers like you actually advocate for so let's not pretend you are against it.

[Syntosi]

So what you are basically saying is that we are expected to be good people but the women are being mean to us?

can't say that is a particularly strong argument for me to stop being a good person.

[Dargil]

It's part of the Chivalry and manners civilized white men are taught. I have no complaint so long as they don't demand and expect it, especially in driving traffic.