Okay guys, are women too sensitive, insensitive, or too self absorbed with themselves and their own emotions?

[DaveJord]

So guys, we here it all the time... guys have emotional band with of a fly.

But is that really the problem?

Or are women a little too sensitive, insensitive or just plain self absorbed?

You tell me, because fucked if I know? 🤷

Too sensitive

Too insensitive

Mostly to self absorbed

Updates

+1 y

Okay... my only point here with this post, as to give women a chance to see what men think of women in general. Take note ladies, this is problem for our society... at some point the balance will be restored, because nature always finds a way.

Men honestly will always accept that women are sensitive, but to the point of neglect... nah, that's just being self-absorbed. Stop neglecting your men, and then blaming your men for your own neglect.

[Anonymous]

Thanks to modern social media and feminism far too many women are all of the above.

Too sensitive to any thing that might offend them because they are encouraged to 'stand up for themselfs' to the 'patriarchy'.

Too Insensitive to any man's concern or interest because on social media men appear to be very cheap and easily replaceable.

Too self-absorbed like many people today women are raised to focus upon themselfs there begin soo many others around them, not only are men cheap, even other women to a far lesser degree are replaceable as friends. While the world bends over backwards trying to serve their every desire for money.

[DaveJord]

I am not trying to bash women here... but we have to have honest conversations on equal footing, and women honestly do their best to afford that.

[Anonymous]

Women are sensitive by nature, and as long as it's not toxic, it's a natural and endeering component of femininity. But today's women have definitely become very self-absorbed and selfish, which is very UNfeminine.

The western world dearly misses feminine women.

[DaveJord]

Well said, instant MHO upon reading this... thank you my man! And yes, we do miss it.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank YOU for MHO.

Cheers brother.

[AviatorTom]

Women are much more sensitive, in general, than men. That's how Mother Nature built us.

[DaveJord]

Us or them?

[AviatorTom]

@DaveJord Yes.

[DaveJord]

😆 🤣 😂 remember when pronouns were easy and simple.

[OlderAndWiser]

Some women are far too sensitive and some men are Neanderthals. The Neanderthals are okay because they make us regular guys look good!

[DaveJord]

See I agree, but Neanderthals are just ignorant of what's right or wrong... but normal people know the difference.

[Nemesis2k7]

Self absorbed, narcissistic. Seriously. I have noticed this fact, from observing women. Attention seekers. "Me me me me" and they LOVE the camera / selfies. One way to spot a narcissist? Social media. Selfies. A mass of selfies? Narcissist. 100+ friends? Narcissist. Come on, dont bullshit us. No one has that many friends. The narcissists just add anyone who will validate them and stroke their ego , as a "friend"

[DaveJord]

Dude, you are not lying... this straight truth.

[Nikki1989]

Get your eyesight checked dude and then look at the 1000s of selfies posted on Facebook by men.

[DaveJord]

@Nikki1989 LOL!!! you got a point!

[Sasha0426]

Am I a narcissist if I have pics of me and my dog? And funny memes? 👀

[love_conquers_lust]

@DaveJord @nemesis2k7 I’m surprised you got a reply out of her. I don’t think she’s acknowledged me once. I think you struck a chord.

[DaveJord]

@Sasha0426 No but pics of the dog on dating sites is a pass for me... dogs are just an extension of yourself... you are in charge and complete control of your dog and the type of relationship you have with your dog. And dogs love that shit... so they only reenforce your behaviors and choice you are making.

But people are not dogs, and you will never be able to have that level of control over a person... so honestly, I give a shit about you're dog I am talking about people here.

[Sasha0426]

@DaveJord Ok. Just making sure I was in the clear 😂😂😂

[DaveJord]

@Sasha0426 😂🤣😂

[Regina_George]

This is the dumbest thing I’ve heard. As someone with a masters in psychology and a risky experience working with people with issues, taking selfies does not make someone a narcissist. I’m tired of all the armchair psychologists taking these terms and misusing them for pretty basic things. Also having lots of friends.. are you serious, none of these are actual criteria for being a narcissist. Wait to jump to conclusions.. I shouldn’t even bother to honestly to respond though, let the ignorant be ignorant, it’s not anyone’s responsibility to highlight why what you just said is ridiculous

[Regina_George]

Also it’s 2023 can we please stop generalising people and putting them in boxes. People are different, have many dimensions and different personalities. I get that maybe you’re trying to generalise but if you’re going to generalise at the very least be correct about it. It’s literally proven and backed up plenty of research that men are more likely to have narcissistic tendencies.

[DaveJord]

@Regina_George thanks for responding, anyway.

[DaveJord]

@Regina_George No we will not.. generalizations have meaning... I love it when state general truths and people want to blanketly deny them like they have no meaning.

In general if tippy have meant enough people and dealt them enough even times. They attention as different as you think. They just like to think they are... or that reasons they do what they do are special and unique to themselves. But it's not; they just want to make them selves believe they are. Because if they weren't uniquely special, then shit they do and Tyner reasons they do it for would be bullshit

The ones that speak so profoundly about being unique are the ones that are blind.

[love_conquers_lust]

@DaveJord @Regina_George Everyone IS technically unique. No two given people ever have or ever will walk the exact same paths. Because each person is given there own set of choices under their own unique circumstances, no other person will get to make those decisions. At the same time, we have things in common. We share similar circumstances. We share similar decisions. We’re not so worlds apart that no two people can relate to one another. It is in the freedom to make our own unique decisions that we share common ground.

[love_conquers_lust]

@Regina_George I do prefer photos of things besides myself. I notice girls like selfies. I think it’s a gender thing.

[DaveJord]

@love_conquers_lust you are so special and so unique and technically that's true but we all have the same problems and we all suffer from the same things and we all want the same things. Wait a minute am I being too General?

[love_conquers_lust]

@DaveJord I think you’re pretty much supporting what I said. I see no difference.

[love_conquers_lust]

@DaveJord Strike that. Yes, I think it’s too general because we’re not carbon copies of one another. To say every person wants the same things is inaccurate and a far cry from the truth.

[love_conquers_lust]

@DaveJord I have health problems I want to solve that I’m certain you don’t have. That simple example blows a hole in your general assumption.

[DaveJord]

@love_conquers_lust In general people are not all that different, it's just a matter of how specific you think things really have to be. But more complicated it is the less likely you find what you need because you are too tired up in all the things you want... but you don't have those things now.

Basic needs are not the same as wants... and less general that become the more complicated it will be... but for those of us that are tried of the all the excuses that people come up with are just worn out with it.

[love_conquers_lust]

@DaveJord. Hahaha. Dave, did you wine and dine another beautiful girl who had second thoughts because she was still holding out for a prince charming? You poor bastard. I don’t approach dates expecting to get laid. Then I’m not left disappointed and I find it yields better results because sex just isn’t a sole priority for a lot of them.

Abstain and try again. I wouldn’t rub one out as a consolation prize. If jizz makes women happy when you cream them, imagine what it does for you when you retain it. This is the way.

[DaveJord]

@love_conquers_lust 😆 🤣 😂

[Anonymous]

Women aren't all one thing, we are individuals just like men are, and as such depending on who is deciding the sensitivity level in their minds, a little bit of everything depending on the situation at hand including just existing. I mean a guy can say a woman he is seeing for example, is 'too sensitive,' but in another relationship, another man doesn't view her in that light. So which is it? Emotions are the most complex things on earth and trying to understand them is next to impossible sometimes.

[DaveJord]

I love how people in general do not like to talk about people as a whole in general terms... bottom line is that there are trends out there and are there relevant generalities that do apply... and as individuals we want to pretend that even though in general there are facts out there, that as an individual we are the exception to the rule.

[Opinion Owner]

This is not a fact. A fact is one that can be proven. It has never been proven that all women OR men are just one thing. This is simply your opinion---and I find it odd that your opinion only includes that we must be one of three things----too sensitive, insensitive, or too self absorbed. Why is there no other option I wonder? You assert that if men in your words don't understand emotion, therefore women must be the issue. You seek a so called future balance in the genders in this regard, but how can that be achieved when you yourself assert that you don't get women, but instead of trying to ask them, you ask guys to define it, which is fine, I can ask women to tell me how they think men act and feel---not the issue, but then if I did a study about how older men feel about aging, and I only asked teen boys---is that gathering factual evidence on the matter from those that aren't the ones in question? No, it's not. Again, no issue with you having an opinion---but it's just that, not fact.

[DaveJord]

Look at the pole, that's a fact... a large population of men believe women are too self-absorb.

[Opinion Owner]

That's not a fact, especially given the sample size. Anyway, as I said, you are welcome to your opinion. I'll have no argument with that. Everyone is entitled to it.

[DaveJord]

Even given the sample size... it's telling. I know you'll dismiss it, but that is what happen with uncomfortable truths... people dismiss them.

[Unit1]

Who cares? I love women! Women are just fine.

[nastyb]

if women were the problem then how are all these men getting married, having kids, starting families or dating?

maybe its YOU that is the problem, not women.

[DaveJord]

Mayber it is... but at you age I was married with wife and two kids... 22 years later I am the problem. We will see where you are in life at 47 years old before you judge me.

But its a very common tactic to attack the massager before not reading the message.

[nastyb]

@DaveJord

Just because you have been married, it doesn't mean you were a good husband

Fact is... if women were so terrible, nobody would be dating or in love or getting married or having kids

[DaveJord]

Large portions of the population don't even want marriage any more... so you have a point... but how valid is it?

[nastyb]

@DaveJord

you can't even get a woman... don't even talk about marriage.

there was a reason why your wife divorced you... there is also a reason why you're having such a hard time dating... there is also a reason why you hate on women over the internet so much...

simply because you are not a high quality person.

[DaveJord]

Ahhh... personal attacks really reduce you points to nothing... like you're lacking in facts so let's attack Dave. No problem thanks again. I still will not block you, because I love a little spice in my life. Thanks!

[nastyb]

@DaveJord

high quality men have no problem getting women. its low quality men who can't get a woman.

[DaveJord]

😆 🤣 😂 You didn't read my opinion of high value men and women? Nasty you honestly have no chance.

[DaveJord]

I have seen all the different types of toxic... your just following the script Nasty

[TheSpaceGnome]

Meh, I'm very emotional, I'm also very logical, and very nonsensical.

1 dimensional people are boring.

[DaveJord]

Dimensional... 😆 🤣 😂

I thinks you're on to something though... its not a bad piont.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeeeeeeeee.

I want a smart emotional weirdo with HUGE knockers and an absurdly adorable voice even when she's angy.

She can solve coding problems while needing hugs and making derpy sounds like a good waifu.

[blueonblack22]

Depends on the woman.

Actually the self absorbed part is true but for evolutionary purposes. There was a time in history had to be selfish and manipulative for their self-preservation.

Now do I think “all” are selfish and self absorbed? Of course not. But when you take a man and woman side by side and everything equal (personality, looks, wealth) the woman will generally be more selfish and not even realize it. It’s subconscious.

[RedInnocent68]

Similar to romance, women aren’t usually applying sensitivity towards men, but too themselves, which is more self-absorbed.

[DaveJord]

Bingo! Nailed it!

[RedInnocent68]

Thanks. I do have my lucid moments 😂

[RealMarek]

I wouldn’t like it if men and women were the same.

[DaveJord]

Me neither! 😆 🤣

[love_conquers_lust]

*bandwidth

Another woman piss you off? Know my pain.

They’re as sensitive as they need to be in the face of a physically violent world. It’s arguably worse on the internet because there are so many liars floating around. They’re usually good at picking up inconsistencies and lies.

It’s better to be honest. That’s not a guarantee they will like you.

[turnpost]

Ummm Depends. You can say the south, is insensitive but make one joke about religion abortion or guns you got yourself a war.

Women are everything same with men.

[MrNameless]

Uhhh.. Each woman is different

Women are generally more sensitive then men. But one can be all three that you mentioned depending on how much they care about some things..

[DaveJord]

True every individual is different... but in general there are truths that apply.

[Anonymous]

Too sensitive. Pretty much all the weird looking girls you see are just too emotional and cracked under the pressure of normal life

[PresidentLucia]

We have strong bullshit allergies.

[DaveJord]

@PresidentLucia 😆 🤣

[Anonymous]

Human mind are complex, it should not be catagorised by genders, The solution is when you realise a woman within yourself. For example if we differ people by religions, Different religions maintaining different rule, similarly with women, they are maintaining what society says about them. It doesn't mean our consciousness are different.

So your question is complex, answer should be gather knowledge, ask why she feels like that, there have to be reason.

[Metallsturm]

They are naturally self-absorbed & insecure at the same time.

[NathanDavis]

women are so much more than just your perceived experience... lol

[jahaims]

Depends on the individual

[DaveJord]

Always but generalities can be applied.

[jahaims]

In general, it depends on the individual.

[Valdemort]

I laughed out loud, thanks 😅

[DaveJord]

@jahaims LoL 😂

[LiamJHayden]

Some, perhaps a majority, perhaps a huge majority, are.

[BigDog1989]

None of these. This is just men hating on women for being women

[Anonymous]

You're too old to be asking these questions

[DaveJord]

Maybe you are 25-29 you should take notice of your elders and listen and learn from their experiences before you try to pass judgment on them for having more life experience then you.

[Opinion Owner]

Stop being so sensitive, old man!

[DaveJord]

😂🤣😂

[FoyLee]

Women are Solipsism!!!

[DaveJord]

I am in agreement with you.

[OddBeMe]

What’s her name?

[DaveJord]

Kim H.

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like a B.

[DaveJord]

Self-absorb... in her 'Busy" life.

[OddBeMe]

They all say that. “Busy”. Self imposed nail and hair regimen, honey!

[DaveJord]

Well this particle person, told me for week how busy she was... was only half repsonsive in text.. agreed to second date would not commit to a day and time... then texts me on Friday that she is going to Tahoe with friends and will not be available to text or call all weekend.

Clearly, I did not assume the worse, but I am not assuming the best and honestly, I am not buying it. Plus, she was 7 years older than me, very pretty and sexy, but not that pretty and sexy. But she was a great kisser, and that is a quality you do not find often.

[OddBeMe]

Yeah there are people (guys and gals) who keep people around as “backups”. I had many “friends” who would ask me for a beer then cancel. It’s toxic.

There are good people who will take the extra step. Don’t get jaded. :)

[DaveJord]

Nope I moved on already with another one... who knows? 🤷