Why do people assume offended or triggering them is the worst thing you can do to them?

[WilliamPamer446]

people think being offended is the worst thing I see beyond that and see things more nuanced people aren't necessarily triggered or offended on small shit or big topic and there's more at stake can't assume when u didn't know context I'm a vry nuance empath guy

I have autism and ADHD and I experience discomfort a lot before

I don't think discomfort is the primary concern in every context

I think social awareness u should consider nuance things like 3 things I am not saying offense and trigger doesn't matter I'm just saying we should stop being petty and soft and ONLy focus on this.

And I'm saying this as someone who's an empath! I feel. peopels emotions very strongly. But coddling petty ppls manipulation of minor im offended and canel culture leads to more people being damaged and virtue signalling.

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Being offended over nothing can lead to people not being able to be themselves or speak there mond according to dumb social rules. people used to be more socially free

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Bullying can arise from people who manipulate n pretend to be offended And uptightness can arise when people assume. offense when there is none

[Anonymous]

there's worse things in the world than hurt feelings

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Dude what the fuck are you talking about

[WilliamPamer446]

I was tired I'm talking about people focus on getting offended and over simplify it and jade the whole social rules thing now and now we can't see nuance so people don't focus on genuine hurt or disrespect

[WilliamPamer446]

That was rude cuz I explained it in the thing I don't know why u guys have a hard time with nuance

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Are you sure the issue is a lack of a nuanced understanding?

[WilliamPamer446]

No I think the issue is people worry about offending people to much walk on eggshells and are damaged or soft

[WilliamPamer446]

Which is controlled opposition & leads to in nuanced social settings

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So… your complaint is that people are too sensitive to the identities of others and that respect leads them to not say things out of fear for hurting someone and you don’t like that, is that it?

[WilliamPamer446]

Wasn't about identities lol I respect people identities. This is about people actually disrespecting people's identities by being TOO sensitive. Because people won't actually be able to be themself more. vits also about personality too.

[WilliamPamer446]

It's about identities and personality to but the main point was just tht we should be less uptight and be less constricted and focus on nuance

[WilliamPamer446]

Nuance and Tone and Context rather than words. Be more creative and resilient.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I am not familiar with this outside of white people policing other white people on what they are or are not sure is racist

[WilliamPamer446]

That's the big part of it but it happens wit a lot of things.

[WilliamPamer446]

And yes your right it is mainly Marxist white people doing this stupid shit

[WilliamPamer446]

It's there fault this happened

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

What exactly is “this” that happened anyway? Did someone who wasn’t black tell you how to be a better black person or smth?

[WilliamPamer446]

This isn't about black people I made a point about white people and it's not all but a lot

[WilliamPamer446]

There is no concept of"being a better black person" there is white people thing we know there culture and white people degenerating there culture into nihilism and soft sjwism

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

We’re still talking about this? I completely forgot this question existed. I’m surprised you’re still hung up on it after a week

[WilliamPamer446]

This is why i like black girls better

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

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