What should you do when you offend someone without meaning to?

[stratford]

Either becuase of a misunderstanding, or because you didn't realise something.

Do you find it hard to just say 'I'm sorry'?

[Amara_09]

Lol, I have not heard the word sorry in my household for years.


Personally, if I am wrong. I say it. Like I am not embarrassed to admit my wrongs. However, sometimes I would be surprised to hear it from someone because I am not used to hearing the word “sorry” even “ I love you” or “ I care about you” or “ I miss you”

[stratford]

If I know I'm wrong (which is very often), I have no issue admitting it or apologising, but when someone blocks or blanks you before you get to do that, it's hard to take!

[Amara_09]

Take what? the apology?

[stratford]

I mean they stay cross, and you don't get a chance to make ammends. It's really upsetting, especially when offence wasn't intended.

[Amara_09]

They stay cross because you fucked up. I don’t believe in apologies sometimes, for some reason it does not suit everyone……. and it also depends on who it is.

If you are a bad person , you do not get a chance to make amends with anyone because you don’t deserve to get a chance.

[stratford]

Would say that is the case in every situation? And in mine, you don't even know what happened? Or do you?

[Hawkes_Lady]

I seem to always be apologizing for something all the time. It seems I have a big mouth and usually don't know when to shut it, so yeah... I would just apologize whether it was my fault or not.

[mobiusforniner]

If you recognize your behavior as wrong, owning it and apologizing is the only real way to make the relationship work. It’s the first step to being a adult

[NathanDavis]

I just say sorry or apologize

and clear the misunderstanding, and that's all... no big deal

[Demonatrix]

Apologies can be difficult to make. However if you want or need that person in your life then you will find a way to make amends and move on.

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll explain myself a million different ways before i say im sorry if i feel i have nothing to be sorry for

[mandyfire98]

Just say you are sorry and never intended to offend.

[Anonymous]

I would just say sorry, I didn’t mean to offend you, if they deserve my sorry! And if not


(I’ll say sorry that I forgot that I have zero fuck left.)

[Raeannox]

I’m big on reflecting on your own behaviour. So I always apologise as a means to work on myself 🤍

[IslaTheWitch]

No. I say that I'm sorry when I fucked up. Or when I know I could do better

[Tharithi]

Why did u do it

[BadApple69]

I don’t know. I always offend people on purpose!

[Anonymous]

Yes, but I do it.

[riverrat3]

Admit you were in the wrong

[CubaPirate]

Apologise