Does this mean I'm gay?

[Anonymous]

Until now I've never felt attracted to men, but at the same time despite my age I've never had a girlfriend. Sorry for m'y bad English

And for the first time, I found a handsome man, I mean, I felt attracted to him.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, are you still attracted to women? Sexual orientation isn't about whether you've dated, but what you're aroused by. Logically speaking, sexuality WOULD be a spectrum, and if you have some lesser level of attraction to men (even just SOME men), then you're not absolutely heterosexual. That's okay. On the surface, that would suggest bisexuality, but if it's a minor thing- if you've never felt this before, and it's only toward one guy- then it's obvious not a 50/50 thing, and it seems kind of silly to have no delineation points beyond the absolutes.

So no, you're probably not gay; just not perfectly straight.

[Bubbatech24065]

A relationship is mostly nonsexual, the day to day experience of a relationship is everything that we do together in a loving bond, sex is just a small part of the total experience, in a day you work, eat, sleep, do things together, and a little bit of Time in sexual encounters. A relationship should never be built on sex, because it is a minor role in a normal relationship. Because we are constantly focusing on our own survival, and everything we need to do to survive, food, shelter, clothes, career, family, education. Intimate moments are cherished, because they are sometimes hard to fit in the busyness of life.

[petitedollbabee]

Well that depends on whether it was sexual attraction or just aesthetic attraction. You can admire someone’s personality and looks without actually being sexually attracted to them. You could be bisexual too.

[bobalife]

Not enough context lol. But you’re in the questioning phase, it can be anything (bi; pan; gay; etc) depending on context.

[justme444]

Possibly but if so that's ok. You're still human and deserve love and happiness regardless of who you love.

[Richarding]

No, what's the connection, but you might be bisexual.

[thearchjoker]

Its possible

[gorydetails]

yup. Gay