Why do people say this?

[Anonymous]

I noticed a lot when a woman is more into herself like having a career, people right away assume she is “broken” or “alone”. For example, my parents used to bug me a lot about dating and each time i would tell them that im focused on myself and my career, they both would tell me that I shouldn’t close myself off, etc. They finally stopped awhile ago after i made my point but I do see this happen a lot in society, and just today a male friend of mine asked me if im dating anyone and i said no and that im doing me and focusing on my future etc. He replied and of course said “dude don’t close yourself off you don’t have to be alone” like huh? Alone? I have my parents, i have a bunch of good friends that i have kept since childhood. I don’t base my emotional state on other people or relationships. What is up with this thinking that if someone is focusing on themselves, they are “alone”? There is also a difference in being alone, and actually feeling lonely. My therapist explained to me.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

hey, i hear you sister! if im perfectly honest im most content when im single... I've heard the sentence about ltr.. oh well you have to get through the bad bits, thats what its all about... well my belief is NO actually, i would rather be single and i know now its best for me for sure...

[Asker]

Same!

[Asker]

And people leave! Divorce happens all the time!

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

I had a conversation with 21yr d. s and 18yr d. d yesterday, explaining with regard to society/relationships... how my mothers era, they married, some forced because of pregnancy.. and didn't spilt up or divorce, next gen free to do so, however, its a shit storm out there.. and personally i keep the fuck away from all of it... i actually enjoy this site the most.. genuine stuff, not males dribbling behind a p. c hoping for a text sex act! lol back to generations,, and mine say now, no children, why would you on earth bring a child into this, let alone whats coming... awesome.. can't fault that.. i have not an ounce of.. oh no grandchildren etc... im happy for that.. means i keep the freedom im gradually gaining... anyways i said to them.. get a german shepherd, thats what we have always had, puppies the lot... get a camper and fuck off and be free... oddly enough.. my in progress plan is with my ex husband from 18yr... friends since 11... create a retreat abroad with vibes so cool and souls who visit with knowledge to teach and share... eco living... when you have shelter, power, water, fire, land for agriculture and animals... then... then... you do not need to spend the highest percentage of your every waking moment working to make money to pay for the bills that are exempt as above... my offspring are righteous.. the new world order 1919... in one hundred and five years... they have built this realm of illusion... be anything but what they are projecting to you... we do live in a prison... and it is the RED PILL and ALICE IN WONDERLAND this started with relationships and expectations... and finishes here... we are in a matrix to damn well do what we please!!! lets have a Hell yeah ladies!!! xx

[Noodle_fan]

Because they are stupid i guess

It is 2024 , not 1950 anymore , career and job are pretty much important to everyone , not just men

People? They will come and leave from ur life as the time goes on , but things like ur job or career , they will pretty much stick with you until u die.

[Asker]

EXACTLY

[Asker]

THATS WHY I KEEP SAYING PEOPLE COME AND GO DIVORCE HAPPENS ALL THE TIME PEOPLE LEAVE.

[Asker]

Why does society rely on marriage and another person so much for stability and emotional happiness? Its fucking weird honestly

[Anonymous]

I think having a family should be more important for a woman than having a career. Generally, leftists do not think like me. Choose your side by voting in this poll.

Election poll ! Who do you think should be president? ?

[Asker]

I think being stable within myself is the most important thing. Having a career is important. Relying on others for stability is weird and i have no desire for kids either

[Opinion Owner]

I'm afraid that people who think like you are in the minority according to the survey results.

[Asker]

Im afraid that its my opinion

[Asker]

The choice of having a family or not shouldn’t be related to politics. Its a choice to have kids

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I guess you're right but when you get older people say I wish I had kids and a family and I wish I wasn't alone.

[Asker]

Thats some people. Not everyone and having kids just to not be alone when older is a very very selfish reason. Kids are a ginormous responsibility and investment. It requires self sacrifice and an internal burning desire

[NathanDavis]

most of the women I know, with a career... are married as well

[gatixek710]

Ultimately a relationship and a family will be more fulfilling than a career.

[Asker]

Not always. So many families and marriages are a shit show lol

[Asker]

I would never base my emotional status on another person or on a marriage. People leave all the time. Divorce happens. Im also not interested in children

[gatixek710]

Not if you pick well. And do you think your boss wouldn’t replace you in an instant?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 and you don’t think your spouse can do the same?

[Asker]

@gatixek you can’t tell the future or see how someone will turn out in the future.

[gatixek710]

Your spouse has an infinitely greater interest in staying with you than a boss.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 again, divorce happens all the time. People leave. People have affairs and cheat in marriages with kids ALL THE TIME. In some marriages the mom is stuck taking the sole responsibility while the dad has lack of interest.

[Asker]

You cannot determine the future or how things will turn out. I do not rely on other people for financial stability or emotional support. Thats wild.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 oh and about the job? I can find another fucking job🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣thats why i have a degree and a license. Its common knowledge

[Asker]

You need money and a career to survive in life.

[gatixek710]

For someone so confident and secure in her decisions in life, you’re really trying hard to justify it.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 justify? I asked a question to understand why people think the way they think.

[gatixek710]

How many replies have you given vs. me?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 what is so wrong about women choosing to have careers over a family? A career is important. It IS what keeps you afloat and you cannot rely on other people for stability

[Asker]

Im trying to make you understand how life works

[gatixek710]

I explained it completely and succinctly. Having a family and children will ultimately be more fulfilling than a career. Anyone who tells you they are comparable is lying to you.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 again, not all marriages are good. Not everyone likes kids.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 marriages can fail. People leave. People can have affairs

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you can’t tell the future

[gatixek710]

I’m telling you the truth. You can ignore it at your peril.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 no you are not telling me anything. You are telling me an opinion. I am telling you the truth, that not all marriages are happy. People leave. Divorce happens all the time. Marriages can be dysfunctional. There are many families that are a shit show you are not understanding that. There are also married couples with kids and the mom is a “single” mom in her own marriage taking on most of the responsibility and the dad barely helps. Happens a lot. There are also incidents where one of the spouses decides to up and abandon their partner to be stuck with their offspring to never be heard from again. What about those affairs that occur in marriages unbeknownst to the wife/husband? What about the abusive marriages? Not everything is perfect in life

[Asker]

@gatixek710 open your eyes to how the world is

[Asker]

I also don’t want the baggage of a child if my husband left me.

[gatixek710]

It shows how bad the propaganda warped your brain that you’d call your child “baggage”.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 propaganda? Its all facts.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 anything can become baggage…..

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i mean i have never really been a maternal person anyway or had much of the desire to have a child. 🤷🏼‍♀️id rather have some dogs, cats, horses, farm animals, etc.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 why are you in denial of marriages being shitty and people leaving? Not everyone stays.

[gatixek710]

You’re trying so hard to convince yourself, lol.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im just responding to you. You continue to respond as well. Not trying to convince anyone😂i know exactly what i like and what i don’t like. You don’t know me. All i did was made a question asking WHY people constantly judge other people for choosing a different path in life. Simple as that.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 again why do you think children and a marriage is the source to happiness? Plenty of people are married with kids and they are not happy. Divorce happens all the time. People leave. What are you not getting or understanding about this? Its FACTS. Like bro. Open your eyes to all the single moms and dads out there. Look at the divorce rate statistics.

[gatixek710]

I’m not judging, I feel sorry for you.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you feel sorry for me because i have a different opinion and different likes and priorities in life? Thats odd. I feel sorry for you that you aren’t open minded to other people’s thoughts, opinions, and to how life works. Nothing is sunshine and butterflies in this world… open your eyes. Be realistic

[Asker]

@gatixek710 if anything im being realistic and you are brainwashed by society into believing everyone must do the same thing and fit into the same exact lifestyle. Its very odd

[Asker]

There are also people who have kids and regret them. There are people who have kids and abuse them. Not everyone should even have kids

[gatixek710]

No, I’m not brainwashed for following our biological imperative, lol. Nice try, though.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you are since you have this belief that the only way to a fulfilling life is through marriage and having kids. That’s backwards thinking and again, marriage doesn’t guarantee happiness and not everyone likes kids

[Asker]

@gatixek710 its 2024, we have other priorities and goals other than just reproducing like mindless animals….

[Asker]

@gatixek710 oh well popping out someones babies isn't my goal in life

[Asker]

@gatixek710 many people are married and are miserable

[Asker]

@gatixek710 what about the divorce rates and statistics?

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee yes, your other priorities and goals are thinking of your selfish needs and being a wage slave. It's a narcissistic, nihilistic world view and one of the biggest problems with society.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 how is is selfish to want to do my own thing? How is it selfish to not want kids and have no interest in that lifestyle? How is it selfish that im focused on my future?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 so you prefer me to live off a man? Everyone needs to work and everyone needs a career.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 so i should live my life slaving away as a servant for a man and his spawn? at least at work im making money and i can come home to peace and quiet and not have to clean up after others and constantly be on my feet caring for their needs…….

[gatixek710]

Id prefer you find a man who will provide for you and your children and you provide a stable, loving environment for your husband and children to thrive.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 sorry but marriage isn’t the top thing on my mind and definitely kids are not my interest.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i don’t like children

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i don’t want to be a trad wife and take care of kids and solely rely on a man for stability.

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee your living your life slaving away for a shitty corporation that will literally replace you in a day after you leave. Or worse yet, not realize you died at your cubicle for 4 days.

[Asker]

If i ever do get married kids will certainly not be involved

[Asker]

@gatixek710 and you don’t think people leave? You don’t think divorce happens? You are dumb sir i keep saying this.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 people leave. Not everyone stays. I can always find a new job. Its why i have a degree sir. Did you forget that?

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee yes, you've established you are a nihilist. I feel pity for you.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im repeating myself because you don’t get it. Very sad you are close minded and brainwashed by society

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i feel pity for you that you aren’t open minded to someone else’s opinions. Very sad…..

[gatixek710]

You mean the society that has created wonders that people 10,000 years ago could never conceptualize?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im not anything. Im a regular human being who is honest with her thoughts and feelings. Marriage and having kids is not important to me. Sorry. But being stable within myself is important:)

[Asker]

@gatixek710 times have changed it is 2024. People realized there are more things to life than just getting married and popping out babies……

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee yes, you've made it crystal clear that you bought the bill of lies being fed to you by feminists.

[Asker]

Good bye sir

[gatixek710]

People have been suckered into being wage slaves.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 sir. I wasn't fed lies. Im saying how i feel and i don’t like kids. I don’t like babies. I don’t want to be around them or take care of them. I have no patience for them. I am not motherly. I don’t want to experience pregnancy nor give birth. I don’t want to change diapers or clean up after them. I don’t want someone glued at my hip constantly. I like peace and quiet, i like animals more. I like not having to spend my money on another person. I enjoy my sleep. I enjoy my freedom. I enjoy a clean house. I enjoy no noise. I enjoy being able to leave whenever i want without dragging someone with me.

[Asker]

I don’t like kids

[Asker]

Marriages don’t always last

[Asker]

People leave too.

[gatixek710]

I know. You're a narcissist. We've discovered that already.

[Asker]

I can always find a new job. Its why i have a degree

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you can’t label someone a narcissist just because for their opinions and thoughts. Im not a narcissist for not wanting or liking children. A narcissist is someone who uses people. You are also not a psychologist to diagnose anyone.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im sorry you are so close minded

[Asker]

Did you know narcissists have kids too? Which produces more narcissists. Thats how narcissists are created… many bad people have kids sir.

[Asker]

@gatixel710 having kids doesn’t mean shit. 13 year olds have kids. Pedos have kids… serial killers have kids too. So?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 many people have kids and abuse them too.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 do you want me to have a child and neglect it?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 narcissistic people have kids too!!!

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you are truly delusional to how the world actually is… very sad you are so close minded bruh

[Asker]

My ex has a child and is a diagnosed narcissist with BPD…….

[Asker]

@gatixek710 if you think no mentally ill person has children you are dead ass wrong. I have a friend who is an alcoholic and she has a kid and the dad has full custody. Not everyone who has kids are responsible or good parents

[Asker]

@gatixek710 so keep going how im a narcissist for not wanting a child🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Fuck them kids🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

A child is a forever tie to someone else…

[Asker]

A child is something you sign up for with no subscription. Having a child with someone is a forever tie to that person. Ewwwww

[Asker]

@gatixek710 a husband sounds nice without the constraints of a child or children:) a childless marriage sounds great cuz then its all about you two! Nothing in the middle disturbing y'all!

[gatixek710]

I already know you're selfish. You don't have to keep selling it.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 again why am i selfish?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 not wanting children isn’t selfish. Not wanting to make marriage my main priority isn’t selfish. Like what drugs are you taking? Not everyone has to follow the same path or have the same lifestyle. What do you not get or understand about that? Are you actually this dense? Did you forget children are a choice and not everyone has the interest in taking care of them?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 do you not understand that people have different interests and likes, dislikes, goals and priorities in life?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 it doesn’t make me selfish. What would make me selfish is to have a kid I don’t truly want nor desire just cuz of society pressure. Im open to marriage and a husband without the child part like I said.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 but once again i will say again marriage is not my top priority or goal in life. That doesn’t make me selfish my guy. You have backwards thinking

[gatixek710]

Again, you're replying 5 times to every one of my replies. You're trying awfully hard to convince yourself you're making the right decision.

[Asker]

@gatixel710 you don’t have to respond and im repeating myself because you keep repeating yourself to me.

[Asker]

@gatixel710 you are trying awfully hard to convince me to do something I don’t want to do.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 ^^^^

[Asker]

@gatixek710 do u want me to put myself into a situation where i will be miserable?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 do you want me to have a child and not love it?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 cuz that will happen if u try to force people who don’t want kids or to get married to get married and have kids.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 u are the one who keeps arguing with someone with different opinions and thoughts….. just stop bruh. Im only responding cuz you keep responding. Im repeating myself cuz you are repeating yourself. I will just block you if you won’t be open minded to someone else’s opinion or thoughts.

[gatixek710]

you are responding 6:1 because you’re trying to convince yourself you’re right.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 nope. Im repeating myself to you because you don’t fucking get it. You are so close minded you cannot accept that someone has a different opinion or perspective. Seriously man. Its life. Not everyone wants to follow the same fucking lifestyle or path in life. What are you not getting? You just keep calling me names. Grow up. Good fucking bye.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i am right. Kids are a fucking choice in life not a fucking requirement. Neither is marriage. They are choices in life. Those are not my goals or priorities in life. Its not a big deal. My main priority is being able to take care of myself without relying on a man or marriage. What the fuck don’t you understand old man? You are stuck in the 1950s. Pull your head out of your ass.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 last thing im gonna explain to you. People like you are fucking annoying when you try to tell other people how they should live. Its really fucking weird. Worry about your own life sir.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 one more time about marriage and career
People leave, divorce happens. Not everyone will stay.
at least i can find a new job. That is the importance of having education and a degree. I can always find a new job, somewhere new to work. Womp womp i get fired? On to a new job.
The divorce rates are high. People leave. You don’t think your spouse could be having an affair behind your back?
You don’t think your spouse could divorce you or up and leave you? It happens all the time bruh.
I don’t rely on other people for stability.
This is called maturity and being independent not DEPENDENT.
Also about the kid thing i have no interest nor a desire. Not everyone does. Doesn’t make me “selfish”.
If someone doesn’t like sports would you still force them to play a sport? No. So why force people who aren’t very maternal to still have kids?
Also another thing i want to make clear to you. Bad people have kids. You called me a narcissist for not wanting a child. Did you know many children are a result of narcissists? Narcissists are a result of their parents and how they are raised.
Did you know pedophiles have kids too and abuse their children?
Did you know people in general have kids and abuse and neglect them?
So news flash buddy, having a child doesn’t mean shit.
Drunks and drug addicts have children.
Have you heard the stories about some mothers selling their babies to get high? Yep. It happens.
So why are you insulting me, calling me a bad person for not wanting children for personal reasons, yet many many irresponsible, bad people are having kids? Why don’t you go talk to them? Please. You are not using logic here, I AM. Kindly read this and fuck off.

[gatixek710]

I’m calling you misguided.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you literally said im a selfish narcissist for not wanting to have kids and for not making marriage my property. Im not misguided at all. I have my own thoughts and opinions. You are close minded, not realizing that everyone is different in life, and has different likes/dislikes, interests, priorities, etc. Its close minded to want everyone to follow the same exact path and lifestyle in life. You are not open to that. You also don’t realize that marriages are not always positive. Many people are married and are miserable i kept stating that. I also kept stating that divorce rates are high and people leave. You deny that. I also stated that kids are a big responsibility and they require a lot. Its a huge decision to be taken not lightly. Its not have a kid and see if you like it or not. You have to feel like internal burning desire to have them. You must be ready to dedicate your entire life to them and be ready to put aside your own mental health. You need to understand what it takes to actually raise a child. If anything im being responsible by refraining from taking on such a responsibility that i have no desire towards.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 it’s literally not being misguided at all. When it comes to marriage and kids you must be aware of all the negative possibilities and outcomes that can come with both of those things.. its being aware and not jumping into something without being ready or even wanting it truly.

[gatixek710]

You really are trying to convince yourself more than me.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 thats all you can say. Sad. I keep giving logical points yet all you can do is repeat yourself. Good bye

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you are the one who commented in the first place. I just responded. You keep responding. Im trying to make my point because you don’t get it for some fucking reason. Like i said worry about your own life. Not others.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 if anything you keep trying to convince me that having kids and getting married is fulfilling. I think you are trying to convince yourself because now you are trapped in a loveless marriage, no sex, and stuck with obnoxious sticky kids.

[Asker]

@gatixel710 so maybe you are the one trying to convince a stranger of a lifestyle that sucks but you are trapped in it so you want other people to be miserable so you feel better about your decision. I love being free. Sorry you aren’t lol.

[gatixek710]

You took 4 more replies to try to convince yourself you’re right, lol. You are a sad, lonely girl.

[Asker]

Im trying to make my point because you old ass boomer doesn’t get it🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Im sad? Im so happy. I have a career. I make money. I have great friends. I have good parents. I live in a great area. Why would i be sad? Because im not slaving away for a man and his spawn?

[gatixek710]

Oh, I get you’re trying to make yourself feel better. Much like the fox who convinced himself the grapes he couldn’t reach were likely sour.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i see you are trying so hard to make yourself feel better about your decision in life so you are trying to make a stranger also make the same decision because you are depressed

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee is your boss a man?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 why are you trying to convince me so badly that kids and marriage is fulfilling? Why don’t you worry about your own life? Why are you concerned about if i have happiness or not? You seem obsessed with me and my life

[Asker]

@gatixek710 my boss is a woman:)

[Asker]

@gatixek710 why do you want me to get married and have kids so badly? Why are you so obsessed with my life?

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee how sour are those grapes?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 how sticky are those kids?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 not everyone who is married with kids are happy. What don’t you understand? I have said this several times. You are so close minded its so sad you are weak. You depend on other people for happiness. I don’t. Im strong. Sucks to be you!

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee My kids are awesome. They’re successful young adults and idolize me. Every day i get to experience something you will never have…unconditional love.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 imagine being so weak in life that your only way to happiness is by relying on other people. Thats fucking sad man. Actually sad

[Asker]

@gatizek710 not all kids love their parents my guy and not all parents love their kids. NEXT TRY AGAIN

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im sorry that you were sad and the only way to happiness was by reproducing and getting married. That sucks! I found true happiness within myself and being in peace. Peace of mind is true happiness :)

[gatixek710]

@Brittanyroseee I get it, you’re a 4 on a good day, so you have to pretend you’re a girl boss who don’t need no man. Lonely sour-grapes cat ladies are rarely happy.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i get it, you want to keep trying to convince a stranger of a lifestyle that they don’t want.

[gatixek710]

*can’t get

[Asker]

@gatixek710 oh didn’t i also state i am open to marriage without the kid part? Yeah exactly i did mention that 2 times actually. But i however did say marriage is still not a huge priority of mine:) also cats are more cute than babies and kids. I like cats more! Cute, soft, furry. Not loud, gross, they don’t shit themselves. Yep. Dogs are better too.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you are very concerned about my life. Its very easy to get a man. I choose not to because my life is more important

[Asker]

@gatixek710 worry about your own life:)

[Asker]

@gatixek710 yep im a girl boss. I don’t want to rely on a man who can leave me🤣what the fuck are you not understanding

[Asker]

You don’t like that i have different opinions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[gatixek710]

You aren’t a girl boss. By any means. You’re an easily replaceable cog.

[Asker]

@gatizek710 we are all irreplaceable. So are you. Your wife can divorce you at anytime she wants.

[gatixek710]

She can, but she won’t. That’s the difference.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 and you don’t think people leave? at least i can find a new job. My husband could leave me a single mom stuck with his offspring 😂id kill myself in that case. I already do not see myself staying home taking care of a baby/child.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 great for you!!! Thats your wife!!! You don’t know anyone else’s future or how their marriage will work out! You are dense!!!

[gatixek710]

I know, you’ve not had success at relationships., so you’ve convinced yourself that you’re important to your boss. It’s so blatantly obvious.

[Asker]

@gatizek710 i had a boyfriend of 6 years. Nice try!

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you are so concerned about who loves me in my life! Thats wild!

[Asker]

@gatixek710 why are you so obsessed about my life and who cares about me?

[gatixek710]

Key word, “had”.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 yep! Good thing he is gone! He was abusive! Its easy to get a new one! Many guys are desperate you don’t understand that🤣

[Asker]

@gatixek710 ugh why are you so obsessed with me?

[gatixek710]

So you’re bad at picking men.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you are literally so obsessed with my life and what goes on in it 😂

[Asker]

@gatixek710 sometimes men don’t show their true colors until way later! Sometimes they don’t even show it until late into marriage!

[gatixek710]

It’s funny how you are trying to spin this conversation. You’re a sad, lonely girl trying to prove to everyone how tough you are.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 like i said im open to marriage just not kids!:)

[Asker]

@gatixek710 its sad how you are trying to convince me to do something i dont want to do!!! You are trying so hard to convince a stranger on the internet what to do in life:) weird! But ok!

[gatixek710]

Here’s a quick hint. No guy wants a girl who is as self-obsessed as you are.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im sad and lonely? How? Because i don’t have kids and im not married? But many people are married with kids and are unhappy!

[Asker]

@gatixek710 many guys are self obsessed too!:) hope that helps!

[gatixek710]

Are you trying to convince me or yourself?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 all i said is that kids aren’t my interest and that i don’t like them and that marriage isn’t my top priority but i am open to it one day but being able to care for myself is more important and you kept going at this argument. Im done. This is going in circles. You are close minded. Have a good life!

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i will say it again. You are the one who keeps trying to convince me. Kindly fuck off now.

[gatixek710]

Lol, maybe some day you’ll convince yourself.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 maybe one day you will stay in your lane. Hopefully

[Asker]

Good bye!

[gatixek710]

And I’ll say it again. If you believed your own bullshit you wouldn’t need to reply so much.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i will say it again. You commented first. You keep responding. Im replying so much because you are not getting it and you keep repeating yourself without listening and having an open mind. Once again good bye and stay in your own lane. Worry about your own life.

[gatixek710]

5 replies to 1.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 have a wonderful night sir!:)

[Asker]

5 replies? That was 1 response to 1. Nice try!

[gatixek710]

2 to 1

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i think this is entertaining for you!

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you choose to keep responding you know🤣

[Asker]

@gatixek710 don’t you have a wife to satisfy? Why are you on this app arguing with a young female? A bit odd honestly. Do you not have a life?

[gatixek710]

6 to one this time.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 wild that im more entertaining than your own wife🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

@gatixek710 does your sex life suck so bad that you come onto this app to have some sort of female interaction?

[gatixek710]

Ah, now it’s becoming clear.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 im genuinely concerned as to why you are spending this much time responding to a female on the internet when you have a wife……………………

[gatixek710]

lol, you’re trying all the tricks in the book, aren’t you.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 like its so weird you keep arguing with me. Either you are finding this entertaining because you are bored or you just can’t accept other people’s opinions like, a normal person would just stop responding but you keep replying its why i am repeating myself. You could have dropped it or stop responding but i truly do think you find this entertaining

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you should be paying attention to your wife instead of arguing online with strange females. Especially late at night, it’s concerning and odd.

[gatixek710]

And you somehow have to reply back every time to convince yourself how happy you are.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 because this is my post. You keep commenting on my post.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 you keep trying to convince me of something that only you can have an opinion towards. Plenty of people are married and have kids and aren’t happy. I said this.

[gatixek710]

2 more replies and you’re sure to be happy.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 again, why are you wasting your life arguing online when you have a wife?

[gatixek710]

4 more replies?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 are you bored in your marriage and life that you find entertainment in arguments with young women on the internet?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 why aren’t you spending this time with your wife? Why are you continuing to respond to me? Do you find this entertaining?

[Asker]

I think you are truly bored lol

[Asker]

Maybe your wife doesn’t satisfy your needs enough

[gatixek710]

It is very interesting to examine the behaviors of a vapid woman trying so hard to be a grownup.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 its so odd you are trying to convince me of a lifestyle that doesn’t seem that great anyway🤣

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i am a grown up😂just because i don’t want kids or to get married doesn’t make me not a “grown up” the fuck?🤣you are wild bruh. Wild thinking you have

[gatixek710]

Not as odd as you trying to pretend your personal failures are everyone’s failures.

[Asker]

Im literally 26 years of age

[Asker]

@gatixek710 oh so you want to say im a failure? Why? Can you elaborate?

[gatixek710]

You’re desperately trying to convince yourself relationships aren’t worthwhile because you can’t get one. As I’ve said. Sour grapes.

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i have failures? How? I have a career, i make my own money. Im not homeless, i am independent. I have a clean record. Never been to jail. I don’t use drugs so how am i a failure exactly? How? That is such a rude thing to honestly say to someone. You took this low man for someone who has kids and is married

[Asker]

@gatixek710 like i said i can easily get a man or a relationship. I choose not to. What is the issue here? A relationship isn’t everything in life. Having kids isn’t everything in life. Maybe to you, but there are people who have those things and are fucking miserable. I have stated this several fucking times but you are damn slow to understand it. Good fucking bye once and for all.

[gatixek710]

Can you though? Was your dad in your life?

[Asker]

@gatixek710 um my father raised me. I have a stepmother. Nice try once again with the life shit. Just because i don’t want kids or to get married doesn’t mean anything negative.

[Asker]

I also stated several times im open to marriage one day without kids being involved……… but again marriage is not a priority of mine. I guess you don’t read anything i say. Good bye!

[gatixek710]

Interesting

[Asker]

@gatixek710 i made my point. Have a wonderful night sir!

[gatixek710]

Tell your cat I said “psp psp psp”

[Asker]

@gatixek710 tell your wife i said hi😘

[Anonymous]

Empty vessels make the most noise.

[Asker]

Ew what is that supposed to mean?

[Asker]

Ew if you only view a woman’s purpose to pop out babies that’s disgusting

[Opinion Owner]

The empty vessels are the people stopping you from living your life

[Asker]

OH HAHAHAHA I've SEEN OTHER PEOPLE SAY THAT WOMEN ARE EMPTY VESSELS WITHOUT KIDS SO I WAS LIKE WAIT WHAAAAAT