Guys of GAG, Say you're married, and your wife forced you to live in a dead bedroom, What would you do?

[Anonymous]

I have a close friend of mine who spent a year cataloging the reasons his wife use to reject him. Out of 365 days, They were intimate only 4 times. At the end of the year he presented her with the spreadsheet of the 361 excuses she used to reject him and then divorce papers. This was about 5 years ago and he is with someone better.

Honestly if you're forcing your husband to live in a dead bedroom (defined as sex less than once per month), just divorce him so he can find someone who actually wants him. Rejection is fine, Constant rejection is psychological abuse, especially if there is no medical reason for it.

And before some bitch feminist spews her idiotic what about isms. He was a loving husband, He took care of the kids when he was home in the evenings, He cooked, He cleaned, He did everything he could to remove her stress. Spent THOUSANDS of dollars to take her out, to go on vacations, to make her life exciting. there were ZERO medical issues, ZERO psychological issues. Post divorce he has full custody of the children, and he basically retained possession of everything.

What would you do Guys? Would you stay married to someone who was constantly rejecting you?

[hahahmm]

I would want to know why it's happening. Is she cheating? Does she have a hormone issue? And if she's not interested in fixing things that's a big problem. I wouldn't let something like that go a year without talking about it tho. Normally I don't support open marriage at all but if she was totally unable to have sex, she better be approving my application to get a hot girlfriend. Just like if I was totally messed up, I would not force her to live like that. That said.. a lot of you are way too eager to drop kick your spouses. Ha.

[Anonymous]

I would do what he did. There are only so many excuses a woman can make before a man has to say enough is enough. Life is short, and you can only expect a man to waste his life away on a loveless marriage for so long before he has to cut her loose.

Having said that, women file 80% of divorces, and the #1 reason for divorce is lack of commitment. Take that for what it's worth.

[Anonymous]

As a woman and from wives hear this about the husband too. I'd say loss of sex drive is a big motivation and sex killer!

Hormones change and after kids it's so hard to want to. But then the romance does as does dating.

If they won't fix them not wanting to which is often medical and mental then divorce or open marriage.

[exitseven]

I do not know. I took the till death do us part thing pretty seriously.