Does the feminine balance humanity or hold it back?

[Anonymous]

men are naturally only concerned with beauty. then they learn to prioritize money because that's their only hope at reproducing. you see this in the red pill space. they talk all day long about beautiful women and yet when they talk about themselves, suddenly the only thing that matters is "game" and "money"

balance

hold it back

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The red pill argument shatters completely when you’re made to acknowledge the existence of ugly, unattractive women.

[Anonymous]

What is the feminine?

[Asker]

they are guided by fear, distrust, and safety more than honor, excellence and meaning

[Opinion Owner]

What does that even mean, practically? What is a real human situation where you can see that difference play out?

[Asker]

it plays out everywhere.

[Asker]

and it's not my job to make a general truth seem practical

[Opinion Owner]

Where? For example if someone is looking for a job and has a choice between a better paying job with more benefits, or a job in a field they specialize in and are passionate about. How would that person choose differently if they are feminine vs masculine? It is not at all clear based on just abstract ideas you have said so far.

[Asker]

most women would pick the prestigious low paying job. but not if it meant being so poor they'd be in danger. most men would pick the high paying job no matter what. but that ultimately goes back to learning to prioritize the feminine. men don't care about money, they want it to attract women.

[Opinion Owner]

What about the feminine makes you pick the low paying job? That seems like complete opposite of prioritizing fear, distrust, and safety. I thought with that example the woman would pick the job that would be safer and provide more security, and the man would pick the job with more meaning and excellence for him. There must be something I'm missing about this...