Are incels right about chads?

[Anonymous]

I see regular people using the term now to describe desirable people.

Does this mean incels are right about them being undesirable losers, their issue is that they should either shut up about it and accept it, or conform to social norms and become a chad, but instead they choose to rage?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why are you asking women rather than other men? Women aren’t incels, and while there’s definitely a conversation to be had about how patriarchal society pressures men to lose their virginity quickly, their entire argument falls apart when made to acknowledge the existence of ugly women.

[Asker]

Because of I open the question to men, the incels and trolls will flood in and it'll be a mess.

This is less likely with women although there are still plenty of trolls or assholes. Women have a more nuanced and complete outlook on these things than men do.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s really sad that you think every man commenting on anything is an objective idiot. Women are just conscientious.

[msmissydc]

Being an incel is a selffulfilling prophecy. Thats the funny thing. The moment you get into that incel talk and redpill stuff you become undesirable, even if it wouldn't have been the case beforehand.
That doesn't automatically make others desirable though. So no they are not right aboht the "chad" type, rather their own demise.

[Asker]

They say that society and women want chads and that themselves (the incels) are undesirable and will die alone.

Aren't they right about that? I don't want to be with incels and most of the world doesn't.

[msmissydc]

Yes they will die alone, but it's because they are incels. There is no such thing as chads in real life though. At least not in the capacity that incels think.

[Asker]

Chads are people with relationships and people who aren't incels.

[msmissydc]

Wait everyone in a relationspip is a chad? Ok wow. Incels are more than just people not in a relationship.

[Asker]

The way Chad is used to today on society, a Chad is anyone that people compliment.

All over social media you can see that the term Chad is used as a compliment. Chads are people that are respected and demonstrate good personalities, which would be desirable people for relationships by extension. No one wants to date people with bad personalities, makes those people incels.

[Asker]

Sure some people are chads but are single but that's because they enjoy that, they're still desirable. Single people who don't want to be, are incels

[Asker]

So basically Chad = people who CAN be in relationships, which is a result of being a good person.

Incel = people with no romantic or sexual opinions, which is a result of being a bad person

[Lilizabeth]

Incels art the Flibbertigibbet's toys, alas those folk