Is it weird that I've gotten so good a judging people that I can already tell what they think of me withotu them saying anything?

[blondfrog]

Like they can just look at me or talk to me in a certain way and I'll already know how they feel about me.

[Syntosi]

Have you? I find people who thinks this are usually those that understand people the least. Not because they necessarily might be bad at judging people inherently but because they are so sure about their own conclusions that they forget that they could be wrong.

You could take any number of people famous for reading others such as Donald Trump and see how they slip further and further away from understanding what people actually think at roughly the same rate as they think that they are getting the hang of things.

[blondfrog]

Generally I would agree and I am not confident in a lot of things but I am confident about this one. Reasons I have to believe this is cause I would here from someone else that this person spread a false rumor about me or I'd here back from someone else that they would talk badly about me. And initially I would get that vibe from them weather it was how they looked at me, their body language, or how they would talk to me. For example they would act condescending towards me.

[Syntosi]

Do you have a diagnosis such as autism perchance? Just a guess.

[blondfrog]

That was kind of left field. Where did you draw that conclusion? lol

[Syntosi]

Normally people have an instinctual ability to read people based on their social cues and such things which usually means they dont put that much thought or meaning into it. Its more a fact of life.

You on the other hand appear to take a more methodical approach to reading people. Less of an innate ability and more of a refined skill so to speak. This is a fairly common behavior among people that has some sort of disorder that impacts their ability to naturally read people. Be it because they lack empathy such as sociopaths or has difficulties with social interactions like autism.

Basically you are coming across like someone who studied for an exam about reading people rather than someone who just has a good read innately.

[blondfrog]

Oh okay I see where your coming from. So my approach to this is that I tend to detect it more than the average person. I am well aware that everyone has intuition. But I am telling you my instinct is basically 100% accurate. That's what I am so fascinated by.

[Sevenpointfive]

it's really easy to draw conclusions based on your own insecurities. and while you might be right sometimes; you are often wrong-ish. people make a choice fairly quickly when it comes to accepting someone new. (that's already your bias (not your special gift) and everyone does it).

whatever cues you're picking up doesn't mean exactly what you think they mean all of the time. it could be something simple like focusing on how someone looks at you. you can read a lot from that. it's made hookup culture incredibly easy for those that get it.

but let's stop there. you have to give someone a reason to change their mind. relationships are earned. someone could be hot as hell but dumb as shit, then you find out they're really good at the same job that you do? i grew up in an incredibly judgmental arena and i am proof that you can change and change those opinions of others about you.

[jshm2]

LOL, in other words, you've become a presumptuous twat.

[blondfrog]

That's not fair how dare you assume that about me? lol

[AngryCarl2]

If you say hello and they start looking for the exit that's a pretty good clue.

[TheWombRaider]

They aren't thinking that you are about yourself and are self conscious

[NathanDavis]

and... what do I think about you?

[blondfrog]

Well whatever answer I give you you will just say that my assumption about you is wrong so you could prove me wrong lol.

[NathanDavis]

you were right...

so, you're wrong

[dustybiker2]

Proof or it didn't happen.

[blondfrog]

Based off their body language and how they can talk to you you can tell what they think about you. Even if its more indirectly or passive aggressively.

[dustybiker2]

Oh I was teasing. You are often dry yourself.

[blondfrog]

True lol.

[DrPepper12]

Welcome to teacher superpower status!

[douride2]

And sooo?

[blondfrog]

I guess I just wanted you to pat me on the top of my head and tell me I am a good boy lol.

[douride2]

You are a good boy. LOL

[blondfrog]

Thanks 🙏 😂

[jahaims]

So you think