Do you agree that child birth and pregnancy is disgusting and terrifying? if not, why?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

[Hardon-Collider]

At your age it should be. ㅤ

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

will be whatever my age is lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s not for me, and while I see it as a hellish experience that’s not worth the trouble, that doesn’t mean this isn’t the act that once gave women the status of godhood. The creation of life, the power of birth, it was once seen as an act only the divine could give and women were godly compared to men (before they figured out that a woman who had never interacted with a man couldn’t get pregnant) and who am I to stop other women from using their bodies for the intention of creating miracles? I’m not going to call it disgusting for them, for them it’s a beautiful experience.

[Snowman84]

The big three religions are patriarchal to the core, the whole virgin birth story, the shaming of sex (original sin) all came from them. It’s sick and disgusting they cast shame on sex, femininity, childbirth (illegitimate children) I think pregnancy and childbirth are beautiful things in their own right.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You know, you could have just posted that on your own

[Snowman84]

Probably

[midnightmoon05]

At 15. You sound normal to have these fear.
focus on your age group priority, such as higher education, study, being helpful and respectful to your loved ones. child birth is not.
when that time comes, life changes… so don’t worry till then.
work on being kind and nice to fellow gaggers.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Sure but i won't be nice to u.

[midnightmoon05]

You don’t need to be nice to me.
Be kind and love yourself … that’s what you can do.
If you can be kind to others here… you will feel better about yourself.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Dude what? ik ur a troll

[midnightmoon05]

That’s all you got? Same crap… bye little kid

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

so u are a troll?

[midnightmoon05]

In your head.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

nah on here

[msc545]

Well, it is the way that all of us got here, and a lot of women seem to not have any real trouble with it, and a lot of them actually seem to enjoy it, so it can't be all bad. I think maybe you need a little more sex education to understand that pregnancy is a normal condition and not a disease of some sort.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Normal won't make me wanna do it lmao

[msc545]

You don't have to do it and you don't have to want to do it. It's going to be up to you and it will be your choice. Don't let anybody talk you into doing anything you don't want to do.

[Anonymous]

No it isn't. I speak from experience, so I guess I get to have an opinion.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

really, why do u think so?

[Opinion Owner]

Because it is a beautiful, natural thing. The birth part can be painful, but it's a pain you forget as soon as you hold that baby. If you have your age listed correctly, it's normal that you would feel the way you do.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

ok, u do u🤷‍♀️ women who do that are strong asf but it sure as hell won't be me lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, maybe not. I used to think I'd never do it. Now, I can't imagine life without my son. You have plenty of time to think about those things.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

after everything I've heard, its safe to say ill never do that. i was especially disgusted when somebody mentions some women rip from their vag to their ass, thats a hell no for me lol

[Opinion Owner]

And that's okay too. Thankfully that didn't happen to me.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

It def does, going through something like that is traumatic for many and needs a hell of a lot of courage. Courage no man ever will have. now stop glazing men so fucking much u ragebaiter.

[midnightmoon05]

You don’t talk nice young lady.

[midnightmoon05]

With such poor attitude, better you don’t have kids.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Dude what? How am i not talking nice?

[midnightmoon05]

Reread what you wrote…
And I am not a dude… 🤦‍♀️
no respect…

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

i have, whats the problem? you’ll be fine, and i have a feeling thats not ur real age.. or gender lol

[midnightmoon05]

Hahahaha… you are showing how young and precious you are. Cute. …

I am a proud mother of two teens (16, 18). I am a kindergarten school teacher … I have a lot of gag friends here.
My hubby is here on gag 😂
I have been here since 2011/2012… you were 2-3 years old when I joined gag.
You are not talking nice - you use bad words towards other follow gaggers…

She is answering yuu is r question that she has the courage to go through being a mom and happy with her choices … as many have… such as your own mom…
I hope she is well and educating you to be a decent human being.

[Opinion Owner]

You know, I thought I was rather nice in what I said. Apparently someone who has experienced pregnancy and natural childbirth doesn't know as much as some child that's heard horror stories.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

@Midnightmoon5 when did i show how young i am lol?

Ok good for u👍

She literally said that she thought my responses were pretty nice, i just told her some stuff that I've heard. stop assuming shit about other when you have no idea.

[midnightmoon05]

I will end this since you lock age appropriate comprehension skills.
Your age? 🤦‍♀️

As a mom/school teacher and for the better of our future… I suggest you stop watching tictok and focus doing some reading and having better family discuss with your mom… if she is around. Sit and talk to her, help her in the kitchen, eat a meal together.

I - according to you have no idea and is supposed to be a man, a wrong age and all of us are wrong about birthing.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

You can easily check my age on my account, or in my username, just gotta use some common sense

I already do that with my mom, but what does that have to do with this?

When did i say that? stop putting words in my mouth.

[lightbulb27]

yes it is. only thing I've seen born is kittens and that was bad enough.

[slatyb]

No, but I can't get pregnant. Pregnancy and delivery permanently change a woman's body so I don't recommend it unless she wants a child.

There's no law saying you have to have a child. Many women do not.

[Anonymous]

Terrifying yes, disgusting, hell no. You'll fee different when you grow up.

And if not, do the world a favor and don't ever have children. They would just turn out like you, and the world needs less people like you, not more.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

my god, who pissed in ur cereal today?

[Opinion Owner]

Just you. I read through some of the questions you have asked since you created your most recent account. As with all your other accounts, it's clear you are a very unhappy person who likes to drag others down to your level. I'm sure your current account will be banned soon like all your others.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

what r u on ab?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh come on now, you're that fat ginger who hates everyone, almost as much as you hate yourself.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

dude what? what r u talking about?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

r u high or smth?

[KostasKouvalis]

It kind of IS, but it's part of life/nature. It's so messy and some poor women tear so much. 😬 I wish there was a more pleasent and safer method

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

thats why ill skip out on that part tbh

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Damm have the dating options gotten that bad?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

what does this have to do with dating? and i dont even date, im 15 lol🤣

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It's hard for me to imagine why you'd see it as disgusting unless you just couldnt visualize a good life after giving birth.

When I was 15 I remember people getting excited about having kids. Our older friends would show off their belly's and let you feel the baby kicking inside. Usually they were so happy it made you wonder what it would be like to love something that much.

So ya I'd imagine a shitty dating pool is what it would take to ruin that for society.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Well yeah i can't, i believe i would get really depressed + having to deal with a screaming baby, hell no.
And birth itself is just disgusting to me. Having a living thing inside of me, ripping vag to ass is disgusting to me and having to poop myself infront of strangers.

Well you’re a man, you dont have to go through this.

Dating still has nothing to do with this, just personal opinions👍

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Fair

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

lmao

[Jackblue]

Well I suppose it is like building a house, the process isn't aesthetically appealing, but the end result is. I can see how for women it would certainly be terrifying. If I was a woman I would probably get myself sterilized.

[Alex-Snow]

Not at all. That is how we all came into this world. Sure it must be stressful for the mom and to some extent the father

[Snowman84]

I seen my sons born, it’s natural and actually quite beautiful in a sense.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

how?

[Snowman84]

It’s just natural, it’s not terrible or gross.

Pregnant women are absolutely beautiful 😻 I love seeing their pregnancy bump

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

is that like a weird kink?

[Snowman84]

Pregnant women can be a turn on, not childbirth though

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

so its a kink…

[Snowman84]

I suppose it is. I don’t think it’s especially weird though

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

it is…

[loveslongnails]

I agree. It's horrible, and women should stop doing both for at least the next 30 years.

[beefcakebradybatson]

There's a small but real risk of maternal death.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

yeah but women also risk so much more than their life

[beefcakebradybatson]

Imjustahandsomeolderblackcowboy, and I know, imjustagirl15.(Are you actually FIFTEEN? I was 15 in 1968, when my Detroit Tigers won the Major League Baseball World Series.)

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

yup i am, ok👍 has nothing to do with this but ok ig

[shortster]

Nope. Advanced in medical science has largely made childbirth fairly safe for women.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

fairly safe? it still kills a lot

[shortster]

18.6 per 100,000 live births is pretty rare. That is 0.0186%; and reading what the CDC classifies as a maternal death. I am left wondering if complications during an abortion are included in that stat? As it begs the question, if the abortion wasn't performed would the mother have survived. Which is why I think that should be a separate statistic; whether it is or not, I am unsure.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Women still die, now imagine the women who dont have healthcare and how many women die from child birth there.
Are u trying to turn this around and say that an abortion is more dangerous than giving birth?
men are insane.

[shortster]

The abortion pill has a 10% rate of serious side effects including death for women that take it. Even if only 1% of the serious side effects is death that is 10 times the maternal mortality rate. A side effect of Fentanyl is asphyxiation; people who die from that should be classified as fentanyl overdose deaths and not generally as asphyxiation deaths.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

In under 1 in 100 000 procedures of safe abortions, women die.
Compared to, child birth, around 230 out of 100 000 births.

i wish i could share the links to my sources but im not at that xp level yet, sorry!

[shortster]

Is it from the CDC or WHO? Also surgical abortions and medical abortions are two different things. As I was specifically talking about medical abortions. Plus I wasn't saying if abortion was safer or not; just that the stats should be listed separately so we can judge if one is safer or not.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

I dont think it was either.

They are also extremely rare, also about 1 out of 100 000 procedures. So it doesn't make a difference, its just that it might hurt a little more, but child birth hurts more!

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I don't. It's how we all got here.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

have u ever seen a birth?

[FunkyMonkee]

On video, several times. I was also personally involved in one a very long time ago.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

and when you heard the woman screaming and yelling for her life, you thought it was beautiful?

[FunkyMonkee]

It's something you have to go through! You should've thought of that before you ate the apple!!
I've seen some women have a very easy time of it. No screaming at all.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Are you talking to me or that other girl?

Well no, i can just choose not to, which i will lol🤣
I dont remember eating an apple? eve did, no?
okay, good for them!

[FunkyMonkee]

No, that was for you.
Yes, Eve.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Ok.

So then i didn't eat an apple lol

[FunkyMonkee]

True but, supposedly, womankind ate the apple, thus all the problems in making babies.
There's deer, bunnies, squirrels, chipmunks, raccoons and badgers all over this area and I never hear and of them screaming with they have babies. With the deer, mom just stands there and the kid drops right out and she just casually steps away like nothing just happened..

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

and thats supposted to be my fault? bffr just stfu.
They do tho, birth is painful for everyone, but especially humans. did you know its easier to give birth standing up but people dont do that anymore because its harder for the doctors to work then?
animals dont do a lot other than procreate lol

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I don't even believe that bullshit but, if it IS true, Eve is the one you should be pissed at!!
I've seen women sit in a small pool of warm water and have a kid and it just slides right out with almost no effort on her part.
That's because they aren't smart enough to use machines or invent them and have no hands to be able to use them so, other than just standing around, eating and shitting, what else have they got to do?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Im pretty sure none of that bs is true.

Birth is different for everyone, for some its easy, for some its not.
With all due respect, you’re a man, i dont think you should have an opinion if it hurts or not to give birth.

[FunkyMonkee]

Can't I sympathize with women?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

yet you said its our fault its like this?

[FunkyMonkee]

IF Adam & Eve were real, which I doubt.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

we both know they’re not.

[FunkyMonkee]

Correct.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

so it was pretty weird to bring it up then

[Daytoday79]

It's pretty messy