A older male friend of mine went into a well known 🌮 restaurant & complimented the order taker saying that she's beautiful. Now he's banned from it?

[sage2021]

My goodness! All he said to her was that her hair matched her uniform and she looked beautiful.
So, she runs and tells the manager what he said to her and she banned him to eternity from ever going inside the fast food restaurant and buying food.
Was it because he's an older man saying that? Because isn't this still America 🇺🇸 where we have a certain amount of free speech?
Can just anyone ban you from buying food at a fast food restaurant just for complimenting an employee?
Was that sexual harassment?

[Hagar88]

Women have been trained to think they can only be victims. Yes it was because he was an older man, if it was a younger man she found attractive after her shift her legs would have been behind her ears

[sage2021]

@Hagar88

I think he should sue them!! Isn't that against the law?

[FunkyMonkee]

Must've been a looney lefty operated place!!

[Anonymous]

my honest opinion is that men should stop complimenting a woman on how she looks. Just stop. This removes all opportunity for the psychotic bitches to "misinterpret" someone saying they have nice eyeballs, as meaning "i wanna follow you home and grape you", which is apparently women's first thought whenever a man they aren't physically attracted to compliments them in any way.

It just reminds me of how guys will tell a woman "you should smile more". It makes me cringe and vomit a little every time I hear it.

Women definitely need to calm their tits on the issue, but until they do, this is the best course of action. I'm tired of guys getting shit on for complimenting a woman. But until that stops, maybe we can just stop complimenting them.

[sage2021]

@Anonymous

That's a great 👍🏼 idea!! I am a woman and it wouldn't hurt my feelings at all if I was never complimented again! I don't need the attention for one thing. Some women do need and seek attention.
The guys should just give it right back to them!
Let's see how women react when they get banned from a restaurant or somewhere just for saying something that was just a compliment.
"Hey, nice shirt you're wearing" is sexual harassment SO bring it on! Flip the script on them! They need an attitude adjustment!!

(Not all women but most of them)

[lightbulb27]

in my view he has no recourse other than to say, forgive me I dind't know that rule and ask for a new waitress. nothing is posted about that.

but it's someone elses house and property, they make the rules.

odd... we know what was said lets be honest, that could be said differently and be quite creepy. If she and her boss were PMSing, it's worse.

I'd just let them know that it is their right to send away local millionaires and they will go elsewhere.

[NathanDavis]

were you there to witness it with your own eyes?

because... people who are inappropriate with waitresses or servers, ALWAYS say they did nothing wrong

it's quite rare when they go like "oh yeah, I wanted to make her uncomfortable and what I did was uncalled for" lol...

[Sunrising]

My view on this situation though I haven't been told all the facts, is that the young immature girl serving your friend, has thought your friend is making sexual advances to her.

The management at the restaurant obviously are supporting the girl, and would rather have her services than your friends custom.

Like you say the problem has arose because your friend is a older man, and perhaps he should have shown more maturity himself.

[Sunrising]

Perhaps some people on GAG's would say I should show more maturity by not giving the correct answers
But do people on GAG's just want the opinions they want to hear, and do people just chase the MHO's?
I don't think I do.

[AgentG111]

Sounds like a complete POS location. Stop going out. Stop talking to people. Until all adults start acting like adults it's time to ignore and shun all those supposed adults!

Humans are complete idiots.

[DonaldDarko]

This is why men don't approach women or compliment them. Communist scum like this.

[Anonymous]

It was because he was an old fucker, if she found him attractive she would not have told the management and would probably end up fucking him. He should have told her that she was an ugly fucking whore, which is probably most likely. Then the bitch would have something to be mad about.

[AviatorTom]

That restaurant obviously doesn't want his business. Their loss.

[Xawyx-2]

That's unusual, it was just a compliment.

[sage2021]

Xawyz-2

Do you think he has any rights in this?
Because now he has to drive to another town to get our lunch. 😕

[Xawyx-2]

I think he has, but the situation is not fair to him.

[Surely]

I agree that it should have been taken as a compliment. But since we were not there. It is hard to say.

[robocop666]

dont say these things uninvited.